sorry before i forget, to butress my point on the POWER[b][/b] aspect . if u as a lady, u knows more ( smarter or more intelligent) than ur husband or guy or u are more educated or got better paying job , never ever show it to him or flont it at his face . Never tries to outshine him in a converstation of arguement . if u do , he will find a way of quiting the relationship if u not already married or finds solace outside if already married .

I am married and i can tell u the MAJOR things we men want .

If u are married or a single lady and u want to keep ur relationship or marriage sweet there are two major P word u have to hold very very close to ur heart and mind .

1 : POWER , a man wants power . he want to be the actual head of his home or relationship . so for a woman ,u have to make him feel he is in absolute control . A man , if he cant be the president of his country , the governor of his state or the CEO of his company , he want to be all that at least in his home . A woman can get the best of his man if she gives him that feeling that he his the man . never raise ur voice at ur man . a woman can get what ever she wants in a relationship if she first submit .

2. PEACE , A want wants absolute peace . Out there might be rough , the job , work, education , extendend family but the home or relationship should be the refuge , where a man longs to go after every had days job. Never ever nag him . if u want to have something or wants to make ur point clear , do it with a lot of wisdom . Someone said once in the thread that u wake u man up in the middle of the night to tell him how much u love him . That is very very ver wrong . never wake ur man up in the middle of the night when he is getting all the rest he can after a days job .



Those are the major P words . However, to spice up the romantic side , its simple . ladies try as much a possible to maintain that girlfriend kind of life . dress like a girlfriend ,talk like a girl friend and keep the kids away sometimes . if u behave like a girlfrend , he will always remember to threat u like one i.e taking u out and buying u gift and satisfy ur sexual needs .
U might want to say how do i behave like a girlfriend .

Difference between girlfriend and wife .
, wife always talk about the kids and reminds the man about the house financial responsiblity girlfriends, no kids and no home
, wife relax too much and feels he is mine forever why worry girlfriend trys to keep the man cos of competion outside
, wife has tendency to grow fat , girlfriends keep trim
, wife dont bother to look attractive to the men . girlfriend always try to remain as attractive as possible
, wife allow the kids to take more of their attension , girlfriends , no kid



well those are my points . it works for me but i wish my wife can read this so that we can have even better marriage . u will say why cant i tell her all these . the truth is it is alot better if she discovers herself . u know there are somethings u wont find easy telling ur wife especially telling her what to do when it comes to things like this .

paulakintade@yahoo.com

@poster . The problem with u is that u lost ur teenage years to acedemic and over seriousness . I have a colleague in the office with same problem now . at 34 now he has no girl friend . he got disvirgined last year by a sales girl that sells in a shop bellow his flat . the girl noticed he was so naive and toasted him and even took him to a guest house to have sex . The guy grew up same way like u . i asked him about his university days , he said all he did was read and read . The point is what u need to do at age 2 if u dont do it and u want to start at age 6 it will pose problem and what u need to have started at age 16 it will be difficult starting at age 23 .

what u need to do now is move faster than u are doing now . Never let a lady notice that u are naive . never let her know u have not being there before . make her think u are a real man .go out there and make friendship with ladies not just friends but relationships.  if u dont move now u might end up like my friend who is frustrated at 34 . his family calls him most time asking him to bring a fiancy home .

Pls be smart .

I know exactly how u feel . i am so sorry this kind of situation is happening to a woman . I am married and i know what it means to neglect a woman . women are meant to be pampered , cared for and given all the attention . As a married man, i discovered that if u make ur wife very happy there is great tendency that u urself will see joy and happiness . there in nothing like having a thought of going to a peacefull home after a days work , going to the warm embrace of ur wife . there is nothing like looking forward to ur wife's kisses , love and sweet love making .

Those condeming this woman because she is asking for friendship with a man should not really blame her cos there is great difference in companisionship with the opposite sex .  

but mind u ,the truth is if a man gets the full attension of a woman , the woman might end up cheating that is the plain truth .

paulakintade@yahoo.com

sugar mummy is someone that service ur purse for sex . but in my case , i dont need that . i got my job and i am doing well . just have this attractions for older ladies . I believe they wont give stress , no marry me today marry me tomorrow . and u can learn quite alot from her . Please not married women o . Dont do married women o .

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