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Romance › Re: 8 Things Men Secretly Desire In Their Partners by nKay448(op): 10:20am On Oct 07, 2013
Jamey Maxwell: I didn't see the most important
Love Of Sex
hmmmmmmmm broda
Romance › Re: 8 Things Men Secretly Desire In Their Partners by nKay448(op): 10:20am On Oct 07, 2013
[quote author=Muller_7]First! She must be beautiful.[/quote]beauty is in the eyes of its beholder...
haven't u heard, one man's meat is another man's poison.
one luv
Romance › Re: 8 Things Men Secretly Desire In Their Partners by nKay448(op): 10:18am On Oct 07, 2013
slimming: This is enough to write a book
hahahahahhahaha, wish i had the strength to write a book.
Romance › How To Make Your Bútt Bigger by nKay448(op): 4:15pm On Oct 03, 2013
Do you long for a rear end that’s large and shapely, imitating celebrities like Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce Knowles, Nicki Minaj and Kim Kardashian? Here’s what you can do to build a búxom bóóttom.

Wear a belt over your waist. Find a medium to large width belt, and tie it around the tiniest part of your waist, over whatever shirt your’e wearing. (This looks best over button-down shirts, sweaters, or loose blouses.) For extra emphasis, try using a dark-colored belt over a light shirt.

Try a girdle. If you have a little more girth than you’d like around your middle, try a girdle. It should push the excess from your tummy down around your hips and b*tt. Girdles can be found at most department or lingerie stores.
Don’t wear horizontal stripes or patterns around your waist. Busy fabrics or colors will emphasize your tummy and make it look bigger. Instead, stick to dark, solid colors on top. It will make your a*s look huge and séxy!

Pick the right pánts. The right pair of jeans can seemingly transform your bútt, making it appear round and pérky. Consider the following next time you buy a pair of jeans.

Keep the fit tight. Baggy pánts will “drown” your curves, making them impossible to see underneath too much fabric. Skinny jeans or jeggings are ideal for showing off your bútt. If you’re not quite comfortable with that, try bootcut or regular jeans with a fitted rear.

Look at pocket placement. Small, high back pockets will make your b*tt appear larger. Additionally, pockets with embellishments such as sequins, stitching, or colored thread can add more interest and “direct traffic” (or draw the eye) to your rear. Avoid jeans with big pockets or no pockets at all.

Try high-waisted jeans — the top of the pánts should fit around the slimmest part of your waist, making it look small and your bútt appear bigger.
Wearing low-rise jeans (that hit at the widest part of your hips) with a fitted shirt can also give the illusion of a bigger rear.

Avoid dark wash jeans, which will make your legs and rear look smaller (especially if you’re wearing a light-colored top). Instead, try white, pastel, or light blue jeans.

Wear high heels. Heels change the natural curve of your spine, causing both your bútt and your bóóbs to protrudé more.
For an extra-lifted rear end, ditch the kitten heels and go for stilettos.
If you’re unsure that this works, get in front of a mirror and stand up on your tiptoes (it will help). Take a few steps, and you’ll notice how the movements of your legs and rear are a little more exaggerated. Your legs should also look more toned, and your bútt should appear to be an inch or two higher.
Keep in mind that wearing high heels all the time can permanently damage your feet and knees.

Change your posture and your walk. How you carry yourself can highlight or obscure different parts of your body. While wearing heels can alter your posture, you can also do it without them.

Throw your shoulders back and arch your lower back. This will not only make your b*tt more prominent, but it’ll also slim your torso a bit and make your chest look bigger.

Imitate the way runway models walk. Imagine there’s a straight line running on the ground ahead of you, and it’s located exactly beneath your bélly button, in the center between your two feet. When you take a step, move your foot toward the center of your body, putting it down on this imaginary line. Then put your other foot down on that line, directly in front of your first foot. Keep walking this way, one foot in front of the other and clench your glutes.

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Romance › ...steps In Making Your Long Distance Relationship Work by nKay448(op): 1:00pm On Oct 03, 2013
Everyone is wary of getting into a long distance relationship. And most of us are left wondering whether we should get into a long distance relationship or not.

Deciding the fate of your long distance relation can be a tricky one, especially when you do not reside in the same country. But do you really think that you cannot make a long distance relation work? In this day and age where each one of us is busy with work, college, school etc where do we find the time to meet our partner everyday and spend some time with them?

Communication should be your priority
Communicating with your partner on a regular basis should be your priority. Make sure you call or Skype with your partner as much as possible so that you stay connected with him/her.

The first three months shall be difficult…
The first three months when you enter into a long distance relationship becomes extremely difficult. It takes a while for you to settle down fixing your schedule, adjusting, and build understanding between the two of you.

Make your commitment
In any relationship – whether you are together or staying apart, commitment is extremely important. No relationship works if there is no commitment between the two of you. You either want it to work or you don’t. If you don’t want it to work, it won’t.

Treasure your time together…
When you guys are together chatting over the phone or Skype, build as many memories as you can together. This is a phase in your life which you will always remember; make it as memorable as possible. Do not keep brooding on whether this relation will work or not, if it has to work it will.

Keeping it beautiful.... wink
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Romance › Things Your Friends Don’t Need To Know About Your Relationship by nKay448(op): 12:46pm On Oct 03, 2013
I’m a firm believer that you should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life. That being said, there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationships. This is my list of the things not to tell your friends about your relationships.

1. FIGHTS
It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specifics unless you’re asking for an HONEST opinion. Friends that ask you to tell them if they’re being crazy about a fight that they’re having but don’t actually want to hear your opinion, are awkward people. So lets all keep our domestics to ourselves.

2. Séx
Don’t tell your friends the specifics of your séx life. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again.

3. MONEY PROBLEMS
It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. A lot of people are very sensitive about what they perceive as weakness and that’s never a line you want to cross.

4. CHEATING (IF YOU’RE WORKING IT OUT)
If someone cheats on you and you dump them, feel free to tell all of your friends (and a few strangers) how much of a scumbag they are. But, if you’re working it out, NEVER tell your friends that your significant other has cheated. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t.

5. PROBLEMS IN THE BEDROOM
Once again, once you talk about this with your friends, they will never look at your partner the same way again. Your friends don’t need to know if you need to talk your significant other in for little blue pills. That’s something you should keep between you and your partner.

6. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PROBLEMS
Your friends are YOUR friends, and your partners problems really aren’t yours to share. Let your partner talk about their problems with whoever they choose. It’s not fair for your friends to know everything about your significant other’s life.

7. YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS
Once again, your friends are YOUR friends. They don’t need to know that four years ago the person you’re with had his heart-broken by an even woman named Tina. If that’s something they want to share with your friends, let them. But that isn’t exactly your place.

I know that we all want to believe that we live in a world like Séx and The City where we can all sit down with our girlfriends and discuss everything about everything in our lives. But, the truth is martinis and cosmos and endless conversations might be great on TV, but in real life they can get a little awkward when you see your Carrie’s Big on the street.

Well this is just some of my list, you can add more.
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Romance › 8 Things Men Secretly Desire In Their Partners by nKay448(op): 12:25pm On Oct 03, 2013
Dear Ladies, here are attributes men desire in their partners, although they might not open up to you. So, read it here and be the best for him!

1.Independence and confidence
Men are naturally attracted towards confident women. Remember that there is a keen difference between confidence and arrogance. Confidence attracts while arrogance repels. Men like women who can take care of themselves and can make up their mind without any help. Confident outlook, positive body language, and independent decision making are qualities that would definitely attract men.

2. Flirting back
This is an important tool for the later years of the relationship. Flirting is essential to keep the romance alive. Men love women who will flirt with them. This makes a man feel wanted and makes him feel that his woman is still attracted to him.

3. Occasional show of feminine side
Men prefer women who keep in touch with their feminine side. So, sometimes it is good to go for a bikini wax, or invest in new clothings and accessories!

4. Just as they are
A man loves a woman who can adjust to the situation, and more so to his surroundings. Nagging is a big mood turner for men so try and avoid it. Men hate it when women want to change them or their surroundings, this can be a totally spoiler for the romance. So, accept them for what they are, and they would love you forever.

5. Honesty
Honesty is a good habit to bag, whether to attract a man or not. Men search for honesty in their partner and honest answers turn them on. When a woman is honest with her man it makes him feel the special bond between them. Dishonesty is not good for any relationship, whatsoever, leave alone a romantic one.

6. Love for sports
What kind of man does not enjoy his girl foul-mouthing the opponent’s team with him? This is a quality which drives most men mad and makes them fall in love with their girl.

7. Need for personal space
While a woman will enjoy a lifetime of cuddling, a man will always need his own space. It is just how they were designed. A man needs his ‘me’ time or his ‘buddy’ time to re-energise. So, instead of making him feel suffocated with a constant hovering around, give him some space and spare him the smothering.

8. A smart woman
A woman with brains is highly in-demand in the man’s world. Though men are visual creatures and get attracted to the ocassional ‘damsel-in-distress’; yet it is always a woman with brighter brains that will take the better man home. Sense of humour in a girl is appreciated by her man. So remember, smart is the new sexy.

Now, you know some of the things that men secretly desire in their partner. So, ladies, take a few pointers and gear-up to be the ‘girl of his dreams’.

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Romance › Volcano In My Heart.. by nKay448(op): 3:21pm On Oct 02, 2013
Love is fire... But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house, you never can tell but you can control how it goes.

i have got good news for you, loving someone dose not necessary mean giving up your self totally. You can love and still be in control of your heart.

How!!!

Get to know the 'whom' you are giving your love to.

Love with your head and not your heart.

Don't reveal your affections totally until you are sure the second party shares your..............hmmmmm! never reveal your feelings totally, simple.

Always have a plan 'B'.............looooool funny but true.


Well this is just me, what do you think pals......
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Romance › He Has An STD. Now What? by nKay448(op): 11:59am On Oct 02, 2013
So, you're dating a new guy and he reveals that he either had an STD in the past, or he currently has one. Yikes. But before you totally freak, get the facts on what you need to know to stay safe.

Don't Assume Oral Is Okay

Some STDs like gonorrhea and herpes can be passed on with MouthAction. It's less likely that you'll catch herpes when he doesn't have an outbreak, but still possible. Before a guy forms an actual ulcer, he sheds the virus and may infect you.

Always, Always Wear a Condom— But Know That It Might Not Be Enough

If you're super careful not to let his penis come anywhere near you before the condom is applied, you're mostly safe. However, some women who use condoms still ended up with STDs. That's probably related to the "emissions" that can can happen when you're fooling around before he puts on a condom. Exposure to blood can also give you an STD, including HIV and Hepatitis B and C. The rules change depending on the STD. For example, you can get gonorrhea—and 62 million people around the world get it each year—from being in contact with the mouth, penis, or anus of an infected guy. So a condom may or may not protect you from certain STDs.

Wait It Out

When it comes to crabs, it can take five to 14 days for the nits to hatch and cause symptoms, so you want to avoid sex until you know your partner is completely treated. There is a lice-killing lotion that can be applied, but unless you're meticulous about cleaning your underwear, sheets, bedding, and clothing, your partner may need multiple treatments. Make sure the outbreak is fully gone before getting busy.

Ask Him to Get Tested Again

When a guy tells you that he had an STD in the past, you want to be sure that he now has a clean bill of health. The safest bet is to wait to get busy until you're both successfully treated and re-evaluated.

Read His Results

Get a thorough checkup and have your guy do the same. Then share your lab results with each other before you get down (even if you know you're clean, it'll soften the blow when you ask to see his test results). Here's why: Many STDs are "superbugs" that have become resistant to antibiotics. In fact, up to 30 percent of gonorrhea is resistant to meds. Because gonorrhea has no symptoms, you may only know that you've cleared the infection by getting another lab test.

Staying safe is the only OPTION... grin
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Romance › He Has An STD. Now What? by nKay448(op):
So, you're dating a new guy and he reveals that he either had an STD in the past, or he currently has one. Yikes. But before you totally freak, get the facts on what you need to know to stay safe.

Don't Assume Oral Is Okay

Some STDs like gonorrhea and herpes can be passed on with MouthAction. It's less likely that you'll catch herpes when he doesn't have an outbreak, but still possible. Before a guy forms an actual ulcer, he sheds the virus and may infect you.

Always, Always Wear a Condom— But Know That It Might Not Be Enough

If you're super careful not to let his penis come anywhere near you before the condom is applied, you're mostly safe. However, some women who use condoms still ended up with STDs. That's probably related to the "emissions" that can can happen when you're fooling around before he puts on a condom. Exposure to blood can also give you an STD, including HIV and Hepatitis B and C. The rules change depending on the STD. For example, you can get gonorrhea—and 62 million people around the world get it each year—from being in contact with the mouth, penis, or anus of an infected guy. So a condom may or may not protect you from certain STDs.

Wait It Out

When it comes to crabs, it can take five to 14 days for the nits to hatch and cause symptoms, so you want to avoid sex until you know your partner is completely treated. There is a lice-killing lotion that can be applied, but unless you're meticulous about cleaning your underwear, sheets, bedding, and clothing, your partner may need multiple treatments. Make sure the outbreak is fully gone before getting busy.

Ask Him to Get Tested Again

When a guy tells you that he had an STD in the past, you want to be sure that he now has a clean bill of health. The safest bet is to wait to get busy until you're both successfully treated and re-evaluated.

Read His Results

Get a thorough checkup and have your guy do the same. Then share your lab results with each other before you get down (even if you know you're clean, it'll soften the blow when you ask to see his test results). Here's why: Many STDs are "superbugs" that have become resistant to antibiotics. In fact, up to 30 percent of gonorrhea is resistant to meds. Because gonorrhea has no symptoms, you may only know that you've cleared the infection by getting another lab test.

Staying safe is the only OPTION... grin
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Romance › How To Be Attractive.. by nKay448(op): 12:32pm On Sep 30, 2013
There's a whole lot more that goes into attraction than looking hot and having a killer personality. You'll be surprised at what really turns men on.

Your Posture
Heels don't just make your legs look great. They also help our bodies get into lordosis, or the spinal posture where our backs are naturally arched and our rears are tipped upward. This pose attracts dudes on a primal level because female mammals naturally crouch down and angle their butts when they're about to mate. Um…hot?

Your Scent
A recent study by German researchers revealed that our bodies put off a natural "scent" to help us find mates that have strong immune systems. However, our vaginas also release a musky smell during that time of the month—known as copulance—that stimulates testosterone and sexual arousal in men.

Your Smile
Interested in a guy? Smile at him—he'll instantly be attracted. Think about it: When someone smiles at you, you naturally mimic the grin—even if you don't realize it. The reaction smile moves muscles in the face which, in turn, stimulate the nerves that produce the brain's feel-good chemicals.

Your Gaze
Your eyes can also influence a guy's attraction through the phenomenon known as a copulatory gaze. Basically, looking into a guy's eye for two to three seconds flips a primitive switch in his brain which makes him react to your hotness or retreat.

Your Teeth
A new study of singles in America by Match.com found that one of the biggest thing guys look for in a girl is a set of good teeth. Your chompers subconsciously tell him a lot about you, like your age and health.

Think about it: White teeth show that you have good nutrition and personal habits; yellow teeth can be an indicator of bad health—not something a guy wants when he's looking for a mate (whether he realizes it or not).

Your Hair
Your hair—like your teeth—tell a guy a lot about your health. shiny, healthy hair is a sign of youth and fertility, subconsciously telling him that you'd be able to carry on his genes.

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Romance › Love n Money by nKay448(op): 6:53am On Sep 30, 2013
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Romance › Love's Got Everything To Do With It... by nKay448(op): 1:17pm On Sep 26, 2013
I wish i could say otherwise but how it is, is what it is.

hmmmm......

So many people don't wanna get hurt so they try to lock up there emotions, cage their hearts and become unfeeling.

Well let me tell you this, it better for a heart to have felt love than to go through life and not feel love. Love is part of our everyday challenge, It requires a bold step, its not an experience you get from other peoples tale. You've got to live it and love it.
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Romance › Question Of The Day: Would You Donate A Part Of You (Kidney) To Your B/G Friend? by nKay448(op): 12:57pm On Sep 26, 2013
Say you love them and you've been dating for a long time (but not married) and they need a kidney, would you offer yours? Why and why not?

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