Gungnir:


There is a place, a church to be precise where God himself speaks through a vessel of human. He has chosen for various people their spouses and they are living very happily. A woman older than you as at two weeks ago brought yye husband God said is meant for her and she was so happy. GOD had told her weeks prior she was going to meet her own husband meant for her. I have seen four cases with my own eyes. Of recent, I saw one a week ago.


Now my dear, do you wish to speak to God about it, so I give you the phone number of the woman in charge?

I’m not sure I understand what you mean. Are you askig that I speak to one of the prophets? Because if that’s the case, I’ve heard conflicting opinions.

From the ones that tell me he’s not for me to the ones that said things will get better when get married. I’m in a state of utter confusion!

Perhaps marriage isn’t for me…it doesn’t excite that someone loves me or that I’m getting married . He’s a good guy, I can’t lie and it hurts me that I can’t give back as much.

For those of you saying I’m trampling on a good person, lord knows I wasn’t raised like that and I treat everyone with respect and dignity.

Blackhawk01:



You're irredeemably stupid. Quit throwing unnecessary shots and move the fvck on! Mstcheeeeew.


Op, you're going to live with this man, not your parents. How could you even say yes to someone you don't find attractive? Please, don't make the mistake of marrying a man out of pity or pressure. Let him go, he keeps coming around because you let him. Make your intentions known to him and firmly this time around.

I'm not narcissistic, perhaps I placed too much emphasis on the proposal. IT wasn't your usual kneel down proposal. He asked me to date him with view to get married-I agreed to that.

However, he got very carried away by visiting my family members and getting very clingy with my mum; he wants to wed this year!

I don’t necessarily have to marry him but since my parents are going home next month, they are looking to meet his people and fix a date, since bros wants to wed this year.

For all of you with your whack Gif, you really need to walk in people’s shoes before you speak! I’m not a narcissistic but I also don’t want to feel like I’m settling.

I’m 28 and I’ve waited long enough to get married and It keeps me up at night knowing that we may not get to live together in our first year of marriage and how we will survive after marriage. Chances are, for a couple of years I’ll carry the weight financially, spiritually and emotionally.

I am also very concerned marrying someone I have only met once, even though we’ve been chatting for couple of years. I have fear of not really knowing him well. He is getting pressured to marry, he’s 36 and I feel he’s not realistic with the challenges we will obviously face. When he gets angry with me he doesn’t fully express it, I don’t know if that’s his true personality or he is holding back to get what he wants.

Please don’t insult me, this is dear to me, If i could share with my friends, I won’t be here pouring my heart out.

I live in Arizona,about 2 years ago my mum's friend introduced me to a guy in naija. I pointed out that the relationship should be for friendship only, I also made it clear say to bros say na only friendship I want. Toh, the friendship began, na so bro go dey message me everyday, call nko...I sha tell am again say no be for here hin go find nwunye (wife).

Any ways, I came out of a relationship and bros was still here but as friend because again he dey naija. Bros still stylishly ask me for a relationship, wey i make am clear say e no interest me.

Last yr sha, bros came to yankee and we met for the first time. Again, he said he wan marry me...because of family pressure to marry, i said yes.

Now, my problem is I dont find bros attractive at all, i no see much prospective in him but his personality dey ok and he seems to love me. E be like say he know i no like am like that but he sha wan force am make e gel. IF i provoke to point wey I feel say e go let go, bros go do strong head and come back as sweet as ever.

I dont see him my oga at the top but I'm confused if say i go let something good go or bros just wan use me enter canada to better himself. As i know hin leg no balance well for naija but he dey make ends meet. I think say he no say I no like because na him to force make i call am pet names, he dont complain say i no dey call etc. Thing dey clear say i no dey show much love interest.

I no fit discuss with mama because her and my papa like the guy. I dont like bros more than friend and definitley dont see him adding any real value to my life besides to say I have husband.

Make una epppp me , I dont dey loose my mind. Family wan choose date for December when they go niaja in feb. I still fit savour the situation before mid of feb.


Wetin una think about the situation? Shey the love fit grow, bros wan use me for one chance enter yankee or make i kuku drop it and move on.