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stunningjudy:
My friend has a dude that started asking her out right from year1, we have graduated and the dude is still asking her out. We all did a 5year course. So to answer your question, its very possible.

MzzTega:
Ok. Two things are involved here.
Its either both of you being together is not meant to be or there's something wrong with you.

naijaboiy:
Ok so what's the issue now?

You want to say "Yes" to him because he has been showing love and care to you meanwhile you don't "Love" him back.

In other words you're considering dating him out of pity.

Right?

ronald4lif:
I know, but I still suggest you give a relationship a try with him, if the both of you are single. He has been very good and helpful for 5years tells a lot about his real intentions, which to me are genuine.

Guys like him are very rare ohh, I am not sure I can do such. For what na? Biko try him out that guy is an asset, try to make yourself develop feelings towards him jare

Welepamilayo:
Are you attracted to him? Likeness can evolve if there is attraction. if you just like the person as if they are your sibling, then move on. you are both just playing the comfortable game where you feel something because it is convenient. Another thought is you will might have to lose him b4 you realize you could have been more than you imagine. hopefully there will be no regrets. Best thing to do is not to play games and make sure no one is being fooled.

Chizzy20:
were u hurt in ur previous relationship?

naijaboiy:
You are just a wicked person
How can you friend zone a guy for five complete years and you cannot tell him your mind.

Chaiii

ronald4lif:
I thought many women say they prefer a guy who loves them to the one they love. You like him extremely and he's been consistent with the friendship you both have had for 5years right? Does he also possess every other qualities you admire in a man and hubby except that you don't love him? You see, love in itself isn't enough to say yes to marrying a person. There are other factors which includes; character, appearance, height, caring attitude, understanding and his Godly attitude etc. Should he have all these then I ll suggest you give him a try, though not marriage immediately but a relationship and see how it turns out in the next few months. Who knows he might just be your missing rib after all

funmilayo32:
my dear be true to yourself and the guy. just tell him the truth, as they say the truth is bitter.

Enegod:
Toasting one female for five years!!
gaddamnit!!!
Who does that kind of thing!!

MzzTega:
5 years! hmmmmm.
Where you in a relationship before?
If No den something is wrong.
If yes,den u r yet to get over d past relationship.

shadowgwalker:
great!please hurry, time Don reach for marriage. let's make arrangements.

shadowgwalker:
wow!!!first of all congrats!!!now, how is Lagos?I'm sure you've gone back home.

shadowgwalker:
so you were there too. what batch, cos we were moved to kano from Abuja camp due to over -population.

shadowgwalker:
it's not allowed but people still do it. it happens even in Kano camp where I served.

axortedbabe:
Poo tank is nw an asset..