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Poems For Review › Re: Ultimate Cede by neloyah(op): 10:03am On Jun 03, 2020

Perfectdanny:
Whats funny?

Your question.

Literature › Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by neloyah: 10:00am On Jun 03, 2020

Yampotatocarrot:
...start having double mind? (She has no justification for that, rather she should always drop an extra offering on Sundays for marrying a good man)

As for Praise bringing the lady home for dinner, trust me, that's the best that can happen to that family. She is an ex who obviously still thinks she's got a shot at Praise

If they keep doing the hide and seek meetings outside, it arouses more suspicion. Even if he tries to hide from her, she'll always know how to double-cross him. Then if someone sees him in a questionable position after the lady double-crosses him, how will that story go? Who will believe she double-crossed him? It'll open old wounds and bring distrust to a marriage that is going through a rebuilding process. Then, we'll have a Kingsley saga all over again, but this time in swapped gender roles.

Invite her and her daughter to dinner, let Ego prepare the dinner, sit down in the dining room and eat, tell Ego about Diana, laugh over it, tell Diana the story of how you met Ego, how she is the love of your life, how no matter what happens you are ready to stick with her through thick and thin, how she is the second most important thing to you right after relaxation of restrictions on Interstate movement, which is the first.

Let Ego flow with the tide and act accordingly, talk about everything and anything, laugh with her daughter, ensure Ego marks her territory in a very cheerful but intimidating way (I'm sure Ego will be up to this task)... Trust me, she'll walk away, it's one of the most humiliating ways to humble a "stubborn" lady while gaining excess love from your wife/gf.

If Ego had told Praise about Kingsley, he would have met him and spoken to him, but not invite him home because he is a male and the approach to that is different. But for females, the best approach is this...

That was why I made that statement

What is the approach different?
I don't get you because tbh we're two opposite poles, and I don't even have strength to explain myself either.

If you read this story well, you'll realize that praise isn't just trying to catch up with Diana. A lot more will go down after that. That's a different ball game.

His reaction towards his wife that was raped was also wrong, that's another different ball game. Imagine yourself as a woman, your ex came to your matrimonial home to rape you, and your own husband, who's supposed to support you the most stops talking to you, eating your food, claiming it was your fault?

Me I just can't understand you.

Literature › Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by neloyah: 11:45pm On Jun 02, 2020

Yampotatocarrot:
One good turn deserves another, or better still, what is good for the goose is good for the gander

If I was Praise, I would invite the said lady home for dinner... Yeah, I would

That's totally wrong tho, but it's your opinion so I can't say.

I just think praise could have handled the matter better, ego loves him that much, she fought that guy off.

If I were to make a speculation like you, and I were to be ego, I'd start having double mind towards praise after the rape saga.

Poems For Review › Re: Ultimate Cede by neloyah(op): 9:51pm On Jun 02, 2020

Perfectdanny:
React in real life? How'd i do that? My vibe replenishes instanta. Lol

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Lol.

Literature › Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by neloyah: 9:50pm On Jun 02, 2020

Yampotatocarrot:
Anyone that runs with that, na gods of the land to settle the matter

Na, I just believe there shouldn't be excuse for stupidity or stupid acts. If Ego was a girl between the ages of 19 - 21, I would have understood

Lol @bolded..

But now that praise is also treading that path, are you still going to blame ego for being raped in her matrimonial home?

Poems For Review › Re: Ultimate Cede by neloyah(op): 9:45pm On Jun 02, 2020

Perfectdanny:
Thing is, i'd like an instant reaction to a meme and then i'd now go and start tracking this thread just to react.

It kills my vibe.

Then you can react in real life lol.
So sorry about your vibe, may it rest in peace.

Fashion › Re: Embracing The Beauty Of Your Natural Hair by neloyah: 9:36pm On Jun 02, 2020

fieryy:
Hahahahaha, you're welcome dear. You'll love it. If you don't mind, give an update on how it came out

Sure I would be excited to share cheesy

Poems For Review › Re: Ultimate Cede by neloyah(op): 9:03pm On Jun 02, 2020

Perfectdanny:
Neloyah i cant comment on your dank meme thread

That's because it's in a no comment section of nl.
You wanna say anything about it, you could do it here.

Fashion › Re: Embracing The Beauty Of Your Natural Hair by neloyah: 7:08pm On Jun 02, 2020

fieryy:
Yes, you can but it's going to be difficult and might not come out as fluffy. Just use a big spoon and stir as fast as you can till it has a creamy consistency. Your arm might start hurting after a while though, but see it as an arm exercise

Arm exercise? I dread that.. grin

The only mixing tool I have is manual and the friction is as good as working without a tool.
I'll try to think of shedding some arm fat as motivation for making my herbal hair butter lol.

Thanks a lot ♥♥

Health › Re: The C-section And Signing The Paper by neloyah: 2:53pm On Jun 02, 2020

Most times they need someone to be held accountable for the surgical procedure to be carried out. The woman at the time, being due is considered not entirely stable to make her own decisions, so a trusted guardian is expected to sign. She could wake up one day and remember that the CS wasn't what she wanted actually, but she said so out of stress, and the hospital is sued for malpractice.

However, if the woman is rushed in, in extreme emergency, without a mode of contact, and NVD is deemed dangerous, then a CS is carried out in best interest of the patient.

For the second question; I think it's more of a mindset something. People generally fear going under the knife, some would host a 3 days party after a successful appendectomy. How much more a CS.

Some see it as a thing of shame because the 'rightful' way for a woman to deliver is through the vagina, so they assume the woman who was delivered by CS is incomplete. Forgetting that babies in the womb sometimes assume position that may kill their mother if NVD is carried out..

Gradually, that ideology is being wiped out, that I'm sure. You see women these days opt for CS even when their baby assumes a normal lie. It is becoming safer and people are getting to know it's not a death sentence.

In all, I stand to be calmly corrected..

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Fashion › Re: Embracing The Beauty Of Your Natural Hair by neloyah: 2:37pm On Jun 02, 2020

fieryy:
Oh and before I forget, I chose the whipping tool (or whatever you want to call it) on the right because I didn't want my butter to be stuck in between those 'metals'. It was just easier to work with, but of course you can use the one on the left as well

Hi fieryy, thanks a lot for the the diy.

Can you mix it without a tool?

Poems For Review › Re: Rain by neloyah(op): 12:42am On May 31, 2020

I want to breathe,
Save me.

I want to sleep e'er,
Hold me.

I want to dream,
Let me.

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