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Everyday the engagement keeps getting low.

Nigeria just be like film. We accept a lot of nonsense in this country.

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody.

The most important things you must consider before you marry anyone as a man (I am speaking from a man's angle) are:

1.) The person has to be physically appealing to you to start with, she mustn't be too beautiful or sexy or a killer beauty.


2.) She must be financially productive; meaning she must have a sellable handwork, craft, trade, business, job or career.

Don't ever marry an idle, jobless woman today if not you will regret, unless you are very financially buoyant enough to be the sole family breadwinner without complain.


3.) Before you marry any girl please do a family background check. Don't marry anyhow. Find out the family and community she comes from and know if they have any spiritual or traditional baggage that may affect the family you want to start and if you can carry the problems.


4.) You must be ready to help your wife in some domestic chores, it's not a taboo even if you are the breadwinner except you are ready to hire at least 2 domestic staffs to assist your wife. Even at my small level I still carry my kids, I dress them up, I personally do their shopping, I even clean them up when they poopoo and also change diapers. I use to assist in bathing my son during our first issue and I still bath him today whenever it's necessary or whenever he insists that it's me that he wants to bath him.


So be ready to assist your wife domestically and you will enjoy a happy home.


6.) If you must cheat as a man, please cheat with utmost wisdom and discretion. Keep it far away from your wife oh. Cheat responsibly and respectfully bearing in mind that you are someone's husband


Don't throw your cheating in the face of your wife just because you think you are rich or the breadwinner.



7.) Expect less from your wife when it comes to financial contributions even if she is working, this will keep your home healthy and happy. Just ignore what outsiders may say, assume she is broke and earns nothing and try to be in charge of your family's financial provision.


8.) Avoid your wife's phone, it's her privacy, if she decides to cheat, checking her phone cannot help you to stop her. Women are the boss in keeping secret and operating under the radar, so don't stress yourself on that, just treat her nicely, be a worthy husband and trust me, she won't see any need to cheat.


9.) Make your family peaceful by avoiding arguments with your wife. You are man my brother, you don't need to argue with your wife to establish that you are the man of the house. Overlook things and cast and bind the spirit of violence and verbal abuse or exchange. Talk less and your wife will respect you a lot.


10.) If child bearing delays, don't blame your wife and don't get tired of the marriage, just trust and look up to God and if you can afford it, go for IVF or even surrogacy or adoption depending on your financial capacity, they are all your legal kids once you do it legally.


11.) Plan your retirement. Remember kids will always show more pity towards their mother as you guys grow older, don't be jealous about that, that's why you must bear this in mind now that you are young and start early to plan your retirement without depending on your kids

This man get experience.

oz4real83:
All the money you weren't making while you were single, you will suddenly start making them but you won't see them because they have all gone into family expenses 😁😁🤣🤣. You will only know you made big money by calculating your expenses within a particular period🤣🤣🤣. You will keep telling yourself that if you had made such money when you were still single, when your expenses weren't as they are now, maybe you would have even owned a private jet by now🤣🤣🤣. May God bless our marriages

Real

You want to spoil their lucrative business?

If she's not a virgin bro. You're just wasting your time.

Gotocourt:
You don pipe her , the earlier the better . She go pass your level of she get admission 🤷🏿

Gbam. If he like make he ignore. Or make she jam better yahoo boy. This boy never know anything.

Cryptoboy999:
Am letting her take her time..Am not rushing it...Till when she is ready for sex
But we get intimate tho

Lol. Pipe am ooo. Before your efforts becomes wasted. Another guy wey no send go help you.
Is she a virgin? Very few girls are mature at 18.

It's too early to say she's mature if you haven't tested her.

Object tv media don show dem shege

What does this mean?
Someone please send elaborate

Until we take him out. This is a topic not every Nigerian is ready to discuss.

Anyone one that has read Robert Ludlum's Bourne identity will understand what is going on.
Everything na tactics at the expense of people's life. Election is next year. They want to put fear in masses.

Dtruthspeaker:
You imagine that people would concoct things they don' like? Is it not rather that like you they must concoct things they wish for?

Just the way you concoct things.

Dtruthspeaker:
So, hebrews have an heaven? Ok

Every culture concocted an afterlife fallacy.

Dtruthspeaker:
So before the white man invaded Africa, they did not know about heaven, right?

You already know that you are not going to be picked to go there so just wait for your own bus taking you to the place you deserve to be

Which of the heavens?
The hebrew one?

Heaven is a fallacy the white man sold to you. Think about this. If heaven is the safest place, why does it have a gate and the angels carry swords?

Any African that believes in heaven is still in mental slavery. If truly heaven has gold and all sorts, you think the white man will take you there?

That's why they've stolen all our resources and built their own heaven here on earth. More reason why you all want to japa.

I haven't gone to the office this week.
Everyone is moving to fully hybrid. It's the logical thing to do.

DrAda:
Surprised they still exist

Exactly. Like who dey use am

majorSLEEK:
They are disguising.

They are definitely facing financial hit.

They came first. I've never used the app.
Opay no be their mate

Exousiang01:
If it was due to financial pressure will they be able to pay up to 7 months salary?
What is wrong with Nigerians always imagining what is not there and believing their own imaginations?
If we check now you go be Obidient.

The article even clearly stated the companies growth over the last few years
Yet you went ahead to imagine the negative.

That's the funniest part, they always imagine the negative and focus on it.
They see a positive news, think of a negative thing and run with it.

FG increase state allocation, they say the president is trying to bribe the governors.
Which people be this?

Coming from someone who seen friends and family get fired from financial institutions that later packed up a year or two later.

They said it's not due to financial pressure.

Dey play😂

Never experienced this. I no go public school.

ibedun:
They have no business raising a family. They are creating more and more poverty stricken, angry, discontented, frustrated, rebellious, government attacking, emotionally disturbed young people and youths.

Bringing a child or children into this hard, harsh, terrible, brutal world is the highest level of wickedness.

Most of the youths in Nigeria should go and challenge their papa and mama instead of shouting Tinubu Tinubu. No be Tinubu or the federal government born una.

You for don talk since. Too late

This is not even a joke. I know people earning less and raising a family

Make una no go work hard so una go fit take care of una family. What she said is spot. Only a weak man will disagree

The woman no love you. Who love you no go stress you.

Lemme help with this. There's no meaning to life. It's about survival.
Some few got lucky to transcend the need to strive for basic needs and sadly they are used to set standards. But when you look at it. There's no meaning to it. It's all about survival.

Do you what you must with this information.

Make una continue to hate on women. I don marry leave una for here.

MaxInDHouse:
So you don't even know what you are saying regarding religion and scam shey?😟

I don finish baba. You have nothing to say. Gettat!

iLegendd:
I didn't mean to, but sometimes, you just have to use people's weakness against them to calm them down.

The guy maintain as you clear am.

MaxInDHouse:
Honesty speaking i don't know o!

You said all these religions are scam.

Which means there is nothing serious to take home from all of them but now you are saying one is teaching heresy still.

Ọmọ does scamming have anything good at all to give you?😟

Like how many of you have kpai because of ignorance.
And how you jump to conclusions on things not found in the bible.

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