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Seriously, I don't know how this is a biggie.
If you date a married man for 2 years without suspecting then it's your fault!
The truth is; most women willingly convince themselves to believe the most ridiculous lies. The signs must have been everywhere I'm sure!
Be sure not to fall for this sort of trick the next time. I trust that you're now smarter

Sounds like a really daft question to ask, but I really wanna know how things are on the other side.
I've been married for just over 5yrs now, but I can't really say it's all hunky dory (well, marriages aren't always all that).
It isn't doom and gloom either, but the romantic side isn't getting better. I mean, I can't handle not having intimacy at least once a week for instance.
I'd really like to know whether this is a big ask 'cuz my other half seems to be able to handle it for a month or two. I'm not sure if I've got misplaced passion, but I'm sure not all women are like that (as you can imagine, I wasn't exactly a *dull* boy b4 I got married).

Does childbearing make women lose their affinity for intimacy?

My woman doesn't even ask for intimacy, which makes me think that I'm the one something's wrong with. We have a lovely family, blessed with two kids, but I'm tempted to look for occasional satisfaction elsewhere (yeah, I know it isn't the best but I can't seem to be able to change my woman). I know that could be dangerous, but, this is why I find myself btw a rock and a hard place.
Please share your experience if you think it'd help me.

I'm not fooling around, so please your honest advice will be appreciated.
Though I'm a Christian, I wouldn't wanna read any Bible verses here as I'd like to see comments coming from a practical perspective.