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Wow!! Congratulations strong woman. I salute your courage and strength

restore8:
Please I have a question for the mothers....


They told me that many women, when in labor, the pain gets too much that they react emotionally.

They said they even insult thier husband.

Is there any truth in this?

Many women do it but it's not the best. I rather use the pain to bless my hubby and declare positively into the life of the baby coming because I believe whatever I say there with pain and agony either positive or negative will manifest and come to pass. I advise women against such, there is still life after labor and delivery

johncreek:
I think it’s only in Africa where mother-in-law or wife’s mother needs to be around when the wife wants to deliver.

. They give the best care. They pamper you because they have passed through the stage and know what and how it feels. The stress that accompanies childbirth is on a whole new level, sleepless nights, baby crying at any little instance, most new mothers are naive when it comes to bathing newborns. Most new mothers even fall into depression (PTSD). So an elderly woman around is the best to be in charge

adanny01:
I only witnessed my third baby's birth.

My wife was in school and writing exams around her EDD for the 1st one. My sister and a lecturer cousin were in the same school too. My wife also had her female 1st cousin as room mate. The plan was to call me and to travel 4hrs to her as soon as she felt a sign. The sign came around 8 pm and that exact time, I was seriously in distress and stranded with a dead fuel pump coming back from my village. So going to her was not even an option. I only got home 2am tired and passed out without the car, she gave birth 3am. I took off around 5am fixed the car around 8am, came back home and picked my mum and started the 4hr journey and arrived 12noon just after my wife wrote her last paper. So she went from labour room to exam hall and then started a 4hr journey back home.

The second was also and unfortunate miss. I was away across country on work, took my annual leave, booked a flight 1week before her EDD just so i can be there. I had packed my bags and ready for my 10am flight but she gave birth 2am some 8hrs b4 my flight. So i only made it to take them home. Coincidentally, my ex girlfriend was the Snr Nurse on duty that delivered my child (not funny). My wife is still angry because she expected her to give a VIP treatment but the girl was just dodging her and would show up when she was summoned by others.

I witnessed the third which was the record baby that came at 4.3kg. The shout from my wife was just sending shivers through my spine. Women dey try, I swear.

They are 8, 6 and almost 2.

I seriously want him to witness the 3rd and final one because oga too dey make mouth say "no shaking" Sebi it's just like shitting hard shit. . If the labor is not too painful sef, I will add jara and exaggerate the whole thing for him to know it's not easy

konkonbilo:
3rd,4th and 5th

. Haa! Bros abeg o. After 3rd laidis, we padlock the womb o

Realtizzy:
Your family is lit
They are the real mvp

Thank you

IamgratefulLord:
I bless God for your testimony. I'm married and I don't have a child yet but by HIS grace I would have mine too and also pray for a safe delivery too.

. You shall testify very soon

My hubby wasn't around when I delivered of my two children. Reason being that I had to travel home to deliver because I don't have a mother in law anymore and my mom still in service couldn't take permission to come stay over where we reside. The best option was to go meet her at 8months for both pregnancies and I had our family doctor and hospital take over while my hubby stays back cos of work and joins us for their naming ceremonies..
Hopefully he gets to witness my third labor when the time comes

This wedding is 2 years old already. The lady is my secondary school mate. Half baked bloggers should go and sit down abeg

I see you sis. Finlove

ivykay:
I am a fin for life,l love fin and every one associated with fin,all d sis in d house, I see u,fin hugs dear.

I see you sis. finhugs

pacesetter247:
Sorry OP, I think your title of post is misleading, you never mentioned if FIN is the reason why she nags her husband,and apparently, the counselor never gave an instance where the husband accused FIN of being responsible for the crisis in his home. I am a FIN Member and I have a peaceful home, FIN does not encourage one to nag her spouse or become a burden to her husband, I suggest you edit your topic before you spoil the purpose of your sharing this post. She and her husband had their issues and refused to deal with it properly don't say it was because of FIN afterall there are so many homes with even worse issues where the wife is a tormentor in the home and she does not belong to FIN, there are also husbands who are tormentors and vice versa, every spouse has a foremost responsibility to protect their home and partner from emotional torment.

I see you sis. Finlove

Awwwww

But the man wasnt aggressive during our time nah...students even loved him for his jovial nature sef with his knickers and sneakers ...too bad change has affected him too

Toh

From glory to glory..that is where I'm going

Ok

Fine babe fine dude

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OMG

beautiful lady

Jesus!!

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ehya....sorry ehn

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