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Crime / Re: Man Kidnaps 5-year Old Boy In Ogun, Arrested In Abuja (pictured) by nebeolisa(m): 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2015
Bring d guy to me lemme treat his five cup
Family / 5 Unexpected Things That Could Be Destroying Your Marriage by nebeolisa(m): 7:06am On Jul 31, 2014
Often when we think
about what damages a relationship, our minds turn to
money troubles or infidelity. And although those are
very real issues for many couples, there are several
other things in life that can contribute to the demise
of your marriage.
We’ve all heard how maintaining a marriage is hard
work. Well, it’s true. But it’s not only about putting in
the work. It’s also about keeping an eye out for those
day-to-day things that creep up on your relationship
and start to become a problem. And typically, these
are things that you don’t expect to cause much
damage. Sometimes, it’s even stuff that you thought
was there to make your relationship stronger. But you
see, even if something has the potential to make your
relationship stronger, it can also make your
relationship weaker… if you aren’t careful.


Here are a few unexpected things that could be
destroying your marriage.


1. Your Gadgets

I love technology as much as the next person. But I
also know how distracting it is, particularly if it’s a
critical part of the work you do. Whether it’s
navigating the web, completing a project, or catching
up with social media, too much time on your
computer can begin to damage your relationship.
Consider blocking out times during the week where
you unplug and spend more time with your spouse.


2. Your friends

Friends typically mean well, but does that really matter
when their “well-meaning” actions and words start to
interfere with your relationship. You and your spouse
both need friends, but you also have to think about
what role those friends play in your life and in your
relationship. How much are you telling them about
your marriage? Do you spend more of your free time
with them than you do with your spouse? These are
just some of the questions you should ask yourself to
determine if your friendships are strengthening your
marriage and not damaging it


3. Your kids

love my kids and so does my husband. But, if you are
not careful, a funny thing happens when you have
kids. You start to have your life revolve around them
and they become the priority—all the time. As a
parent, certainly having your kids as the priority
seems like the right thing, but your spouse should still
be a priority in your life too. Focusing only on your
kids and forgetting all about the person raising them
with you can become a problem.


4. Your career

I’m a pretty driven person, and I have no intentions of
changing that. But I also know that there is a need to
pace myself because I have a husband and kids. If I
become consumed by my drive to succeed, I can
begin to ignore their needs. My husband is my biggest
cheerleader, but if he realises that cheering for me is
causing me to forget about him, imagine how he’ll
feel? Focusing on your career is critical and
commendable, but not at the expense of your
marriage and your family.


5. Your self esteem

Low self-esteem has a negative impact on every area
of your life. If you don’t feel good about who you are,
you end up in this unhealthy pattern that compels you
to look outwards for validation. The problem is, your
spouse can’t give you anything that you aren’t willing
to give yourself, nor should they have to. You may not
realize it, but low self-esteem is one of those things
that slowly eats away at the relationships in your life,
and your marriage is certainly one of them.


Blackandmarriedwithkids.com

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Celebrities / Re: RMD Celebrates 53rd Birthday-Photos by nebeolisa(m): 12:23pm On Jul 07, 2014
Rubbish post do. Make frontpage diz days unto d next post joooor
TV/Movies / Re: Nigerian Censors Approve 'half Of A Yellow Sun' by nebeolisa(m): 5:57am On Jul 05, 2014
I av waited enough tank God I can watch it now ..........Letz go Dia
Fashion / Re: Who Rocked The 90's Hairstyle Best? (photos) by nebeolisa(m): 4:40pm On Jul 04, 2014
Who cares
Family / Re: 5 Behaviours That Can Make Your Neighbours Respect You by nebeolisa(m): 4:38pm On Jul 04, 2014
In terms of galfrnds/boifrnd I dnt care moving to next p
Phones / Re: Nigerian Twitter Users (Tweeps) Thread - Let's Follow Each Other by nebeolisa(m): 1:18pm On Jan 01, 2014
https://mobile.twitter.com/nebeolisa
@nebeolisa I will follow u back immediately
Nairaland / General / Re: Silly Things You Believed As A Kid? by nebeolisa(m): 5:36pm On Sep 06, 2013
beliv dat if sum1 is been beatn with broom stick he/she will not erection
Lol
TV/Movies / Angelo, Denied Having S*x With Beverly ... In The Ongoing B BA Reality Show, by nebeolisa(m): 5:45am On Aug 25, 2013
Though it is widely believed that the South African
housemate, Angelo, had s*x with the Nigerian
housemate, Beverly, in the ongoing Big Brother
Africa reality show, the dreadlocked guy has denied
it. He said they were ‘just kissing’. Speaking to
Saturday Beats on the phone earlier in the week, after being evicted from the show, Angelo said,
“We didn’t have s*x. We talked about it. There
were some things I said I wasn’t going to do in the
house. I respect my mum so much.
Before I got into the house,
there were things I told my mummy I wasn’t going to do. I
wasn’t butt naked. It looked as
if we were having s*x in that bathtub. We were
just kissing. I
couldn’t take advantage of
Beverly because I respect her so much.” Respect is not the only thing
Angelo has for the Nigerian lady.
Angelo also confirmed that he is
in love with her and intends to
pursue the relationship. “We will try and work
things out and see how we can make
our relationship work. At the
same time, I hope the people of
Nigeria don’t hate Bev. I would
love to come to Nigeria and experience Nigerian
culture and take lots of pepper,” he said. Now that he is out of
the
house, so many people feel the
South African will go back to
the girlfriend he left behind
before BBA. But he said he wasn’t in any relationship before he got into the
show. “I didn’t have a girlfriend
before I got into the house, but
I had someone I told to wait for
me so that we would see what
would happen when I get out of the house. I will be focused on what I want to do as
a person
and then focus on my
relationship with Bev and see
where we will take it to,” he
said. No matter his feelings for Beverly though, Angelo said he
hopes Melvin, the other Nigerian
housemate, comes out tops in
the show. “Melvin is very humble and he
is not a selfish person. I wish he
wins. I think he is a stronger competition than Beverly,” he
said. Meanwhile, the show ends
tomorrow with Elikem, Cleo,
Dillish, Melvin and Beverly as the
finalists

Celebrities / Re: Prison Break Star Wentworth Miller "Michael Scofield" Reveals He Is Gay by nebeolisa(m): 12:23pm On Aug 22, 2013
I know that for longtime ago now wonder wat females fans will do to em self after knowing dat he is a gay
Jokes Etc / Football Vs Sex by nebeolisa(m): 7:19am On Aug 12, 2013
1. Going to your bf/gf without being invited =
OFFSIDE.

2. Dating a girl today and having sex on the same
day = FREE-KICK.

3. Condom = GOALKEEPER 4. Condom breaks = PENALTY

5. Abortion = RED CARD

6. A girl with lots of energy = CAPTAIN

7. Having sex without a condom = OWN GOAL

8. Taking a lot of time without coming = MAN OF
THE MATCH.

9.Banging 3 girls in a day = HAT-TRICK.

10. Having many chicks and banging all = MVP

11. Having sex with your ex = FRIENDLY MATCH

12. 8 years of sex without getting a child =
ARSENAL

13. After 2 rounds, u request for more =EXTRA
TIME.

14. Taking it gently when having sex = FAIR PLAY

15. Biting her n!pples = SUAREZ

16.Two legs on shoulder = THROWIN

17. Asking her 'how do you want it' = Taking
instructions on the sideline.

18. A lady using pills after sex and later still got
pregnant = DEFENSIVE ERROR

19.Girl being pregnant = GoOoOoOallllll

20.Ur guy collect ur chick= True pass

21.Having sex with a girl..and your mum open d
door= Injury

22.You and your girl break up= Game over

23. Girl tell u to stop= YELLOW CARD

You can add ur own let the fun continue
Celebrities / Re: 2shotz' Wife Reacts To Beverly Osu's Battery Allegations by nebeolisa(m): 5:14am On Aug 10, 2013
only two of em know wat happened went dia are dating ?
Sports / Re: Cristiano Is Not The 'real' Ronaldo - Mourinho by nebeolisa(m): 1:18pm On Aug 04, 2013
disagreed maybe he said dat cuz cr7 refuse to join him at chelsea when he left madrid
Sports / Cristiano Is Not The 'real' Ronaldo - Mourinho by nebeolisa(m): 9:33am On Aug 04, 2013
The two-time Champions League winner has previously claimed that his compatriot "thinks he knows
everything" Jose Mourinho has taken another swipe at Cristiano Ronaldo by claiming that that his fellow Portuguese is not the "real" Ronaldo. The Chelsea boss, who recently stated that his former charge at Real Madrid "thinks he knows
everything", insinuated that he has more respect for Brazil legend Ronaldo, with whom he worked
during his time at Barcelona under the guidance of Bobby Robson. "I was manager for the first time in the 2000 year but, before that, I was assistant in big clubs and
with big managers and coaching the best players in the world, so I was 30 and I was coaching Ronaldo,
not this one [Cristiano], the real one, the Brazilian Ronaldo," Mourinho told ESPN. "I was coaching Rivaldo, I was coaching [Luis] Figo, I was coaching [Pep] Guardiola, I was coaching big
players when I was very, very young. "So, at that time, I was not the manager, I was just an assistant but I was feeling that I had, in my
hands, some potential and after that I start my career in the year 2000 and after four years I won my
first Champions League and, after that, everything comes as a consequence." Mourinho left Camp Nou in 2000 to coach Benfica but it was at rivals Porto that he became a household
name on the back of their remarkable Champions League success in 2004.

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Politics / Re: Borno Govt : No GSM Network For Now by nebeolisa(m): 12:30pm On Jul 31, 2013
bbpreye.:
What is Borno?
iz a name of city in america u.s.a. .
TV/Movies / Re: Evictions: End Of The Road For Annabel! by nebeolisa(m): 8:07pm On Jul 28, 2013
i av been expectn ur eviction 4 long but u kip surviving gud bye wit ur gossip
TV/Movies / Re: Breaking News: Zambia’s Sulu Evicted by nebeolisa(m): 8:06pm On Jul 28, 2013
sulu srry i rued my best to save u but it didnt worl srry . Ua out i will niss u
TV/Movies / Re: Bassey And Pokello Evicted From Big Brother Africa by nebeolisa(m): 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2013
ItsModella:
No kidding!!! if there's one thing I love her for, it's her swag.
shw even called hasef queen of swag nd daz wat she iz
TV/Movies / Re: Bassey And Pokello Evicted From Big Brother Africa by nebeolisa(m): 8:08pm On Jul 21, 2013
4 Bassey am srry but 4 Ppokello she got wat she deserved she insulted westafricans by calling us modafukaz

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Sports / Re: Super Eagles Performance Against Tahiti - How Would You Rate It? by nebeolisa(m): 9:09am On Jun 18, 2013
they all deserve to be flogged walahi c green ideye wit rubbish dribbling mikel mba nd musa flop
Jokes Etc / Re: Conversation Of Cristiano & Messi.. by nebeolisa(m): 10:11am On May 07, 2013
i love dis. but are u jst tryn to tell us dat cr7 iz beta dan messi
Jokes Etc / Who Do You Hate Most Among These? by nebeolisa(m): 5:30am On May 07, 2013
1.People who don't brush their
teeth.
2.People with stinking legs
3.People who shower once a
week
4.Women who wear weave 5.Women who bleach themselves
to be look beautiful
6.Gay/lesbians
7.People who regularly pick their
nose and extract mucus with
their fingers 8.Women who receive credit from
you but never call you,instead
they please call.
9.Gold diggers

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TV/Movies / Re: Which Nigerian Book Would You Want Adapted Into A Movie? by nebeolisa(m): 6:52am On Apr 30, 2013
Witness to tears.
Phones / Re: What Is The Full Meaning Of MTN? by nebeolisa(m): 4:22pm On Apr 11, 2013
Mask_ed terorist of naija
Or most terifying network of naija
Jokes Etc / Re: Picture Of A Manchester United Family by nebeolisa(m): 6:32pm On Feb 24, 2013
vry funny pixs 1Rooney 2 david de gea man utd goalkeeper 3 man utd coach with a referee dat once said dat he iz a of man utd @Buchi
Celebrities / Re: Celebrities React To Goldie's Death On Twitter by nebeolisa(m): 3:28pm On Feb 15, 2013
May ur soul rest in peace dear GoldieMay ur soul rest in peace dear GoldieMay ur soul rest in peace dear Goldie

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Sports / Re: Mikel Obi Banned And Fined £60,000 Over Referee Incident by nebeolisa(m): 6:45am On Dec 07, 2012
he got wat he deserved . u knw dat u dnt av any evidence y shud u report atall . Or did u c london as nigeria . Mikel no bribe dia ok
Romance / Things You Must Do For Your Girlfriend So That You Can Win Her Heart''''' by nebeolisa(m): 6:20am On Nov 27, 2012
Stay away frm work or school n spend time with her
everyday. She will like it. Buy her samsung galaxy5 ipad
n recharge it with 15k every 2days. Use her pic as a
wallpaper on your miserable nokia fone. Take her out
for shopping in expensive stores on d island every
saturday n make sure wha she shops cost at least 500k. Hide like 1 millon naira check in her handbag or kitchen
every sunday to surprise her. To avoid family
interferrance, rent a 5 bedroom executive duplex in
Lekki n buy her a sleek BMW convertible, it's just 8
million u kno. Neva ask too many questions if u see her
with another man in that house or car or anywhere. Pls always accept any excuse she gives u no matta how
stupid it sounds. Don't allow her to do any house chores,
do it for your angel, wash her undies n cook...So
romantic! Don't come to sex life n complain if she deny u
sex. Wait till her kingdom com. If she doesn't like your
mom, your dad, your sibblings n ur friends just buy a gun n shoot dem all to please her. Money should not be
the problem, there are many banks n atm machines u
can rob, but don't let her know. Never ask her the
meaning of King Mugu if she saves your name like that
on the fone u bought 4her. Make sure you attend her
wedding when she invites u, of course you'll kno what to buy for the newly wed. Goodluck 2u loverboy
Business / Re: What Do You Do When You Are Dead Broke...... by nebeolisa(m): 5:56am On Nov 27, 2012
the only solution is to pray. God is there 4 you. I once found my self in such condition

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