₦airaland Forum

emusmith:
In her own drama, it was not foreseen.

In few cases, the husbands get the job after they were married. That becomes a hard but to crack

chibic:
and you think the woman will be completely faithful as well?

emusmith:
This is to Oil Rig workers, those in diaspora, Sea, Out of the state etc...and this makes him visit home like once a month to spend just a few days.

I personally know many young wives whose husbands left for work a day or a week after their wedding. I know them.

My colleague told me she hasn't seen the husband in 8 years. He works in South Africa. They communicate on phone. He sends money often. Their son was One when he left.


I know the money is good.

But does the women want just the money?


This is an Opinion Poll and so many ladies and guys have a thing or two to say.

Please contribute to help our sisters cope.


Besides, How Have You Been Coping?

Beamborla:
You really do not understand me. Bless your day.

Beamborla:
Talking about brain, We have lots of them in Nigeria. It's just that the situation of the country does not make an average Nigerian think beyond survival (daily bread). And those in power are only concerned about enriching themselves. No time for critical thinking that leads to innovation, no time to just look around with a clear mind so one can see what is hidden in one thing or the other. In Nigeria, when you see people in front of the T.V or making use of any form of the media it always just for entertainment and business and they hardly open their mind beyond that. Very few think of education when you talk of the media yet these are one of the places if not the best place to get idea. We have it all in this country. Maybe we truly need the secession to push the best in everyone out.

The only problem in it is that ,right within ourselves, We would start fighting for power I.e the minority tribe or community not wanting to be marginalied.
The SW which has considerable amount of Christians, Muslims and traditional worshippers might start having religious crisis with each segment wanting to .be well represented in the political affairs. Other regions would also have their issues...no doubt

Beamborla:
My dear, strenght does not reside in the boot or muscle anymore. It's Now in the brain and at your finger tips. The whites don't have enough resources and are not strong physically but they are surviving. Every one seem to think the SW are cowards and won't survive when faced with difficulties... all I have to say is 'let it happen first' then We would know who is who. I would refrain from making negative comments about any geo-political zone cos It's not worth it.

IGBOSON1:
^^^How? Every region can survive on their own, it's just that some are afraid to go it on their own and leave the false 'cover' one Nigeria provides!

Do you really think these boko bastards would have survived a week if they faced an independent Biafra Republic (Alaigbo), Oduduwa Republic or Ijaw Republic?

I'm a realist, and don't have time for utopian dreams like 'one Nigeria' which we all know is a lie!

Beamborla:
We really should try this secession thing for a year and see who and who would survive it and those it would work out for. That way everybody would know where he or she belong at the end of the one year and all these noise would reduce

Beamborla:
We really should try this secession thing for a year and see who and who would survive it and those it would work out for. That way everybody would know where he or she belong at the end of the one year and all these noise would reduce

safarigirl:
correction, I didn't degrade them, they have done enough to degrade themselves, I'm just pinting out all of their BS cuz they end up not only making clowns of themselves, but of the rest of the womenfolk as well

I mean, have you ever seen two guys having heated arguments about the size of each other's D's anywhere? But some dolt feels the eediotic need to take a pic of her fat aSss and compare herself to Kim K....I really don't need to degrade them, they've done enough. You certainly didn't expect me to defend such disturbing stupidity

Danhumprey:
Just a simple question and she start cussin innocent people and later they complain they can't find man on nairaland. Gaddamit!


Now,back to the serious question. Sweery,are you light skin?

Nneka123:
Damn op! when i saw the title, i had this relieve that someone (well a lady like me) is trying to stand out for ladies who are used or seen

as sex objects in the society, but you just ended up degrading those ladies. well it's your point and your opinion about objectification.

MizMyColi:
A lady should be mentally strong enough to know when to gather all her faculties and walk out of a relationship that reeks of first class manipulation, selfishness, control and downright emotional abuse.

But no, we won't.

We must marry this year by fire by force.
When it doesn't pan out that way, we conclude we were taken advantage of. We had a part to play joor.

We keep giving guys irrefutable reasons to spew iranu and rada rada about us.
Reducing us to beggars of attention, affection, money and ultimately; marriage.

Dear Lawd, give me and my fellow ladies brain.

Aamem.

freecocoa:
The simple answer is to stop being desperate and just maybe, no one will use you.

A desperate woman is also out to use any man who is stup1d enough to get caught in her trap, so...

seggzz:
I have a very beautiful virgin girl but cannot cook as I do. There was a time I asked her to prepare a pepper soup meal. She didn't know the procedures and she had to ask me the cooking procedures. And I was ashamed with the way she wanted to prepare the meal. I pushed her away and I prepared it myself. She was surprised that I can cook that good after she tasted it.

Moreover, I still asked her to cook egusi soup and stew with turkey differently. She couldn't cook it well even after some assistance, the egusi soup tasted salty. And now, I do most of the cooking anytime she visits me. She confessed that she usually enjoy my food, but I'm not happy with her.

Ladies and gentlemen, what should I do to this virgin lady?

emusmith:
I know someone loves them and will eventually date and marry them.

But You, which among these in a lady can put you off completely?


Bass voice

Moustache

Hair on the chest.

"Man-Walking"

NinoBrown888:
its called pornkin...anather specie of pumpkin fruit now go and play.

Syphax:
9ja niqqaz be like: "I'm also an introvert you know,could we enjoy our privacy together?"

Nicklaus:
Yes of course, that your father with Huge Big and Strong thing that you love

Nicklaus:
Yes of course, that you father with Huge Big and Strong thing that you love

irunobo3:
You mean your father bah??

irunobo3:



What's your business with who we choose to date Jobless thing

irunobo3:
Hello