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Crime / Re: Man Kidnaps 5-year Old Boy In Ogun, Arrested In Abuja (pictured) by nebeolisa(m): 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
Bring d guy to me lemme treat his five cup |
Family / 5 Unexpected Things That Could Be Destroying Your Marriage by nebeolisa(m): 7:06am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Often when we think about what damages a relationship, our minds turn to money troubles or infidelity. And although those are very real issues for many couples, there are several other things in life that can contribute to the demise of your marriage. We’ve all heard how maintaining a marriage is hard work. Well, it’s true. But it’s not only about putting in the work. It’s also about keeping an eye out for those day-to-day things that creep up on your relationship and start to become a problem. And typically, these are things that you don’t expect to cause much damage. Sometimes, it’s even stuff that you thought was there to make your relationship stronger. But you see, even if something has the potential to make your relationship stronger, it can also make your relationship weaker… if you aren’t careful. Here are a few unexpected things that could be destroying your marriage. 1. Your Gadgets I love technology as much as the next person. But I also know how distracting it is, particularly if it’s a critical part of the work you do. Whether it’s navigating the web, completing a project, or catching up with social media, too much time on your computer can begin to damage your relationship. Consider blocking out times during the week where you unplug and spend more time with your spouse. 2. Your friends Friends typically mean well, but does that really matter when their “well-meaning” actions and words start to interfere with your relationship. You and your spouse both need friends, but you also have to think about what role those friends play in your life and in your relationship. How much are you telling them about your marriage? Do you spend more of your free time with them than you do with your spouse? These are just some of the questions you should ask yourself to determine if your friendships are strengthening your marriage and not damaging it 3. Your kids love my kids and so does my husband. But, if you are not careful, a funny thing happens when you have kids. You start to have your life revolve around them and they become the priority—all the time. As a parent, certainly having your kids as the priority seems like the right thing, but your spouse should still be a priority in your life too. Focusing only on your kids and forgetting all about the person raising them with you can become a problem. 4. Your career I’m a pretty driven person, and I have no intentions of changing that. But I also know that there is a need to pace myself because I have a husband and kids. If I become consumed by my drive to succeed, I can begin to ignore their needs. My husband is my biggest cheerleader, but if he realises that cheering for me is causing me to forget about him, imagine how he’ll feel? Focusing on your career is critical and commendable, but not at the expense of your marriage and your family. 5. Your self esteem Low self-esteem has a negative impact on every area of your life. If you don’t feel good about who you are, you end up in this unhealthy pattern that compels you to look outwards for validation. The problem is, your spouse can’t give you anything that you aren’t willing to give yourself, nor should they have to. You may not realize it, but low self-esteem is one of those things that slowly eats away at the relationships in your life, and your marriage is certainly one of them. Blackandmarriedwithkids.com 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: RMD Celebrates 53rd Birthday-Photos by nebeolisa(m): 12:23pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Rubbish post do. Make frontpage diz days unto d next post joooor |
TV/Movies / Re: Nigerian Censors Approve 'half Of A Yellow Sun' by nebeolisa(m): 5:57am On Jul 05, 2014 |
I av waited enough tank God I can watch it now ..........Letz go Dia |
Fashion / Re: Who Rocked The 90's Hairstyle Best? (photos) by nebeolisa(m): 4:40pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Who cares |
Family / Re: 5 Behaviours That Can Make Your Neighbours Respect You by nebeolisa(m): 4:38pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
In terms of galfrnds/boifrnd I dnt care moving to next p |
Phones / Re: Nigerian Twitter Users (Tweeps) Thread - Let's Follow Each Other by nebeolisa(m): 1:18pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
https://mobile.twitter.com/nebeolisa @nebeolisa I will follow u back immediately |
Nairaland / General / Re: Silly Things You Believed As A Kid? by nebeolisa(m): 5:36pm On Sep 06, 2013 |
beliv dat if sum1 is been beatn with broom stick he/she will not erection Lol |
TV/Movies / Angelo, Denied Having S*x With Beverly ... In The Ongoing B BA Reality Show, by nebeolisa(m): 5:45am On Aug 25, 2013 |
Though it is widely believed that the South African housemate, Angelo, had s*x with the Nigerian housemate, Beverly, in the ongoing Big Brother Africa reality show, the dreadlocked guy has denied it. He said they were ‘just kissing’. Speaking to Saturday Beats on the phone earlier in the week, after being evicted from the show, Angelo said, “We didn’t have s*x. We talked about it. There were some things I said I wasn’t going to do in the house. I respect my mum so much. Before I got into the house, there were things I told my mummy I wasn’t going to do. I wasn’t butt naked. It looked as if we were having s*x in that bathtub. We were just kissing. I couldn’t take advantage of Beverly because I respect her so much.” Respect is not the only thing Angelo has for the Nigerian lady. Angelo also confirmed that he is in love with her and intends to pursue the relationship. “We will try and work things out and see how we can make our relationship work. At the same time, I hope the people of Nigeria don’t hate Bev. I would love to come to Nigeria and experience Nigerian culture and take lots of pepper,” he said. Now that he is out of the house, so many people feel the South African will go back to the girlfriend he left behind before BBA. But he said he wasn’t in any relationship before he got into the show. “I didn’t have a girlfriend before I got into the house, but I had someone I told to wait for me so that we would see what would happen when I get out of the house. I will be focused on what I want to do as a person and then focus on my relationship with Bev and see where we will take it to,” he said. No matter his feelings for Beverly though, Angelo said he hopes Melvin, the other Nigerian housemate, comes out tops in the show. “Melvin is very humble and he is not a selfish person. I wish he wins. I think he is a stronger competition than Beverly,” he said. Meanwhile, the show ends tomorrow with Elikem, Cleo, Dillish, Melvin and Beverly as the finalists
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Celebrities / Re: Prison Break Star Wentworth Miller "Michael Scofield" Reveals He Is Gay by nebeolisa(m): 12:23pm On Aug 22, 2013 |
I know that for longtime ago now wonder wat females fans will do to em self after knowing dat he is a gay |
Jokes Etc / Football Vs Sex by nebeolisa(m): 7:19am On Aug 12, 2013 |
1. Going to your bf/gf without being invited = OFFSIDE. 2. Dating a girl today and having sex on the same day = FREE-KICK. 3. Condom = GOALKEEPER 4. Condom breaks = PENALTY 5. Abortion = RED CARD 6. A girl with lots of energy = CAPTAIN 7. Having sex without a condom = OWN GOAL 8. Taking a lot of time without coming = MAN OF THE MATCH. 9.Banging 3 girls in a day = HAT-TRICK. 10. Having many chicks and banging all = MVP 11. Having sex with your ex = FRIENDLY MATCH 12. 8 years of sex without getting a child = ARSENAL 13. After 2 rounds, u request for more =EXTRA TIME. 14. Taking it gently when having sex = FAIR PLAY 15. Biting her n!pples = SUAREZ 16.Two legs on shoulder = THROWIN 17. Asking her 'how do you want it' = Taking instructions on the sideline. 18. A lady using pills after sex and later still got pregnant = DEFENSIVE ERROR 19.Girl being pregnant = GoOoOoOallllll 20.Ur guy collect ur chick= True pass 21.Having sex with a girl..and your mum open d door= Injury 22.You and your girl break up= Game over 23. Girl tell u to stop= YELLOW CARD You can add ur own let the fun continue |
Celebrities / Re: 2shotz' Wife Reacts To Beverly Osu's Battery Allegations by nebeolisa(m): 5:14am On Aug 10, 2013 |
only two of em know wat happened went dia are dating ? |
Sports / Re: Cristiano Is Not The 'real' Ronaldo - Mourinho by nebeolisa(m): 1:18pm On Aug 04, 2013 |
disagreed maybe he said dat cuz cr7 refuse to join him at chelsea when he left madrid |
Sports / Cristiano Is Not The 'real' Ronaldo - Mourinho by nebeolisa(m): 9:33am On Aug 04, 2013 |
The two-time Champions League winner has previously claimed that his compatriot "thinks he knows everything" Jose Mourinho has taken another swipe at Cristiano Ronaldo by claiming that that his fellow Portuguese is not the "real" Ronaldo. The Chelsea boss, who recently stated that his former charge at Real Madrid "thinks he knows everything", insinuated that he has more respect for Brazil legend Ronaldo, with whom he worked during his time at Barcelona under the guidance of Bobby Robson. "I was manager for the first time in the 2000 year but, before that, I was assistant in big clubs and with big managers and coaching the best players in the world, so I was 30 and I was coaching Ronaldo, not this one [Cristiano], the real one, the Brazilian Ronaldo," Mourinho told ESPN. "I was coaching Rivaldo, I was coaching [Luis] Figo, I was coaching [Pep] Guardiola, I was coaching big players when I was very, very young. "So, at that time, I was not the manager, I was just an assistant but I was feeling that I had, in my hands, some potential and after that I start my career in the year 2000 and after four years I won my first Champions League and, after that, everything comes as a consequence." Mourinho left Camp Nou in 2000 to coach Benfica but it was at rivals Porto that he became a household name on the back of their remarkable Champions League success in 2004. AGREE OR DISAGREE |
Politics / Re: Borno Govt : No GSM Network For Now by nebeolisa(m): 12:30pm On Jul 31, 2013 |
bbpreye.:iz a name of city in america u.s.a. . |
TV/Movies / Re: Evictions: End Of The Road For Annabel! by nebeolisa(m): 8:07pm On Jul 28, 2013 |
i av been expectn ur eviction 4 long but u kip surviving gud bye wit ur gossip |
TV/Movies / Re: Breaking News: Zambia’s Sulu Evicted by nebeolisa(m): 8:06pm On Jul 28, 2013 |
sulu srry i rued my best to save u but it didnt worl srry . Ua out i will niss u |
TV/Movies / Re: Bassey And Pokello Evicted From Big Brother Africa by nebeolisa(m): 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
ItsModella:shw even called hasef queen of swag nd daz wat she iz |
TV/Movies / Re: Bassey And Pokello Evicted From Big Brother Africa by nebeolisa(m): 8:08pm On Jul 21, 2013 |
4 Bassey am srry but 4 Ppokello she got wat she deserved she insulted westafricans by calling us modafukaz 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: Super Eagles Performance Against Tahiti - How Would You Rate It? by nebeolisa(m): 9:09am On Jun 18, 2013 |
they all deserve to be flogged walahi c green ideye wit rubbish dribbling mikel mba nd musa flop |
Jokes Etc / Re: Conversation Of Cristiano & Messi.. by nebeolisa(m): 10:11am On May 07, 2013 |
i love dis. but are u jst tryn to tell us dat cr7 iz beta dan messi |
Jokes Etc / Who Do You Hate Most Among These? by nebeolisa(m): 5:30am On May 07, 2013 |
1.People who don't brush their teeth. 2.People with stinking legs 3.People who shower once a week 4.Women who wear weave 5.Women who bleach themselves to be look beautiful 6.Gay/lesbians 7.People who regularly pick their nose and extract mucus with their fingers 8.Women who receive credit from you but never call you,instead they please call. 9.Gold diggers 1 Like |
TV/Movies / Re: Which Nigerian Book Would You Want Adapted Into A Movie? by nebeolisa(m): 6:52am On Apr 30, 2013 |
Witness to tears. |
Phones / Re: What Is The Full Meaning Of MTN? by nebeolisa(m): 4:22pm On Apr 11, 2013 |
Mask_ed terorist of naija Or most terifying network of naija |
Jokes Etc / Re: Picture Of A Manchester United Family by nebeolisa(m): 6:32pm On Feb 24, 2013 |
vry funny pixs 1Rooney 2 david de gea man utd goalkeeper 3 man utd coach with a referee dat once said dat he iz a of man utd @Buchi |
Celebrities / Re: Celebrities React To Goldie's Death On Twitter by nebeolisa(m): 3:28pm On Feb 15, 2013 |
May ur soul rest in peace dear GoldieMay ur soul rest in peace dear GoldieMay ur soul rest in peace dear Goldie 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Mikel Obi Banned And Fined £60,000 Over Referee Incident by nebeolisa(m): 6:45am On Dec 07, 2012 |
he got wat he deserved . u knw dat u dnt av any evidence y shud u report atall . Or did u c london as nigeria . Mikel no bribe dia ok |
Romance / Things You Must Do For Your Girlfriend So That You Can Win Her Heart''''' by nebeolisa(m): 6:20am On Nov 27, 2012 |
Stay away frm work or school n spend time with her everyday. She will like it. Buy her samsung galaxy5 ipad n recharge it with 15k every 2days. Use her pic as a wallpaper on your miserable nokia fone. Take her out for shopping in expensive stores on d island every saturday n make sure wha she shops cost at least 500k. Hide like 1 millon naira check in her handbag or kitchen every sunday to surprise her. To avoid family interferrance, rent a 5 bedroom executive duplex in Lekki n buy her a sleek BMW convertible, it's just 8 million u kno. Neva ask too many questions if u see her with another man in that house or car or anywhere. Pls always accept any excuse she gives u no matta how stupid it sounds. Don't allow her to do any house chores, do it for your angel, wash her undies n cook...So romantic! Don't come to sex life n complain if she deny u sex. Wait till her kingdom com. If she doesn't like your mom, your dad, your sibblings n ur friends just buy a gun n shoot dem all to please her. Money should not be the problem, there are many banks n atm machines u can rob, but don't let her know. Never ask her the meaning of King Mugu if she saves your name like that on the fone u bought 4her. Make sure you attend her wedding when she invites u, of course you'll kno what to buy for the newly wed. Goodluck 2u loverboy |
Business / Re: What Do You Do When You Are Dead Broke...... by nebeolisa(m): 5:56am On Nov 27, 2012 |
the only solution is to pray. God is there 4 you. I once found my self in such condition |
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