Too smart: I once had a friend who was convinced she couldn't keep a boyfriend because she was too smart for the male population. She was positive her staggering intellect was turning them off. Uh, no. What drove the men away (and most of her female friends, as well) was the fact that she was mean. We're talking stupendously cruel. Her definition of smart translated into cutting people down until they felt like the smallest person on earth. Not exactly a turn-on, no matter how cleverly it's worded.

Too nice: Generally, I hear this one more from men, but women are guilty of it, too. Here, the problem is semantics. "Nice" is a desirable quality. Whereas "doormat," "pantywaist," and "milquetoast" are not. Far too many people mistake the latter for the former, and there's a world of difference when it comes to dating. So, no, you're not getting dumped because you're too nice; you're getting the heave-ho because you're spineless.

Too good in bed: You've practiced Tantra, and you've never met a sexual position you wouldn't try at least once. Yet men will get with you one time, and then you never hear from them again. You're not getting dumped because of how well you do it, but because of how hard you try when you do it. Sex should be fun and relaxing -- not an audition for the porn Olympics.

Too intimidating: An amalgam of the "too smart"/"too beautiful" non-dilemma, these women think they keep getting blown off because they're too accomplished, too employed, too gorgeous, too intellectual, too too. The only kind of man who is put off by a kind, smart, beautiful woman with a great career and a fantastic smile is the kind of dolt you don't want to be bothered with dating in the first place. However, these jerks are few and far between. Don't blame your broken heart on his inability to handle your extreme fabulosity. The fact of the matter is that nobody but a psycho is going to dump you be because you're too perfect.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/12/18/reasons.you.wont.get.dumped/index.html

Hehehehe.very true. I think i fall into the last category.

bravo, thats just one nice write up

kokoye:

Too smart: I once had a friend who was convinced she couldn't keep a boyfriend because she was too smart for the male population. She was positive her staggering intellect was turning them off. Uh, no. What drove the men away (and most of her female friends, as well) was the fact that she was mean. We're talking stupendously cruel. Her definition of smart translated into cutting people down until they felt like the smallest person on earth. Not exactly a turn-on, no matter how cleverly it's worded.

Too nice: Generally, I hear this one more from men, but women are guilty of it, too. Here, the problem is semantics. "Nice" is a desirable quality. Whereas "doormat," "pantywaist," and "milquetoast" are not. Far too many people mistake the latter for the former, and there's a world of difference when it comes to dating. So, no, you're not getting dumped because you're too nice; you're getting the heave-ho because you're spineless.

Too good in bed: You've practiced Tantra, and you've never met a sexual position you wouldn't try at least once. Yet men will get with you one time, and then you never hear from them again. You're not getting dumped because of how well you do it, but because of how hard you try when you do it. Sex should be fun and relaxing -- not an audition for the porn Olympics.

Too intimidating: An amalgam of the "too smart"/"too beautiful" non-dilemma, these women think they keep getting blown off because they're too accomplished, too employed, too gorgeous, too intellectual, too too. The only kind of man who is put off by a kind, smart, beautiful woman with a great career and a fantastic smile is the kind of dolt you don't want to be bothered with dating in the first place. However, these jerks are few and far between. Don't blame your broken heart on his inability to handle your extreme fabulosity. The fact of the matter is that nobody but a psycho is going to dump you be because you're too perfect.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/12/18/reasons.Uwont.get.dumped/index.html

Think a lot of ladies ougto to read this. they'll realise what their problem is and their romantic life will definately become better

@poster

Why are you being diplomatic with all these chics and telling them kind things to make them believe that dumping them is because they are either nice or too smart? What about because they are too stupid, dumb, irritating, gossip peddlers, dirty, lack manners, uncouth, obsessive jealous freaks, naggists and demanding!

Sorry did i forget to add very irritating too? Oh yeah! its up there!

^^^

@Kokoye

Ouch

Adam Brody,

Why are you too controversial?
Hi!

Tgirl4real:

Adam Brody,

Why are you too controversial?
Hi!

Tell me she didn't just go there

You are on your own o, lol

Busy_body:


Tell me she didn't just go there

You are on your own o, lol

On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So dont expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright!

But all those bastards like ujujoan, jgirl, stillwater, michellin tyre and a host of animals on NL should expect more banger fireworks from me anytime they open their stinking, smelly mouths to yan dust to me!

Guys dump girls especially black girls because they are most times very stupid. Only a few exceptions exist. Majority of black girls are just twats!

Its nice to see that Adam and tgirl put their differences aside, I like that
Very mature

Adam Brody:

On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So don't expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright!

But all those bastards like ujujoan, jgirl, stillwater, michellin tyre and a host of animals on NL should expect more banger fireworks from me anytime they open their stinking, smelly mouths to yan dust to me!

Whatever you have with them is on the internet, so don't feel its appropriate to call them bastards If you put your problem out here, surely you don't expect everyone to hold your hands, and reassure you everything is going to be alright, all they did was give you a kick up the backside, which I felt you rightly needed

Adam Brody:

On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So don't expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright!

But all those bastards like ujujoan, jgirl, stillwater, michellin tyre and a host of animals on NL should expect more banger fireworks from me anytime they open their stinking, smelly mouths to yan dust to me!

Dude, you location says "some" nairaland chicks are retards. You are mistaken here.

95% of nairaland chicks are not just retards but mentally ravaged. I wonder what they are like in real life. Such a set of girls. Tfia!!!!

Busy_body:


Whatever you have with them is on the internet, so don't feel its appropriate to call them bastards If you put your problem out here, surely you don't expect everyone to hold your hands, and reassure you everything is going to be alright, all they did was give you a kick up the backside, which I felt you rightly needed

Maybe i should kick your backside now which i believe you rightly deserve now!

Adam Brody:

Maybe i should kick your backside now which i believe you rightly deserve now!

I dare you Iwo ti ko fe gbo otito yi

Busy Body, stop flirting!! kai

Busy_body:

I dare you Iwo ti ko fe gbo otito yi

I don know whether i should kick your backside with my d**k or my foot but anyhow it deserves to be spanked sha!

Adam Brody:

I don know whether i should kick your backside with my d**k or my foot but anyhow it deserves to be spanked sha!

Dude, u too much! Spank this busybody ashawo make she stop to dey flirt here.

Ebony-Silk:

Busy Body, stop flirting!! kai

Ha mo gbe, please don't let his head start to swell like garri ifo, I can see the next thread already "Adam brody is so slick Nairaland girls are falling over themselves to date him", so no thanks i will pass

I can work him for you though, this one wey you dey take style scope him so don't worry you can have him to yourself

Busy_body:

Ha mo gbe, please don't let his head start to swell like garri ifo, I can see the next thread already "Adam brody is so slick Nairaland girls are falling over themselves to date him", so no thanks i will pass

I can work him for you though, this one wey you dey take style scope him so don't worry you can have him to yourself

C' mun Busy_body, won't u stop all this flirting and naija formings u dey do here? kai, naija ugly girls self!

Adam Brody:

I don know whether i should kick your backside with my d**k or my foot but anyhow it deserves to be spanked sha!

You berra remove this b4 Ebony sees this, she likes you, she's just shy, don't say i told you, but she'gagging for it Let me just warn you though, she's gonna play hard to get for a bit, so don't let that put you off okay Now off you go to work your magic on her, i trust you, you will have her eating from the palm of your hands in no time

Busy_body:

You berra remove this before Ebony sees this, she likes you, she's just shy, don't say i told you, but she'gagging for it Let me just warn you though, she's going to play hard to get for a bit, so don't let that put you off okay Now off you go to work your magic on her, i trust you, you will have her eating from the palm of your hands in no time

C'mun shut up Busy body! Go find a place and get ur pussie busy not just ur body! Kai, e don do, mugu!

ayeaxelord:

C' mun Busy_body, won't u stop all this flirting and naija formings u dey do here? kai, naija ugly girls self!

Instead of you to come out and say where hin dey pain you, you dey form anyway i get one foin opeke like that for you, her name is busybein, she's so gentle and so docile i believe you guys are compatible, so if you behave yaself, i will work something out for you

Iyalode don kill this guy . . .

Busybein kini guy na your funeral be that

hehehehehe

Busy_body:

Instead of you to come out and say where hin dey pain you, you dey form anyway i get one foin opeke like that for you, her name is busybein, she's so gentle and so docile i believe you guys are compatible, so if you behave yaself, i will work something out for you  

Kai, babe, u don kolo! Wetin i fit do you self make u hate me?

On the contrary, Tgirl is one of the few NL's i respect and no matter what she says offensively to me will make me yab her or say something nasty to her because she is one of the very decent ones on NL. So don't expect any fireworks concerning me and Tgirl! She is very alright!

Adam Brody,

It's nice of you to have said something this nice about me. But seriously, quit hitting on the babes. Alright

tope2000:

Its nice to see that Adam and tgirl put their differences aside, I like that
Very mature

Yeah!

Thanks tope

Tgirl4real:

Iyalode don kill this guy . . .

Busybein kini guy na your funeral be that

hehehehehe

Abi na, he needs someone gentle to calm him down and hold his hands when he needs it and someone who can be at his beck and call, and only Busybein fits the bill.

Tgirl, abi you game for a bit of Vanweedayeaxelord, since you like your men to have principles, he seems the one woman type, and trust me only the best would do for you

Busy_body:

Abi na, he needs someone gentle to calm him down and hold his hands when he needs it and someone who can be at his beck and call, and only Busybein fits the bill.

Tgirl, abi you game for a bit of Vanweedayeaxelord, since you like your men to have principles, he seems the one woman type, and trust me only the best would do for you

Look u bitchy bastard, won't have a time out to get that stinkiy pussy of urs busy, silly Busy_body?

Busy_body:

Abi na, he needs someone gentle to calm him down and hold his hands when he needs it and someone who can be at his beck and call, and only Busybein fits the bill.

Tgirl, abi you game for a bit of Vanweedayeaxelord, since you like your men to have principles, he seems the one woman type, and trust me only the best would do for you

Chei! Ogini

Ageg, busybein will be a better partner

busybody has finally found love on NL

Bless seun

busy body, no put my name between your love abeg. My status says, touch and get killed o


Sillyboy, no mind her o. . . .

busybein:

busybody has finally found love on NL

Bless seun

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