₦airaland Forum

Uglymugg:
You signed the marriage contract. You are not supposed to break it. An agreement is an agreement.

I offered to speak with pastor councillors or for us to have an open marriage.

lefulefu:
well if i find my wife attractive i will always be cuddling and kissing wen i get d oppoetunity but i was forced to marry someone i dont like i wont even touch her.could be he's not attracted to d lady he is married to.

So maybe he doesn't want any kids family and only wanting visa? ?
It won't be extended so don't see the logic in this?

Given the situation do I hang around or find someone who wants a genuine intimate relationship.

donkilidon:
pEnIs nor dey strong wen mony nor dey pocket....
sister pray for him to excel in his business or work place.
mean while be a patient and loving wife....

It's been 7 months I'm still human how long do I wait and patient for?

Headlesschicken:
Hope u don't have mouth odour or vg odour, could be d poor n!gga x still going through the trauma he passed through d last time he slept wiv u... I wonder y most couples now complain unnecessarily didn't u guys date at all?

My hygiene is good and other men find me attractive.
We dated briefly then his visa expired we got married and brought him here.

I could either leave him or move on with another man-one who wants to sleep with me.
I offered we talk to our pastor or doctor also tried talking about any concerns etc says thinks tiredness working and his daily drink beer habit.

lefulefu:
maybe he is so busy making money or maybe he does not find u sexually attractive.either of them.

He's always working but still need time as his wife

I have spoken to him and promises he will change.
Feels like he's deliberately not wanting to change but not sure other reasoning.

Lack of sex and intimacy in a relationship-

Is it ever ok to seek out another person if your boyfriend or husband doesn't show you any affection no cuddle /kisses nothing or says they are tired and unwilling to engage in ANY intimacy? Ongoing long term?

What would you do in this situation? ? We are recently married my husband is from Nigeria I'm British citizen.