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Cuddlemii: True! How have you been? Sorry I didn't respond to your greeting on the other thread. I can see you are doing fine. Cheers.

bittyend: Thank you for accepting defeat.

bittyend: The 'WILL' can go both ways, my dear.

The man also has the 'will' the moment he requests for the intimacy.

bittyend: How about the UNWRITTEN RULE that you're entitled to sex in marriage whenever you want it?

Marriage is a UNION, and your partner is your other half.. You own him/her indirectly.

That's why I said the topic is inconclusive, else, people are going to be prosecuted for the wrong reason.

bittyend: Firstly, I'm not a bible thumper, and religion isn't my thing.

Secondly, I don't deal with morals when it comes to delicate situations like this. Moral is subjective, and when dealing with anything delicate, we have to deal with the law..

If the law gives you the right to demand sex from someone, anytime you feel like it, why then should it be denied?

N/B: I'm supporting rape of any form, I'm just arguing based on my interpretation of the law (playing the devil's advocate ).

bittyend: Nah Nayah, it's your obligation as wife to give your husband sex, and vice versa.

Relationship is where the 'naturally' thing can be upheld..

bittyend: How's it not forced when you MUST share your wealth with your wife when you get divorced?

And why do people get prenuptial agreements?

The 'forced' part is an unwritten rule, but we all know it's there..

You're talking about a relationship my dear, not marriage.

bittyend: Yeah, I already made reference to the 'violent' with PROOFS part.

Marriage doesn't mean natural share, it's a compulsory or forced share, hence why people get prenuptial agreement before marriage.

Marriage itself has to be re-defined.

Chimezie198: Guess wot. . . . . She gots xtra xtra large nyash.

sweetchicks: sweetie i gotr the posts modified just cuz of you... you know i meant chimpazie right?

sweetchicks: is a virgin...never in his life has he seen a gals boobies b4.

Chimezie198: Seen a prick before

bittyend: Hey, PS the topic isn't about me, it's a discourse and I'm posting what I think about the topic.

Sex in a marriage is the moral right of both partners involved, and they both vowed to be together for better and for worse. I'm not a religious guy, but if you agreed both legally and religiously to uphold your rights (sex is one of them) in the marriage, how can you prove that the guy had sex with you without your consent?

bittyend: And since sex is legally, religiously, and spiritually(lol) allowed in marriage; and ra.pe means the crime, committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with him, esp. by the threat or use of violence. This topic is inconclusive!

If you don't like sex, go for a sexless marriage, or get a divorce.

Cuddlemii: You always enjoy these kind of threads