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The Real Reason He's Dumping You by kokoye(m): 6:51pm On Dec 18, 2008 |
Too smart: I once had a friend who was convinced she couldn't keep a boyfriend because she was too smart for the male population. She was positive her staggering intellect was turning them off. Uh, no. What drove the men away (and most of her female friends, as well) was the fact that she was mean. We're talking stupendously cruel. Her definition of smart translated into cutting people down until they felt like the smallest person on earth. Not exactly a turn-on, no matter how cleverly it's worded. Too nice: Generally, I hear this one more from men, but women are guilty of it, too. Here, the problem is semantics. "Nice" is a desirable quality. Whereas "doormat," "pantywaist," and "milquetoast" are not. Far too many people mistake the latter for the former, and there's a world of difference when it comes to dating. So, no, you're not getting dumped because you're too nice; you're getting the heave-ho because you're spineless. Too good in bed: You've practiced Tantra, and you've never met a sexual position you wouldn't try at least once. Yet men will get with you one time, and then you never hear from them again. You're not getting dumped because of how well you do it, but because of how hard you try when you do it. Sex should be fun and relaxing -- not an audition for the porn Olympics. Too intimidating: An amalgam of the "too smart"/"too beautiful" non-dilemma, these women think they keep getting blown off because they're too accomplished, too employed, too gorgeous, too intellectual, too too. The only kind of man who is put off by a kind, smart, beautiful woman with a great career and a fantastic smile is the kind of dolt you don't want to be bothered with dating in the first place. However, these jerks are few and far between. Don't blame your broken heart on his inability to handle your extreme fabulosity. The fact of the matter is that nobody but a psycho is going to dump you be because you're too perfect. http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/12/18/reasons.you.wont.get.dumped/index.html |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by iice(f): 8:36am On Dec 19, 2008 |
rofl true. |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by DonEse125(f): 8:44am On Dec 19, 2008 |
Hehehehe.very true. I think i fall into the last category. |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by na2day2(m): 8:56am On Dec 19, 2008 |
bravo, thats just one nice write up kokoye: |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by kokoye(m): 5:18pm On Dec 19, 2008 |
Think a lot of ladies ougto to read this. they'll realise what their problem is and their romantic life will definately become better |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by AdamBrody1(m): 10:36pm On Dec 19, 2008 |
@poster Why are you being diplomatic with all these chics and telling them kind things to make them believe that dumping them is because they are either nice or too smart? What about because they are too stupid, dumb, irritating, gossip peddlers, dirty, lack manners, uncouth, obsessive jealous freaks, naggists and demanding! Sorry did i forget to add very irritating too? Oh yeah! its up there! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 11:44pm On Dec 19, 2008 |
^^^ ![]() ![]() ![]() @Kokoye ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Tgirl4real(f): 12:00am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody, Why are you too controversial? Hi! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 12:06am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Tgirl4real: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You are on your own o, lol ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by AdamBrody1(m): 12:21am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So dont expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright! But all those bastards like ujujoan, jgirl, stillwater, michellin tyre and a host of animals on NL should expect more banger fireworks from me anytime they open their stinking, smelly mouths to yan dust to me! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 12:22am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Guys dump girls especially black girls because they are most times very stupid. Only a few exceptions exist. Majority of black girls are just twats! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by tope2000(f): 12:24am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Its nice to see that Adam and tgirl put their differences aside, I like that Very mature ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 12:26am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody: Whatever you have with them is on the internet, so don't feel its appropriate to call them bastards ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 12:27am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody: Dude, you location says "some" nairaland chicks are retards. You are mistaken here. 95% of nairaland chicks are not just retards but mentally ravaged. I wonder what they are like in real life. Such a set of girls. Tfia!!!! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by AdamBrody1(m): 12:39am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: Maybe i should kick your backside now which i believe you rightly deserve now! ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 12:43am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody: I dare you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Nobody: 12:45am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy Body, stop flirting!! kai |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by AdamBrody1(m): 12:53am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: I don know whether i should kick your backside with my d**k or my foot but anyhow it deserves to be spanked sha! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 12:58am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody: Dude, u too much! Spank this busybody ashawo make she stop to dey flirt here. |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 1:00am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Ebony-Silk: Ha mo gbe, please don't let his head start to swell like garri ifo, I can see the next thread already "Adam brody is so slick Nairaland girls are falling over themselves to date him", so no thanks i will pass ![]() I can work him for you though, this one wey you dey take style scope him so ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 1:02am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: C' mun Busy_body, won't u stop all this flirting and naija formings u dey do here? kai, naija ugly girls self! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 1:05am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Adam Brody: You berra remove this b4 Ebony sees this, she likes you, she's just shy, don't say i told you, but she'gagging for it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 1:08am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: C'mun shut up Busy body! Go find a place and get ur pussie busy not just ur body! Kai, e don do, mugu! |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 1:11am On Dec 20, 2008 |
ayeaxelord: Instead of you to come out and say where hin dey pain you, you dey form ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Tgirl4real(f): 1:15am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Iyalode don kill this guy . . . Busybein kini guy na your funeral be that hehehehehe ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 1:15am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: Kai, babe, u don kolo! Wetin i fit do you self make u hate me? |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Tgirl4real(f): 1:20am On Dec 20, 2008 |
On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So don't expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright! Adam Brody, It's nice of you to have said something this nice about me. But seriously, quit hitting on the babes. Alright ![]() tope2000: Yeah! Thanks tope ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Busybody2(f): 1:23am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Tgirl4real: Abi na, he needs someone gentle to calm him down and hold his hands when he needs it and someone who can be at his beck and call, and only Busybein fits the bill. Tgirl, abi you game for a bit of ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by ayeaxelord(m): 1:32am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: Look u bitchy bastard, won't have a time out to get that stinkiy pussy of urs busy, silly Busy_body? ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Tgirl4real(f): 1:39am On Dec 20, 2008 |
Busy_body: Chei! Ogini Ageg, busybein will be a better partner ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by busybein: 2:31am On Dec 20, 2008 |
busybody has finally found love on NL Bless seun ![]() |
Re: The Real Reason He's Dumping You by Nobody: 2:41am On Dec 20, 2008 |
busy body, no put my name between your love abeg. My status says, touch and get killed o ![]() Sillyboy, no mind her o. . . . ![]() busybein:I helped ![]() |
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