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IconicR:
So how many older women have you dated so far and what are the benefits you got

You're setting a trap for me and i won't fall for it. But in general sha. Older women are the best. No stress, no billing, experience on the bed, mature convos.

IconicR:
How many richer women have you had relationship with? What benefits did you get?

Nothing serious actually. I don't like discussing my past relationships except I'm trying to illustrate or make a point.

IconicR:
No, I'm not like you, I don't even know how to demand lailai

I don't have to demand. All my loved ones come through for me.

BigYash:
True sha.. if at his age he still decide to waste that money on Ekiti game or precious Toto,then it shows he wants to suffer all the days of his life.. It’s said that a fool at 40 is a fool forever.. At this point sef ,olosho or Toto matter no suppose dey Enter his mind.. I fit understand bet small,say probably he wants to make money with luck.. which I don’t even advise at this point in his life... He needs to invest that 200k in farming.. Let him go to where he can farm .. annual crops preferably.. grow that money to a million with farming and start a bigger farm. Op take note ..

You sef you grab bro. Make our advise no waste lol. I like what you said, a fool at 40 is a fool forever. It's not too late sha.

IconicR:
You are giving gigolo vibes, check your previous response where you said you enter relationship for money and other benefits

We both like the same things.
You be bad market. Avoid me lol.

IconicR:
You are giving gigolo vibes, check your previous response where you said you enter relationship for money and other benefits

Lmao.
If I'm a gigolo then you're a gold digger.

IconicR:
What material thing on earth can possibly attracts me to a guy, I don't know. What will a guy do for me today that that'll be extraordinary? nothing. Money is important but other things matters as well. Your last statement bring you out as a gigolo, are you a gigolo?

At least you no lie. You said money is important. Same here too.

What best describes a gigolo? This one you're entering me.

BigYash:
Life dey turn. You when dey boast now,anything fit jam you tomorrow. Although I don't pray that for you. But I am trying to tell you not to make fun of people's situations. Op no plan to blike that. Life dey wave and tomorrow get belle. You can't tell what it will give birth to. Some persons were well to do at young age,but got broke at old age. Some were broke at young age and rich at old age. So no laugh anybody for this life. Destiny different oga

Life go turn everything go dey alright.
But there are some people you can't save from doom. See all the addictions wey him list. I checked his profile, na only olosho and bet i see there. It's possible he has squandered the money sef.

Bro you sef dey street, you sabi how many of our friends bet don wreck their lives. Even drugs too. With all the advice, them no gree hear word.

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

You're not over her yet.
You don't really love your new wife.
Stop comparing them and see the wonders it will work. Stick to the one who agreed to marry you. Don't let your ex manipulate you.
Talking from experience.

Was in a relationship with a lady.
We were out at the market when i bumped into my ex. Did all my best not to engage her, wasn't even with my phone, she collected my number. She had the audacity to tell my current babe she's my sweetheart.
Buzzed me and came over that weekend. She knows my dad and sis. Mumu me was feeling like a player after lashing.
That visit didn't end well.
I ended up losing 2 amazing women because i couldn't decide well.

Bros hold your wife tight. Your ex has nothing to lose, she wants to ruin you and make you single like her.

IconicR:
See mindset and you all come here to blame women. You better start thinking about monkhood

Monk wah?
What is it that convinces you to say yes to a guy? E pass physical attributes or benefits?

Nothing wrong with me selecting from that criteria too.

NEUDUDE:
Women and cover up lol. The good ones inside church no reach 10%

It's a red flag if she too carry church for head.
She's looking for redemption from her hoeing days lol.

IconicR:
All these things we are saying is just for internet jabs, when you fall in love with someone you won't even know when you start breaking rules for them, so I was thought sha. But just pray to be with someone who is intentional about you as a woman and the issue of sharing bills won't even arise

Tbh i don't even want my wife to work. Anything she wants to do should be of her own will. I don't fall in love blindly. Every relationship i enter is intentional. There's nothing like love. Either she is for show off or I'm benefiting from her. I don't fool myself. Once we've had enough of ourselves, everyone go your seperate way.
I don't simp.

IconicR:
They have modified the vow ooo it's now for better for stay for worse for Waka 😂😂😂😂

Dey play lol. Reason why relationships don't last anymore

IconicR:
On the contrary I'm very loyal to the core, God forbids things goes south, I'll stay true without complaining and even made sure he's very happy and help him back on his feet especially if he has been a good man to me. If it's all these men that does things to their women unremorsefully I'll Japa to my father's house 🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Just be a very good man and I'll stand by you till eternity.

You no dey japa go anywhere, After man don pay bride price. He owns you, Sebi na better for worse.

IconicR:
I'm not against a woman helping her man , ofcourse she should know when to help because things are hard but that mindset of men waiting for their women to start sharing bills is what I detest with passion. When you love someone you won't even be told to give assistance as at when needed, you'll be happy and eager doing it. You see that mindset no no no

You are contradicting yourself. If you truly love your husband, you won't also hesitate to share the bill if. You're looking for a man you'll be a liability on. That's not true love, it;s conditional. It's your type that dump men when things go south or someone richer comes proposing.
It's called Atenu. No go work for your money. When you clock 35 and you dey cry for shiloh, dem no go tell you.

IconicR:
Me I don't pray to cater for any man because my mother did not cater for my father. So we all know what we desire in life and catering for a man isn't in my agenda.

And how did they end up?
That's very selfish of you. It's common amongst yoruba women. dem no wan work.

lordnkem000:
Just hear urself, thank God none of my sisters reason or talk like u. My both elder and younger sisters re all married and they cater for their families with their salaries too even though the man brings, my elder sister dated her husband for 5yrs and he was jobless in 4+yrs then. But she was working then, she rented his first house as man. But today they have 3boys, married for 13yrs now and her husband is an offshore worker with loads of cash, he doesn't joke with my sister at all. I have a few female friends and they don't reason like u, I hope no one takes u serious abeg. Better change

It's the entitlement for me. Women nowadays are useless.

EconomistXplain:
first quit bad money swallowing habit lie womanizing nd betting..den go into POS ...nd watch urself grow

Check his profile, He's a clout chaser. Don't take him serious. Pos business no too dey move like before again. It's mostly to sustain money.

NEUDUDE:
You are really dense lol. Somebody they ask for help, you dey do i better pass, who follow you dey competition now. So becos of your miserly 200k we no go hear word again shior

You don't know me and you're insulting me.
If we see for real life, sey you fit stand me?

What help do you want to give him. Someone with addictions like that. You should know he's chasing clout. I mentioned my earning to let him know that money can't change his life. 200k can't start any reasonable business in this Economy. Money wey im for don squander.
At age 42? Reason am.

Which advice you wan give am.
Over to you. Mr adviser

IconicR:
Women are naturally designed to depend on men for provision while they give care, so it's not out of place for women to act their natural way. These generation men wants to turn everything against nature hence the reason we have high rate of divorce in recent times.

Sebi na una want equal human rights. Ordinary to share bill una dey complain. Please give up this your mentality, don't put your hope on any man if you don't want to be on the losing side.

Goodlady:
Neither am I your olosho.
You must be a maga by force to love.
Some of you guys are so dirty and unlovable sef.

I don't do prostitutes, so I no fit look your side.
I'm lovable asf. What I abhor is greedy and gluttonous women.

vannessa7:
All the arguments back and forth here without confirming the authenticity of the news, for most of them it has become a male/female gender thing and for some they take it as a Yoruba vs igbo thing, displaying there bigotry and hatred, if Tonto dike has been a Yoruba woman or Churchill an igbo man, we will not be seeing the same narrative as it's on here, when it comes to tribe many of them becomes devil's and will gladly insult God, you are ready to go to hell because of tribe, not wise.

Sad thing is I wonder why humans take delight in the misfortunes of others. The same people backlashing Churchill have worse occurrences going on in their lives.

IconicR:
My broses are big boys and my future sons will be very rich enough never to have eyes on a woman's earnings

It's poverty that will make a woman eyes set on a man's earning too. Make she go work for her own.

IconicR:
Mtcheww, a woman is not meant to spend her Kobo in a relationship, if a woman pays for a date and you are comfortable with that as a man, then you are a complete simp.

Give that same advice to your bro or your male child and see if it makes sense. Men nowadays don't date expired overused liabilities that have nothing to offer a man.

Goodlady:
There's a popular saying that said men are the head of the house, head of any situation literarily.
So as the head and most times the ones that initiate the date, it's men that should pay. Including the tfare and take away for the lady.
If you v contrary opinion, take me out!

Only when they are married. If na dating, We're splitting the bill. Trust me. I no be your maga. Nobody force you come date.

Eyinju112:
As a Nigerian woman that I am, I use to have vex money to pay my bills if the guy wan stain my white, and to transport myself back home😂.

I had this guy then who liked me a lot, he’s a civil defense officer. So anytime he’s around he comes home to pick me out because I'm an introvert. I liked the friendship a lot because he took me to so many places I’ve never been in my city. Though he had asked me out and I rejected him that we can just be friends, he accepted after so many denial. The friendship continued like that ooo. Micheal is a party rider c’mon. Every sat and Sundays are for owambe. He picks me from home and returns me back at evenings. While all this were going on, I didn’t lose my sense of taking vex money and ATM ooo.

So during the Covid-19 lockdown, Micheal who is a military personnel still attends home parties with his friends. So that fateful day the curfew had started like 4pm. Micheal came home to pick me as usual, my mom was scared but he told my mom to be rest assured, me too mumu told my mom nothing would happen shebi it’s Micheal. I made my mom see Micheal as my one and only true friend. Truly nothing happened because he is an officer, so we were always passing every checkpoints without issue. We got to the home party, oh God!!! like God wanted to punish me that day, Micheal was a bit tipsy and was telling me we weren’t going home that night that we both gonna be together. I thought it was a joke ooo. Micheal meant it. He said i should find my way home if I can’t sleep with him, knowing fully well that curfew had started, no bike, no cab, nothing to take me home, In fact I didn’t had a dime with me. That day I regretted knowing Micheal . I begged him like a god but he insisted on sleeping with me that night. For God so good I have one yeye uncle who begs me for money all the time he sees me😂 he’s a police officer. I called him and told him the mess I got myself in, immediately he drove down to pick me. That was how I escaped oooo. The following day Micheal called me and blamed his act on shayo😂😂😂😂 well I forgave him but never followed him out, gradually the friendship died.

Never lose your guard with any man. Men are ready to stain your white.

Person dey flex you regularly, you say you no wan collect lol.

blessingnenye:
https://loveonet.com/5-signs-you-are-in-a-relationship-without-a-future/

I ain't opening that link

Emekaphilip360:
Ran away from which responsibilities? Of course I send money for upkeep of the baby

Bro just confesss say you no like the babe again.

Maynman:
It is to used among the Israelites ONLY. Face your own culture deity.

What are you saying. Stop confusing yourself

Maynman:
Who was this god referring to, is it the isrealites?

Obviously who else?

I've never done any interview before.

Piece of advice, get to know people, work on your network first.

KnownUnknown:
Lmao. They just like the European idols better because they are slave minded.
Later in they will start bleating about “idolatry” and “paganism” as if their delusion is any different.

Bro funny thing be say part of 10 commandments na thou shall not bow down to any other God except me.