Bonatheripper:
You need to be locked in a room with Ubunja's posts for 600years

Phenomenal16:
..pls can u do urself a favour.... Pls leave her
I know it won't be easy ..don't allow emotions deceive u....relship should be a mutual sth.
U r d one forcing urself on her... U will still meet someone Berra...is a matter of tym
Chill, when she comes don't accept her,,d best u can do is to be her friend .....
Don't be afraid of being alone,, I av been there
Time will heal ur wounds
Cheers

Enwhen:





You have alot of work to do if you truly love her...


Break up , it's a very hard situation to manage, Since she told u she broke up some weeks back , all u have to do is to comfort her with different things and places that will make her not to think it reason her ex, because from what u said , she may still be thinking about the break up and her ex, and since her ex is working hard to get her back , for the fact that u love her , U MUST DO EVERYTHING, POSSIBLE TO MAKE HER FORGET ABOUT HER EX ... Let her have alot of fun , take her to places , don't allow her to be alone most times , because that's what she want , so that she can think about the break up. U were boring to her when she visited that's y she left u like that. Try to Always be with her , to make things easy for her, talk to her , help her with many things she wish to do. Try to know what she like doing give it her ...don't allow a dull moment with her, givegtryher more lives to live, do it for atleast three weeks , even if na jazz the guy use , she will forget about him, then u starts to proove your real love to her ...be fast in doing this , so that she doesn't make up her mind to go back to him or run from u both.

AfroKnight:


Needadvice00 listen to him. No let one babe give you stress.

mascot87:



You better stop disturbing yourself with that girl and focus your energy on something else or you will look back years from now and ask yourself "why am I so dumb"
Let her be

Froshloaded:


Sorry
Are you good noww

Froshloaded:
..so since February
You just remembered

generationz:


This is what happens when you are too focused on dating your spec?

Shebi she is your spec na?

TeleboiZ005:
I was in ur shoe last mnth but i have found true love.
somebori shout JESUS!
Op u need to be born again bro...jesus go love u taya u sef go beg to cheat on am...

Froshloaded:

She no do again

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Funkyswagzz:
Bro I've hard this experience before and trust its not worth the try. After sometime u will give up on her. Ur babe is just getting stated. If u want u can stay with her and experience what am sayin. She not yet satisfied

ojehmario1969:
Hello guys. I know you guys can give me a good Advice. I stared dating this gal recently. She's the best anyone can ask for caring, sweet, intelligent. But beautiful in the heart.


Recently i discovered She has two people she calls sugar daddies. Like WTF. My girlfriend who is just on her earlier 18 has sugar blablabla and the worst part of it is that they are married. Like young girl following old people.


Even before this day anyone I introduce to my girlfriend too always gives me this kind of pressure like this gal is not good, I no like her, she is this, she is that. Many people no just like this gal I no know Y.

I told her that I want to break up with her because of this old men stuffs i.e sugar daddy. Mtcheew ur father no reach u abii.
Now the gal dey beg me to forgive her. Guys am really confuse.
Anybody when don experience this kind thing abeg wetin I go do now. Breakup or makeup

mrofficial:
She's 21 and i am 18.
please help me by answering to this 2 questions.
Should i go on or withdraw?
Is it wrong?

Omawumi17:

It is very ok

thinking of getting her a phone, clothes, flowers, perfume, card and flowers.

Omawumi17:
Not a must but there is nothing wrong with gifting that special one a nice set of ankara for valentine.

Chuksfela1:
My guy if u get enough money to waste just buy her small thing to form say u be big boy,if u no get just call her that day and wish her happy val.don just kill ur self 4 a girl.

Lovesickpup:
Broke guys like OP are going to break up with their gfs before their birthdays and before Valentine. Sweethearts, just know it's not your fault and he's not for you. Move on to someone worthy of you.

dalass:
OP has invited the girl over of which the girl has promised to come but didn't.

Of course she won't come because she no trust you. You're obviously frustrated and sexually starved.

If she's raped by you and your fellow frustrated friends now. Guys will accuse her why she went there in the first place.

You don't want to give her Valentine gift because you know its not sure you can't lick the honey that val night!

Abeg free this gal, move on and look for a loose free to bang girl, or olosho.

Keep your gift, she will get better man who will appreciate her moral standards and make a honest woman out of her

mabebe1:

First talk About everything o....and see where it leads....if it doesn't go well den end it biko.....

victorian:






Can't he add feb14 to the other days they celebrate love?

bukatyne:


You think of her happiness.

mabebe1:

So it's a situationship den....u guys are stressing yourselves o.....it's too early for troubles..3wks sef

mabebe1:

Gbam.........because a new relationship suppose to shack una well well... conversations will just flow like tap water.......

akinyemi0103:
Huhh awon ti break pad, small thing na break up next,dude just don't get too work up,z just 3 weeks relationship, just let thing work out itself between both of you.

NeedAdvice00:

Biko what are the things you should discuss with your new girlfriend?

I wan know if the issue is from me or her.

donbachi:
na so...as if dem rub honey 4 ur tongue u go spit am out...u beta buy oo..women na spirit..needs to be appeased once in a while.

donbachi:
maybe na em dey pain u.

Preshy561:

What's your reason for not wanting to gift her?
Just asking though