Or is it someone that, really you would not have married in your wildest dreams?

Also cultural difference and white ladies are quite ugly some of them.

If you had 100% freedom of movement in EU or USA do you think it is at all possible for one to marry a white person genuinely from their heart?

oh boy! here we go again!
Leilah ! Leilah! Of course it is possible to genuinely love someone who is of another race. There will always be cultural differences. So if both parties cant work it out and come to a compromise then its best not to get married. Those cultural differences play a huge role . It determines how money is shared, bills are paid, housework divided, children reared etc.

when you refer to 100% freedom of movement in the US and Eu i believe you are talking about Nigerians/Africans/people who marry for residency status. . Its happening and its unfortunate but that is a whole different kettle of fish i am too exhausted to delve into tonight.

yes , and why not. i like white ladies and hope to get married to one.you can cintact me on +234-42-312384

dude leilah is taken. nice try though!

why not? white women are just women underneath the skin after all.

Oh yeah they are not REAL women though are they?

Leilah:

Oh yeah they are not REAL women though are they?

huh?

@nino whats wrong with all the beautiful naija ladies out there?

I heard white women are not real women obviously there are not as strong, submissive and not to mention thye can't cook, plus they are ugly.

In otherwords

Leilah:

I heard white women are not real women obviously there are not as strong, submissive and not to mention thye can't cook, plus they are ugly.

white women can be as hard as a bag of nails i tell you! who says they arent strong and cant cook? myths all ! Too many generalizations.

Leilah:

I heard white women are not real women obviously there are not as strong, submissive and not to mention thye can't cook, plus they are ugly.

Wow!! I heard the same thing too. Oh you forgot white girl are got at giving head

baby girl, be proud of who you are, love yourself and you will be sure to find real love white or not do your thang.

@poster

No, it is not possible.  But don't feel bad about that.  The typical black man cannot love a black woman either.  It is just not in their genetic constitution to do just that.  Just do your thing.


The concept of love is a strange one in Aficans. Since they did not invent the word, I don't feel bad that they do not understand it. 

Take heart my dear!

Very true almondjoy it seems to me that they cannot even love their own yeah guess I will just do my thang!

@Almondjoy,

Why would you come out with such drivel? If you have had bad experiences with some African or some Nigerian men doesn't mean they cannot love Nigerian women or white women.

All men are dogs, all they want is sex. All men cheat! All African/Nigerian men cheat on their wives and what not!
All African women are golddiggers, horrible in bed and cannot flirt or seduce their men to save their lives, All women nag!,

Generalizations on above statements.

Next time you choose your mate wisely.


Women and men come in different colours, some are good and some are bad. Some white men have really pointy noses and some black have really flat noses.

Some men will cheat on you and have a family with another woman, some women will cheat on you and pass off someone else child as yours. It happens with both black and white people so please enough of the crap about African men, 

Choose your mate wisely and pray for the best and you'll be fine.

@poster

Please so kindly to read the following existing topics to refresh your new next steps---forget about the color, nationality, and major generalizations you heard at below:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

I know that you already married, but take a note to remind you what it went go wrong??

why do you call white women ugly? are u on crack or something.

Stop Being Racist and Grow UP.

A Man can love a woman regardless of their color. Love is BLind.

@Poster Is it possible for a white lady to marry and genuinely love a Black man?
love cuts across skin colour !