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These people bobo us ni sha

I can never be jealous of anyone. I don't know what they do for a living.

You used money to convince a woman to marry you, what are you expecting?

Let's be honest nothing like heaven or hell. If it really existed, people would actually be scared and remain righteous. I think you'll just cease to exist. That's all

I'm not shocked

durentboi:
Should I?

Of all the problems in the world.

No be me go tell you wetin you wan hear

wonder233:
There is nothing like sugar mummy, it is a hoax. It is a fantasy young guys have had for generations. It doesn't exist.
Most young guys dream of that wealthy mature lady who would keep them for sex and also give them money and gifts.
Movies promote this fiction, so the folklore continues.
It is psychological, and for most young men, they are highly motivated if a woman is older, married or in a serious relationship. She becomes a prize. Even if she doesn't give them money, these factors are enough motivation.

But as a guy grows older, he sees the reality - which is that females are by default HYPERGAMOUS. That is, women's own sexual motivation is programmed for the upturn not downturn. That rich, successful woman you're making puppy eyes at, is looking at you like "what is wrong with this small rat?" when what is on her mind is how to get a Senator or the Chairman/Ceo.

So, you soon realize, you're just fooling yourself. Then you drop the fantasy, and face that your normal girlfriend, to start your own life.
But small boys coming up who have been sold the same fantasy, start trying to target your wife, motivated by nothing but the fact that she is a "married woman"... And then the cycle continues.

You don't know anything. Please keep quiet

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Hmmmmn. One of my egbon adugbo had issues with his temperamental wife and she left and abandoned 2 kids with him. She came back the following month seeking a divorce, my smart bro only wedded her traditionally. He has custody of the kids now and enjoys the single life with many side chicks.

The woman dey suffer like this. She go bite finger wey dey feed her.

Hmmmmn
Like i always say. Same clowns disguising with different parties

Let he who hasn't sinned before cast the first stone.

Adeyinka90:
Humanity is the best religion for me ..all this Christian, Muslim are just name to me ..be Good to people around you

Bless you. Empathy, just Empathy

I'm not Muslim but always look forward to Ileya because of the festivities and all.

What exactly is the reward?

Emmanuel900:
I wonder if our politicians and elites in Nigeria don't just see the progress going on in USA, China, India, south Korea etc and say I want something like this in my country too instead of just looting and sharing money most of them don't know anything else, they don't think of making any impact, they prefer to loot the resources in Nigeria to establish their family abroad.

Might sound like a joke buh this isn't funny

Omo. Remember when I lost my mum. Innocent me thought we were having a get together.

Holluwhakemmy:
Nobody respect a rag until their shoes dirty so stay in your corner.
Don't beg people to know your values, when the time comes nobody will tell them to look for you.

Deep

ReacherSaidNoth:
Everybody is a stud online, first round is often disappointing in duration. You've have to test-fire your weapon to avoid nonsense.

This is coming from a fellow pro. Nice one

uchkochi:
You Can’t Build a Legacy With a Woman Who Thinks Sacrifice Is Abuse

Let’s be clear:

Modern love is upside down.

The man sacrifices? He’s “controlling.”

He plans for the future? He’s “rigid.”

He denies today’s pleasure to build tomorrow’s wealth?

She calls him “boring,” “trauma-bound,” or “emotionally unavailable.”

But ask her to match that discipline?

Suddenly it’s abuse.

Let’s break it down:

—

1. If You Say “No”—She Hears “Neglect”

You want to save? She wants to spend.

You suggest delaying the trip? She says, “You don’t love me.”

You say: “Let’s invest instead of flex.”

She posts: “Healing in silence because I’m not being prioritized.”

But what she calls neglect?

Is just a man refusing to go broke to fund her comfort.

—

2. You Provide Stability—She Misses Chaos

You bring peace. Routine. Security.

But her body’s addicted to emotional caffeine.

She doesn’t know how to love without panic.

So she’ll provoke fights just to “feel something.”

And then say you’ve changed.

No—you matured.

She just misses the circus.

—

3. You Offer Vision—She Wants Validation

You’re thinking 10 years ahead.

She’s thinking about dinner dates and Instagram captions.

You present a roadmap?

She scrolls for a richer man who already built the destination.

Today’s woman doesn’t want a partner to grow with.

She wants a lifestyle to walk into.

—

4. She Wants Rewards—But Refuses the Risk

You took the hits.

The late nights.

The silent seasons.

The skipped luxuries.

Now that it’s paying off?

She shows up with a wig and Wi-Fi—and calls herself “deserving.”

But where was she when you were doubted?

Where was she when you were broke?

The woman who won’t sacrifice with you will sabotage you when it matters.

—

5. Real Love Requires Delay—But She’s in a Hurry

Delayed gratification builds empires.

But she wants: – The wedding, not the work. – The luxury, not the loyalty. – The lifestyle, not the labor.

She thinks she’s being oppressed.

But truth is?

She just hates process.

—

Final Word: A Woman Who Sees Sacrifice as Abuse Will Destroy Your Vision

She’ll label your patience as poverty.

Your structure as suppression.

Your silence as stonewalling.

And by the time she realizes the weight you were carrying?

She’ll be watching you succeed—with someone who respected the price.

So choose wisely.

Because love is not just about who excites you.

It’s about who endures with you.

And if she can't suffer now?

She doesn't deserve the soft life later.
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I support this post with a bottle of beer.

See as i dey screenshot every detail. Thanks for this bro

Same clowns in different political parties, religion and tribe. If you like believe they have your interest in heart. Same old circle.

GodisStriking:
Time has a circle. What has happened before returns. If their root lies in humble origins of low class people who sat around watching others build great empires and wishing it was them, then aren't they repeating the same act by pretending to be those of great legacy? Fantasy builds nothing you have to risk something to obtain greatness.

Hmmmn. Deep one. Sadly they have chosen to be ignorant instead

GodisStriking:
The Abrahamic faiths are not of Africa. And by telling this truth I not only preserve the Middle Eastern heritage but also preserve the African heritage. Lies hurt us all.

Yeah. Some Biafrans have fabriacted their own truth tho.

This man doesn't look stable

They are all birds of the same feather

Had to read again. Thought I saw east

He will use you before he goes broke.
This guy know wetin him dey do.

If not, he for don pursue am comot for car since.

humberjade:
Go and confirm from R. Madrid

I mean like every season. The ending run. They lose morale

Na start dem get. No finishing