₦airaland Forum

Dtruthspeaker:
i understand but it would not be good to mock them since they are staying quietly in their place.

Dem no fit talk pim.

plsdisvirginme:
I graduated 9 years ago and I have been jobless.
Due to my condition.
I started patronising olosho, I do bet9ja and menial works to survive.
This year will make me 42 years.
No wife, no job, no business.
My family member sold a land and they decided to assist me with 200k.
First time in my life seeing such money.
Now I don't know what type of business to start with.
Please I need your input.

Why post it here? You wey don sabi wetin you wan do with the money for your mind.

siofra:
I heard so too. I know about IBB but who else??

My bets on yakubu gowon.

MikeofKd:
I strongly believe that the worst place to find a good woman in this sinful generation is in the church. Quite ironic isn’t it ? Most of these church girls use religion to cover up for their promiscuous and mischievous ways , they actually pretend a lot , well I can’t say for all the church girls cause they might be a proportionate size of church girls who are still be quite religious , decent enough and do not pretend. But to be very honest , majority of the church girls I’ve watched and observed are the nastiest of all , especially the ones in the choir or prayer warrior groups.

They would weaponize sex and use emotional manipulation to destroy your life ,I had a deep convo with this churchy and over religious kinda girl , she sings in the choir department , I remember we spoke on a lot of topics that day and when I asked her how many body count she has had ,she said she had zero body count , but that she has once kissed a guy for an hour before and didn’t do anything else.

This same girl I’ve seen with numerous men , I just knew she was lying , then later she said she can’t really say maybe one or two that it’s been long and she’s not in the world anymore. Then I asked why she lied in the first place and she said she didn’t want me to view her as a bad person and she was trying to maintain her good and decent girl life , but why using religion to cover up ? Haba , I just weak that day.

Theres another church girl I had a wild experience with , this one is a prayer warrior , she came visiting me one day at my place and one thing led to another , me i don zero my mind say nothing sexually fit sup , but surprisingly This girl made a move , a bold one for that matter , while we at it , mhen the kind styles she Dey give me ehn and the way she was moaning damn , I just know say dis one na confam olosho, it was crazy , and you see her in church Dey hammer prayer , forming innocent and godly girl lol.

They are still few decent women in the church tho , but what if they all the same ? What if they are just covering up ? I’m glad I’ve had these experiences cause Omo I can never near church girls again. They say “ the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know”. Be careful guys , don’t go and marry a pretentious wife ,thinking cause she’s from the church and she’s telling you no sex before marriage , giving you all the lectures on Christianity and u think say u don find better wife lol , meanwhile she’s giving another nigga the cookie behind your back. Be smart and wise up, don’t fall for all these their churchy girls manipulation , cause you go cry blood if you find out most of their dirty secrets lifestyles.

To find a good woman in this generation is really really hard. Pray God helps us. LOVE AND LIGHT.

Bro i posted yesterday. There's a current story tearing up social media since yesterday. How a guy staying abroad was sending money to his church babe here in naija. He placed her on monthly salary, paid her house rent in abj for 2 years, always ensured she used the latest iphone and clothing accessories. Unknowingly she was dating 3 other guys at the same time. She ditched the guy and married someone else.

She covered her antics with the church girl thingy.

Go read more online, the guys name is spirit husband. Everyone is talking about it.

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

Moral of the story. Don't marry a woman from a poor background.
Don't marry a liability.
Don't marry someone who brings nothing to the table.

As a man, you're only valuable according to what you can provide. If you stop providing, you'll be ditched and called useless.

I once visited my one of my big bro, he is igbo and a fanatic catholic. He doesn't joke with his rosary and statues. On this particular day, i mistakenly knocked down his jesus on the cross statue, he went bonkers. When i picked the statue up, embossed at the bottom stand were the words "made in china". Jokes on all catholic folks. I checked the other totems and all and it was the same made in china. A country that doesn't believe in Jesus is mass producing your idols for you. And you're gullible to defend something that's not yours.

yawehoverall:
Could this be true ?

In a lengthy post on Instagram, blogger, Gistlover alleged that the couple have parted ways over infidelity and domestic violence.

According to the blog, Olakunle Churchill hasn’t been sleeping at home and has been beating Rosy. The blog claimed that Rosy is the breadwinner of the family, despite all the accolades she gives to her husband online.
The blog further claimed that Churchill has a side chick, which is the major cause of the couple’s rift and has been flaunting her in public, hence making Rosy a laughing stock.

In a bid to save face on social media, the couple have agreed to keep their marital issue off social media and Churchill’s family have been running around to make his marriage work.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CvpmmHStxni/?igshid=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA==

False. It has been debunked..
Gistlover no get sense. Person wey wan drag olukoya of mfm last week.

Ilamina:
Don't you like wearing rosary

I once visited my one of my big bro, he is igbo and a fanatic catholic. He doesn't joke with his rosary and statues. On this particular day, i mistakenly knocked down his jesus on the cross statue, he went bonkers. When i picked the statue up, embossed at the bottom stand were the words "made in china". Jokes on all catholic folks. I checked the other totems and all and it was the same made in china. A country that doesn't believe in Jesus is mass producing your idols for you. And you're gullible to defend something that's not yours.

Roadsideprof:
Thanks for the update. You know how nairaland is. Too much tribalism here. I was an avid tinubu supporter but now I think the jokes on me.

Ikr.
Still too early to judge.

IconicR:
I'm pregnant with my sixth child sef, I'm serious.

Dey play. You're not married jur.

IconicR:
It's God that takes care of kids

Did you do economics in school?
It's poor illiterate people that say God will take care of the kids. Especially in a country like Nigeria. Dey whine yourself. I know you're just pulling my legs tho

Idol worshippers.
Child molesters.
Propaganda sect.

Tah!

IconicR:
I and my oga are looking at 8 we love kids

For this Tinubu era?

Emekaphilip360:
Let's talk about bad character in women

No matter how beautiful or intelligent you are as a woman if you don't have a good character, you won't be able to keep a relationship or sustain a marriage.

Bad character/attitude stinks to death. Its like a cancer in the body. No man will take you serious or respect you.

This is the reason why I ghosted one of my baby mama. She's beautiful, intelligent and smart but with bad character.

Her smartness attracted me to her in the first place but didn't notice her bad character on time. And to cap it all she ain't ready to work on her bad character.

You ran away from responsibilities. You dey claim you ghost am.

IconicR:
Just small small trouble to make your day, it's not that deep

It is well.
Are you serious about having 5 kids?
You dey try o.

Roadsideprof:
I was enjoying you both's banter untill this. It shows some ethnic bias. I don't see any crime if a lady is a house wife. It has nothing to do with ethnicity. So kindly explain better what you meant by typical Yoruba woman?

Just so you know, I'm yoruba too.
I said typical yoruba woman because she said she likes tinubu.
A lot of women claim independence, was trying to know why she did not join the wagon.

IconicR:
Do not judge anyone based on comments on a faceless forum, I'm a Peaceful person with some little trouble here and there but I respect people alot which means I can be controlled. I'm not stiff at all on anything.

Thank God you acknowledged that you're a lil bit troublesome.

FROGMAN101:
Can you imagine he should prioritize another human being that can leave him in a flash over himself? Do you even have a brain?

You Dey mad oooo

Calm down. Any small thing. Abuse don enter.

IconicR:
People of other tribes support Asiwaju as well, the earlier you know that, the better. I'm a Peaceful person and aside politics section that I only state what's right, which other place have you seen me causing trouble?

Lol. Dunno oo. You just give off the vibes of a troublemaker. Your account is recent, which means you were previously banned.

IconicR:
He's busy making money and how did I cause trouble? Is Tinubu I like same way you like obi. Because aside my choice of candidate I don't see any other place I cause trouble

Typical yoruba woman. Why aren't you assisting him to make money? You sit at home all day and cause confusion on nairaland.

I'm not a supporter of either tinubu or Obi. They're all clowns.

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Run Bro. She's a narcissist.

IconicR:
There are perfect men and I told you my oga is one

I hear you. Why are you always on this space causing trouble? If your husband is perfect, he should be giving you enough attention.

IconicR:
Never he's a perfect gentleman. He's got no flaws 😂😂😂😂😂

Stop being delusional.
You're laughing sef.
No man is perfect. Just find one that both of you can tolerate each other.

IconicR:
Yes with five kids, why do you ask?

If you're not pulling my legs.
Your husband has at least 1 of these traits.

otipoju:
True words.

When I was younger the mindset my bros taught me to approach women with,is the expectation that she would say either yes or no...she can't do more than that.

If she says yes. Honor her, set up next steps then leave.

If she says no, thank her for her patience in hearing you out and wish her best of luck , then leave.


Then in the era of no phones, we would assign a young boy to escort her home during the day to know where she lives...then we show up together when it's a little dark.

Non digital communication in dating was sweet and creative. Short notes sent by intermediaries, coded whistles, pre arranged spots and times, red herrings and going into the compound by the back door instead of the front where everyone is gathered in the evening.


Now all your have is dumb ugly girls dancing naked on social media with thirsty boys watching. They don't know how to "scope", "psyche" or "cajole" as we used to call it then.

Swears we're losing the face to face approach culture. Everything na online now.

IconicR:
All nairaland men and most Nigerian young men have all these you listed plus more. If you disagree with me then mention one nairalander man that is marriageable and I'll give you 10 reasons why he's unmarriageable

Are you married?

olril17:
U no get sense walai talai

I'll ignore this. Too early for barbarism. Ain't gonna stoop low.

Why not just scrap religion. Like me.

sacajawea:
Two former military Head of state were Gay or Bisexual...
Are you aware of this?
Apparently this is common knowledge in Higher circles

Or Buhari

Yakubu?