my intention is to supply to someone to sell , so i wont be involved in the selling but just supplying.

All worshippers of God - pastors or not should work - jesus did and so did his disciples - fishers, carpenters etc. Any pastors that is not work is not doing the work of Jehovah, they are free loaders. they should be leading the congregation by example not expecting the congregation to feed them. so check your churches so that you are not misled. the work of God is not a job, it is an assignment to them if they think so and so should not burden the congregation. OLE

Hello all
Could someone please give me some guidance.
I intend to start up a business - clothing or electronics.
I have been considering my options - pros and cons of either. but seriously considering clothing sales. going into a business venture with a friend. i now live in france but can visit most eu countries and i need to know what the cost of these items sells in nigeria.
How much do these cost in nigeria

1. childrens t-shirts 2. childrens jeans
3. childrens singlets
4. ladies office wear - shirts - t.m lewin. panaomi. hawes and curtis, austin reed etc
5. mens


which brand of clothing should i keep away from, some one said primark and other low end of the market clothing

Thanks all for your comments though, i guess, something in my present life is failing and i am just clinging to the past - what could have been, so to speak. Anyhow, i have made a drastic move to visit the family of my past and bury the hatchet once and for all - as I left the state where they were years ago and have had minimal contact. this will hopefully give me some closure - my intention - bury the dead man for good.
However as for my present situation, that has not changed as i realise that my longing for the past is as a result of what i am experiencing now. The most difficult thing i cannot stand from supposely better half is the fact that he chooses to abuse my parents time after time ( all names under the sun - he has called them - i have spoken to his mum and my parents are aware of this) even after his mum spoke to him - he carries on. no respect for my parents then no respect from me to him and my legs stay close - banished.
I am from a broken home as he is as well - i guess maybe thats the problem - he never grew up with his mum from the age of two - made contact 11 years ago with my persuasion and now they enjoy a wonderful relationship.

Hi phillybabe
Time they say is a healer, however, each and everyone grieve in diff ways and time, so i guess whilst your advice is to move on and forget, it is not as easy as you think. If you were in my shoes then i guess i would say then probably your understanding and mine would be on par, however, your advice is noted.

Thanks all for your advice. I have tried to live the past behind, i even went to Nigeria and made attempt to se his people so i can get some form of closure. Maybe the photo i have should be destroyed, and that may help. I would try that and if all fails a bereavement counsellor sounds like a good idea. However the love for my husband hopefully should come then later abi. but we dont really gell together so i guess that is one thing that may be making me rekindle the past. always on opposite sides of any thing. i have tried to remain quite most times just to let it lie but as we have different views in life, it gets difficult sometimes. this thing is serious oh, i even detest the man touching me - i recoil, he just irritates me. someone help. do i need my head examined or do you think is the same issue.

My fiance died over 10 yrs ago. i got married 2 years later, but i cant get him out of my mind. i still  keep a photo of him in my album. I dont really think i love my husband -  it was ok at first but as we went on, i dont see why i married him in the first place, Looks like i was on a rebound or something, i recall i never even suggested marrying him, most of the marrying thing came from him . i now have two kids etc - love them loads but cant say i love my husband. we are just co-existing together.

What can i do. I dont want a divorce and yet i cannot get myself to love him. However,  we have had our own share marital problems.  But all i think of is if my life would have been diff if for my 1st passing away. i still cry sometimes thinking about him an even as i type this out. Anyone any constructive advice please would be nice. i know they say if cant be with the one you love , love the one you are with. but these advice are hard to implement practically. Sad to say, i sometimes wish my present one was dead instaed of my late fiance. Am i going crazy. this cant be normal.