Ucheosefoh:

I have a very good friend who is 20 years old seeking for admission in one of the universities in the southeast he got his galfriend pregnant and they are planing for aborting the one month pregnant but I told him that I dont support it and will not want his education to stop because of the pregnant and the issue of him getting married at this young age but he have already made up his mind to do the abortion and he is looking for money to complete the amount he have for the abortion. I have the amount that he is looking for but I dont want to give him the money cus I dont want to stain my hands with the blood of an innocent child[b]. Did I do the right thing by not helping him with the amount that he is looking for [/b]

kemmeye:

of course you did the right thing. [b]he is crazy wen he was doing the shuku shuku [/b]didnt he know it might lead to pregnancy dont give him the money.

MRbrownJAY:

stop thinking of IFs and MAYBEs, this is your dear friends life you are talking about.
your friend IS NOT ready to have a child and HAS NOT got an education, but yet he will have to go and find work (obviously only some bs job) and start caring for this child and mother (even though he doesnt want to). that will surely make him a bitter father and a bitter partner who will blame that child for his failure.

he will ultimately hold you  also responsible for not helping to correct his mistake when he needed you the most.

as i always write:
In Ecclesiastes 6:3, God compares the rich man who has led an empty foolish life with a still-born infant and says, “it would have been better for that man if he had not been born.” The world is better off without Judases and Hitlers and Charles Mansons – who quite often begin life unwanted, grow up abused and hated, and then take out their anger on society. How many psychopaths and destructive misfits will be born if/when people are forced to bear unwanted children?

also The Bible indicates that personhood begins when a baby emerges from the mother’s womb. In the Bible and in modern life, birthdays are observed on the date of the baby’s emergence from the womb. The precise moment of the beginning of personhood is when the baby takes its first breath because that’s when God infuses the baby with a soul. Genesis 2:7 says, “And the Lord God formed man out of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.” In other words, when an infant breathes its first breath, the soul enters its body and it achieves the status of person. . . . . . . not before!

taken from the essay of a great man!

In Ecclesiastes 6:3, God compares the rich man who has led an empty foolish life with a still-born infant and says, “it would have been better for that man if he had not been born.” The world is better off without Judases and Hitlers and Charles Mansons – who quite often begin life unwanted, grow up abused and hated, and then take out their anger on society. How many psychopaths and destructive misfits will be born if/when people are forced to bear unwanted children?

And how, Mr, would you EXACTLY know, who is who inside the womb? And what they'll become huh? Do you have a futureristoscope?( ) Seriously, talk to me!

also The Bible indicates that personhood begins when a baby emerges from the mother’s womb. In the Bible and in modern life, birthdays are observed on the date of the baby’s emergence from the womb. The precise moment of the beginning of personhood is when the baby takes its first breath because that’s when God infuses the baby with a soul. Genesis 2:7 says, “And the Lord God formed man out of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.” In other words, when an infant breathes its first breath, the soul enters its body and it achieves the status of person. . . . . . . not before!

Nayah:

Habari my sweet Pendo
Poster good morning, you might be right giving your point of view but try not to blame her or making feel her guilty just try to be honest and neutral then she'll be able to take her decision

sexkillz:

How about, Speak the truth at all times! Even if it sounds blunt or Judgmental! Laws DONT make excuses for the offenders!
Why should we pat nonsense on the back, in a bid to avoid sounding Judgmental? Where is JUSTICE?

Sexkillz, read again what I say, he can tell what he thinks but what he thinks it's not necessary "the truth" this is his opinion, reason why I say the person has to make her decision without having being judged or blamed, What you think "truth" maybe is not, I prefer saying my opinion then leave her making her own decision without make her feel she would be wrong going for abortion, cause everyone has personal motivations

Nayah! if you agree that Abortion is Wrong, can anything, or any excuse whatsoever, make abortion RIGHT?

Let me understand your parabolic trajectory!

Two girls are 5 weeks old pregnant! Two of them, wants to abort! Now Nayah comes along and advices them not to, because abortion is wrong! The first girl goes ahead to abort, the second girl does not abort!

Which of the two girls did the right thing?

sexkillz:

Nayah! if you agree that Abortion is Wrong, can anything, or any excuse whatsoever, make abortion RIGHT?

Let me understand your parabolic trajectory!

Two girls are 5 weeks old pregnant! Two of them, wants to abort! Now Nayah comes along and advices them not to, because abortion is wrong! The first girl goes ahead to abort, the second girl does not abort!

Which of the two girls did the right thing?

Nayah:

Sexkillz life is not that easy and everything is not white or black my dear!

Nayah:
I could tell you not abort but if you think it could warn you to go ahead in school or whatever,

Nayah:
as a friend I can't judge you, you know what I mean?

Nayah:
I wouldn't be able to do that this is not my body buy her, that's why I said the decision is not our role, we just have to support our friend by supporting them when they make their decision even though you don't approve

Really? Another evasive answer! What if it was the Murder of an innocent fellow student? Would you still make this comment about supporting them even if we dont approve? But now, because a baby is involved we are biased? Should you take a life of a baby, because no one is there to render it Justice? Is it the baby's fault that it was brought to conception? The main purpose of sex is to make babies! This is what you get when we misuse of freedom of choice and our bodies! Do you know that by supporting your friend for murder, that you can be termed an accomplice? Should you fail to heed the warnings of your own conscience, just to make your friend and his own conscience happy? Hmm! Tell me More!

Life is Life! There is no need for unnecessary compartmentalization of Human life! A day old human is as much human as a 20 year old human(20 x 365 days)