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veave: @chukason.. na u sabi.
@nkay... wetin? u asked, i answered...

i no quarrel dear. just smilling

veave: hmmmn... muscular arms and chest. Oh ma Lawd! Chinedu's biceps, i just cant stop starring... waiting and praying patiently for the day those arms would go to work on ma body. he.he.he

Abek ar nor fee shat!!!

hmmmmmmm

Chukkasy: patiently waiting 4 d guys edition

I promise u it will be here soon

1. Athletic body shape

2. Broad shoulders and chest, muscular and strong hands

3. A narrow butt

4. Hairy body

5. High chin

6. Narrow hips with strong and muscular legs

7. A flat tummy

8. Big manhood

9. Unshaven or light beard chin

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oyinbogirl: sorry dear checked that out and its like 130 000 in my currency. Hes worth still much more, cos dats peanuts to me lol

2 billion of my currency lets talk sha LOL (kidding) *smiles*

By the way could you do it?

having a second tout....

oyinbogirl: No I will NOT. Cos i knw i will not find d kind of person I have now again. He is one of a kind

my dear its N20 million we re talkin abt here o

Joseph, a struggling young man, has been dating Ada for 3 years and they are planning to get married by this December, 2013.

Out of the blues, James, a United States of America based business man, and Ada meet on Facebook and a relationship started. He proposed to her, promising her all the good things of life, including relocating her to the USA.

She informed James about her fiance and their plans to get married but James called up Joseph, promising to give him the sum of N20 million to let go of Ada. While Ada’s friends and family urge her to dump poor Joseph and marry James, Joseph is in a dilemma and does not know what to do.

Would you accept the N20 million and dump someone you have dated and in love with for 3 years?

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Dyt: Everyday for me is romance
I live in a dreamland

wake up plsss

When i had my first kiss . funny rit, i ve kisses like wen eva i want nw bt it's never lik d very first time. hmmmmmm

Love takes hold of you when you least expect it, so watch your back it might be lurking around the corner. Beautiful mornin to u all.

Thanks to babysitting services, a single mom can date. And there will come a time when she has dated enough to know what type of man she should toss or keep. You’ll do some serious self-evaluating. You’ll explore what you really want and need from a man, and most importantly, what kind of man you want to have around your little one(s). Because whether their father’s in their lives or not, the new man you commit to will become a male role model for your child(ren).

Here is a guide for single moms to aid you in this journey.

A man that knows what he wants. A very wise mentor once said to me, “A man that doesn't know what he wants is the worst type of man.” I wouldn't say he’s the worst because we don’t always know what we want, especially when we are younger. Still, as far as a relationship is concerned, a man needs to be aware of the life he wants to lead, especially regarding a relationship with you.

A man that truly understands you’re a package deal. Any man that you commit to needs to comprehend and accept that you are a mother. Even if he doesn’t meet your kid(s), he needs to realize that you are a two-for-one combo. You’ll know if a man understands this if he says something like this: “I know my decisions don’t just affect you, but also your child.” No doubt about it - he knows the deal.

A man that treats you amazingly. The way you are treated and cared for in a relationship will eventually spill over to your little ones. Pick a good man and you’ll be a happy mommy.

A man that’s ready. You can be the perfect woman for him, but if a man isn’t ready or it’s a case of bad timing, then what’s the use? Be honest with yourself about the man that you’ve picked.

One more thing that’s all about you: make a list of your wants and needs and what you’re willing to offer. You can’t have expectations and not be willing or ready to offer them as well. When you figure this out, it will be easier to stay true to what you’re looking for and who you are.

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Hi fellas, i believe we all have that special time and moment we wish we could live tru again, i have mine. lets talk about it.

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Monents, by westlife.

larride: We're all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness and call it love, true love. - Robert Fulghum

nice one

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]An emotion that is not built for the feeble-minded and simpletons.[/quote]nice one

youngestfool: its can be define as a misunderstanding between two fools

This is serious

your own defination

lertee: How well would a woman know a man

Try me

OK,This might make you excited or it might get you REALLY angry.

See, there's one SIN millions of women make everyday in their relationships that makes it actually impossible for a guy to be happy and truly commit.
In fact, you've probably committed this "sin" over and over again in every relationship you've ever been in without even knowing it. And it's sabotaged your love and sabotaged your chances again and again. Let me ask you a few questions here...See if you relate.
Do you wonder why your man becomes so difficult when you try to express yourself & get him to listen?
Do you have situations where you feel neglected because your man acts like other things are more important than you are?
Do you often wonder what's on his mind & can't understand why he does what he does?
Do you desperately wish or hope for a magical way which would let you see what he is thinking?
Do you ever have those painful moments where you really want to talk about an issue but fear his reaction & just avoid it?
How about the time when you told your man exactly what you were feeling only to see him get defensive, withdraw & get distant for no reason? And finally the big one,
Do you fear that your man is on the verge of leaving you & it's driving you nuts but you just don't know how to stop him?
If you find any of these situations familiar and are nodding your head with agreement right now then you are probably guilty of committing the #1 unforgivable sin and this can be the devastating kiss-of-death to your relationship unless you do something about it right now.
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[quote author=RINE.]A woman writing from a man's point of view. Funny.
....Nice though.[/quote]If you've got brother's like i do, you will know every man's next step.

What He's Thinking

We like to cuddle. Cuddling is all about mood and ambiance. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract some of us) in the background. It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship.

What He's Thinking

We think we are good in bed. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything. You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay. This may explain why some of us are so clueless at what we are doing in bed, but we act like we know.

What He's Thinking

Getting too tipsy on a date is a turnoff. Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk. Let the other person learn about you while you're sober, before you get wasted with them. Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it's fine. Just don't push it too far.

What He's Thinking

Heavy makeup is a turnoff. There are lots of guys out there who appreciates a natural look as it is, and when a girl does her makeup well, the results can be magical. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application: too much, too many colors, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good makeup technique. Seems like as time goes by, makeup makes like the earth and erodes and changes with weathering. There is nothing more ghastly than makeup run amuck in the morning after spending the night together. yurk.

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No rules to this game called LOVE. cos the way it will work for Peter isnt d way it will work for James. in everytin we do, FOLOW UR HEART.

quivah: yeah! True...
More like,sex wont keep a relationship strong,..so why the stress?!thank you!
But then again,the latter is the best.with high chance of breaking up within the period of 4months before the s.ex..
Don't tell me,the 'what is not meant to be" signs wouldnt show during/before the 4months?..

Its not about sex..there are other factors to consider.


Look ^^^what a guy up there think of girls..will such a person respect you after s.ex on the first date?..

Anyway am not in support of sEX on a first date. There are actually more important factors dat can make or mare a relationship.

quivah: @des.chyko
There are two things involved in your comparison:
The first instance;you made it sound as if se.x was the major reason for the breakup..like the guy dump the girl cause he felt she was cheap or its the other way round or another thing caused the breakup.
The second instance; again,you made it seem relationship revolves around s.ex. If after the wait,the relationship got crashed after the se.x..it simply means the se.x dint work!! Or another thing caused the breakup.
Both the first and second instances! There are other reasons to break up aside se.x...its not just about s.ex!
With this,its better to wait!
...

So,either ways its better to wait!
I prefer the later(waiting) why? Along the line,there is a high chance of breaking up before the sex with other factors being the p with lil or no regrets after all "come today come tomorrow guys would keep bedding more than one chic" isn't it better to be -1 for some particular guys?!
.I believe a high percentage of girls think the same way..
.

sEX now sEX four months leta!!!, a relationship that isn't ment to be wont be.

Omolola1: S.ex on the first date? Yuck

Not everyone sees it tru your eyes dear

[quote author=♥Dεs•Chγκσ♥]I think too much emphasis is being placed on males, like they're the sole benefactors of sex.. Ladies had better start enjoying it for their own good, because in spite of what is said, come today, come tomorrow, guys would keep bedding more than one chic. Besides, you hook up, have sex, the relationship didn't work and you go your separate ways sounds better than you put in all your effort and time over the years, you still have sex, it still didn't work and you'll still go your separate ways. Someone did say 'Every break-up brings you a step closer to whom you're meant to grow old with'[/quote]I stand right by you

We used to think that falling into bed with someone too soon would disqualify you from being considered girlfriend material. But welcome to 2013, when the world is a lot less sexist than it used to be.

"In this day and age, more people recognize sex as an important component of a successful relationship, not something to be ashamed of, "For those people, it's important to establish sexual compatibility early on, and having sex on the first date may be the right move for them."

Ultimately, getting 'nekkid' with some guy you've known for only 2 hours may not be your thing, and that's fine too. The point is that hard-and-fast dating rules (like "No sex till date five" and old-fashioned expressions like the vile "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" are antiquated and harmful—they produce all this unnecessary anxiety and shame about something normal and natural: dating and sex.

You go on a date. It's fun. You hook up…and then he loses interest. Why did this happen? Who knows: Maybe he's too picky, maybe he doesn't feel a spark, maybe he's commitmentphobic, or maybe he's just a game-playing douche.

There is one variable, however, that almost never feeds into the equation: whether you "gave it up" too soon. It's a misconception that is held by millions but the truth is, most guys just don't think like that. Men are simple creatures. In the history of planet Earth, no guy has ever said, "She's awesome. She's intelligent. She's sexy, and she's into Game of Thrones. There's only one problem.…We hooked up on the first date."

If there's chemistry, there's chemistry, and from the guy's perspective, it doesn't really matter if we hook up on date one or date seven.

"If you know that sleeping with someone won't bring out your best or will make you needy, it's a good idea to wait.
"However, don't wait because you think the guy will lose respect or interest. Wait because of how it will affect you. It's really not about him. Guys who are interested in you will still call and pursue you after they've seen you naked."

Confession time: It's also possible that he won't call after a first-night hookup. If the man and the woman are a match, it doesn't really matter when they hook up. Corollary: If they're not a match, it also doesn't really matter.

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hersweetness: Why would i even consider living with my 'boyfriend' when we aint married yet

Its one experience u dont want to ve. never ends well.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I'm not a fan of cohabitation. [/color]

Its never advisable. Better wait till u re ready...

Love triangles can be tricky. Whether your situation involves friends with benefits or someone else is stealing your spotlight, emotions are definitely at stake. That doesn't mean that you can't learn to confront the situation head on. Here's how to deal with the scenarios that are worth fighting for and the one's that should be ended.

We've all heard or been a witness to the classic love triangle. It plays out all the time in our favorite shows like True Blood where Bill and Eric were fighting for Sookie. Or who could forget the tension filled triangle between Bella, Edward and Jacob in Twilight? But love triangles aren't just for vamps. Certain situations are worth sticking around for and others not so much.

Scenario 1: You're both single and friends with benefits, but he's also FWBs with another girl and you really like him. What do you say/how do you approach it?

Friends with benefits always starts out innocently enough with the shared intention of having some fun. The thing is, someone almost always catches feelings or gets attached. You can't get mad and crazy jealous that he's with another girl because guys can be clueless and he may not know that you like him. The same way that he's being upfront about seeing another girl is how you have to be and tell him how you feel. Fight for this one a little by sitting him down and telling him that you like him as more than a friend. Don't immediately say that you want a full blown relationship, but let him know that you're not seeing other people and you would like him to do the same. It could honestly go either way, but if he still chooses to see the other girl then you have to step back and break off the FWBs. Even though the friendship may get awkward, it's best for you to give yourself some space for a while. In order to save the friendship, avoid being bitter and let him do whatever makes him happy.

Scenario 2: You have two dudes, and one is getting super clingy, but you're not that into him. What do you do?

In this instance you have to make a decision and eliminate one of the guys which would likely be the clinger. Be real with him and say something along the lines of, "You're a really great guy but I'm not interested in you like that and I want to give both of us the opportunity to see other people." If he knows the other dude that's in the triangle, be honest and tell him that you just want to see the other guy instead. Don't try to hide it and make it seem like you want to be single because if he finds out that you two went behind his back to be together, it will be worse. Limit your contact with this dude as much as possible because you don't want to lead him on into thinking he still has a chance with you when he doesn't.

Scenario 3: You like him, he knows it and he's showing interest back, but he won't break it off with lady hottie because he's just not ready to commit. Is it worth fighting for?

This is the scenario that probably deserves the least amount of your time. If he is well aware that you are into him and is giving off signs that he likes you too, again ask him to stop seeing the other girl. If he really doesn't break it off with her and wants to keep seeing you, break it off. It may be tempting to hook up with another guy you're not interested in to get him jealous, but it'll only backfire and make you seem immature. This guy clearly wants to have his cake and eat it too, so he's taking advantage of your patience. If you've given him plenty of chances up until this point, don't wait around for that mujeriego and MOVE ON.

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So you're in love and considering moving in with your boy/girlfriend. Before you do that, remember that moving in is a big step. Most couples do it thinking it means you're in a committed relationship, but a recent study actually showed that nearly 52 percent of men and 39 percent of women who moved in together said they weren't secure about their relationships. Here are some signs that you need to push that idea back a little.

You've been dating less than one year
Rule of thumb. Because you see every side of a person when you live with them, you want to make sure you've been with them long enough to prepare for what is yet to come. Getting to know every aspect of a person in a matter of months can be overwhelming.

You can't seem to compromise on anything
When you spend time with each other, you can't ever seem to agree with anything. This is a bad sign. When you live someone, it's all about compromise, from splitting bills to splitting chores. If you can't even agree on whether you should cab it or take the subway, you're probably not ready to make the big move with him.

You see each other less than 3-4 times a week, and you're comfortable with that
Remember this: when you move in with each other, you will see that person Every. Single. Day. if you don't feel the urge to spend more time with him/her yet, then you're definitely not ready to lay down next to him/her every night.

Your finances aren't in order
A lot of couples move in because they need help with bills, so they think paying them together will help them financially. This is a terrible mistake. When you're sharing a place with someone, your finances should always be in order. You don't want to face the reality of not having your portion of the cable bill, and the service shuts off because of you. Not a good feeling.

You haven't met their family and friends
You can learn a lot about a person from their family and friends. If you're not digging his/her friends, you're not going to like that they will probably spend a lot of time coming over. Make sure you've met them and spent time with them first.

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