Wrecxman:
Few things I can say as per what you posted:

1. You are unemployed. Your girl makes money and you don't. Have you asked her what she does online? Is there a way for you to join this online "business" as well?

2. For her to blow through 100k without flinching means there's a solid assurance she can get more. This is the more reason you should ask what she's into. You could be missing life changing money by not doing so.

3. I personally have no problems with an extravagant lady as long as she has earned it herself. There is no prize for living in poverty in this life.

4. Some people have said you should leave her because she spends "unwisely". I think they all miss the vital point here. It's HER money not yours and she has every right to spend it as she wishes. What if she's making investments that you know nothing about? Talk to her. You have not come out to say she buys this or that, only that you don't know what she spends on.

Let me know your thoughts.

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Thanks for your comment
But her spending her own money isn’t the problem here
The problem is spending on unreasonable things and go broke almost immediately can calling me rescue her in emergency situations. ( I mean paying for stuffs and bills)
Let me ask what if her business doesn’t go well like usual ?
It’ll all fall back to me
Cos as it is I’m the only one she’s got

onosbaba3310:


Very simple bro, download Netflix, call her over, buy popcorn, make feel comfortable, open your Netflix and search for this movie....

"The Smart Money Woman"

That movie is all about women spending big and how it affected them and they decided to start saving, after you guys are done tell her, she might end up being broke like the lead character if she doesn't change and start saving now or she might become successful like the lead character who later retraced her steps and started saving....

This movie is going to reset her brain bro, believe me

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Thanks brother

AfroKnight:
Na you go teach her how to save.

Let her start with 5%. She should put her savings in an account which has no ATM card. As time goes on she can change it to 10%.

She must remove the savings immediately money enters her account.

Have tried this technique countless times but it just doesn’t work out
I’ve even tried to take money from her and keep in my personal account...but when she needs the money she always know how to get it back

I feel someone else deserved that award not Ronaldo either

Anyway congrats to Messi

mikigen:
OP they are telling you now you are defending her.
She isn't financially disciplined my guy and I see that you are even too young to control that girl she won't and can't respect you Atleast not for now so how do u intend to make her change when she doesn't even listen to you?

You are a still young, I will advice you face your life and do the little you can to make her see reasons to adjust her lifestyle if you don't notice any changes then let her be even this relationship stuff you are doing now at this your age is not the best for you cos u need to focus and build your life.

Thanks for ur advise sir

Ammishaddai:
Bros , the foundation of every good relationship begins and ends when both parties see and accept things from the other person's point of view .

So try and make her see things from your perspective by highlighting the pros and cons of her spending habits . But if she's adamant, kindly walk out of the relationship and save yourself the horrors of living with someone who's unbending.

After all, a woman who's used to living
extravagantly isn't someone worth marrying and raising children with.

Thanks for your comment

She isn’t that extravagant in spending like buying luxuries.
She just spends unwisely and don’t plan for important things
Like at the end of the day she won’t be able to even account what and what the money was spent on

Good day everyone
I’m not good at writing so pls bear with me anyhow you see this.
I’m a young man 24yrs old and my girlfriend 22, I just finished my undergraduate studies and about going for Nysc, While my girl is still in school but she’s already into some online business making good and enough money for herself money that ordinarily she can use to start up a good life. She does not know how to spend which I have complained severally, I don’t really blame her due to the fact that she gets money at any given time she needs it. She can be paid 100k today and be broke in next 3 days calling me and disturbing me for recharge card and all sort of things she can actually do herself. I normally give this to her but it’s now becoming worse and unbearable no matter the amount she gets, she’ll spend it for you in less than one week with no reasonable thing to show for and you’ll be amazed.

To cut it all short, I’m still unemployed but I normally do some little jobs that brings me cash just change compared to what my girl makes in a month. Let me add that she’s a very supportive girl, helped me during my school when I had issues.

I’ve talked and talked now she tags me a nagging guy, and that I have poverty mentality by telling her to have some savings not for me but for herself

I’m just tried and cos she’s not changing keeps doing same thing
I’m even scared of taking the relationship to the next stage.
Cos if things fall out for her
I’ll be the one to take care of her excessive and exorbitant spendings. And I’m just a guy who’s starting life

Pls I need advise

I

Wahala for who wan travel next week ooo

Lagos-ibadan express road go block due to this event

Mr Latin don level up ooo

I remember when this guy started acting
You go pity am

Damn nigger
Issoright

Pls where is slawormi

Alex baba
Join body 1 of Africa

I wonder the kind gbola wey go fit satisfy this one
She go get large appetite for gbola

Money good ooo
Make the guy trend with caution bad eye plenty outside before we go hear EFCC invite again

Fabulouslouie:
If you're close to your school... Go and complain

Ok thanks

Hello everyone
I’ve done my school clearance since about 1month ago.
Just last 2weeks my school uploaded the senate list on Nysc portal and my name did not appear there

Pls does anyone know what can be done ?

And it is also possible for my school to upload senate list again after the first one ?

And is it still possible I go with this coming stream 2

Thanks
I’ll appreciate any reply

Y

Rip to those who lost their life in the protest last year

Just in:
Pa adebanjo went to visit tinubu with his Daugther in bourdilorn
Baba is positioning his daughter for position already
The prints are on the wall
Use your head Nigerians
No let one man deceive you to be fighting and killing urself in name of agitation or #YorubaNation

Pa adebanjo went to visit tinubu with his Daugther
Baba is positioning his daughter for position already
The prints are on the wall
Use your head Nigerians
No let one man deceive you to be fighting and killing urself in name of agitation #YorubaNation

I’m grateful Lord
Even tho I’m not worthy
You fix me
Now I’m blinded by your grace

Hello everyone
Pls I’m intending to go with stream 2 batch C
I just cleared from my school
My name isn’t on jamb matriculation list
Will this affect me in anyway ...cos I’ll like to go with stream 2 hopefully

No be today yansh don dey for back

Nothing new here...majority of them do nothing in that house...no impact at all..just mark attendance and share the money

Now that bbn is over
Should i tell you guys where we stopped ?

I’m certainly not against good things or luxury
But this is completely VANITY

This is real
It happened yesterday here in akungba
Dog still in police custody and the guy in hospital

Lmao �

I swear Aj go finish this guy

For what purpose exactly ?

Make them come occupy the bench so it won’t look empty ?