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WoundedLamb:
Hhmm... You may have a point but your comments are very condescending. You won't be able to communicate your thoughts by insulting the audience, you'd only end up ranting. I don't even know why you seem so upset when you can just do your wedding the way you want and let others do thiers how they want.

That said, I think most people do the whole traditional wedding stuff just to uphold thier tradition. That's why white wedding is considered optional by many but not the traditional wedding. It's not even an African thing, Asians take thier traditional weddings seriously too. I understand if you don't see the value, but it doesn't make you any superior to those that do. We all have things we consider a big deal that others don't. If one has the resources and wants to do it, I don't see any problem with that. Harmless traditions are beautiful, they give us a sense of identity.

Culture wey we don throway

[quote author=LiberatedGirl post=107989096][/quote]Well... You know how it is here. We show off too much.
Someone dies, party!
New born baby, party!
New car, party!

To our own detriment..

Finally Africans are awakening...

Little wonder well known celebs keep baby mamas.
Ronaldo
Davido
Wizkid
Burna
And a host of others.

BigYash:
Lakoko Lazua..
Lakoko Labrocos.
Latino Peru Peru.
You gerrit?

If they don't gerrit, forget abou it.

From my own personal experience, i think I'm gonna go along with the baby mama thingy. 80% of women I've had sexual intercourse with are either in a relationship or married. It's crazy right?
There's nothing you can do to satisfy a woman.

Stop trying to explain what mundane mindsets cannot grasp.
Enjoy your enlightenment in peace.

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