Nice write-up. Very laudable, suffice to say our value system is shaky; moral decadence is at its peak. But nonetheless hope is not lost; if we stand for what we believe in.

Dacronym:

If the person doesn't want to Come over

It depends on what you have in mind, however there are restaurants in your area i believe?, find out the price of their food, surely you will see price list that tallies with your budget. Like I said earlier, it depends on what you have in mind

It is very wrong, and it will paint a very bad image of you, besides before you met the dude, didn't you have a means of solving your problems? On a lighter mood You don't even know if the guy too needs money for some stuffs . Anyways it is wrong to tax anyone you just met be it boy or girl.

Ohhh Thank you

Samelle:

Grains of Selim or Negro Pepper

Looking yummy,Thanks for the tip.
Pls what is the English name for Uda?

My question is; Is she in a relationship?
If yes, maybe she is trying to keep you as an alternative, should her supposed relationship don't work out.
In my opinion,you are in the friend-zone, and she is trying to play safe as well.