₦airaland Forum

LastProphet:
bros women like sex very very well just like men and they think of getting screwed anytime they have time on their hands. now to explain the false impressions which has given you your naive notions about women :

1) from an early age most cultures and religions teach the womenfolk to be the subdued gender, the gender that waits to be asked, no culture encourages a woman to go for a man no matter how hopelessly attracted she is to the man. however women quickly discard this sense of upbringing when confronted with men to whom they are absolutely attracted, many guys an explain this to you
2) women learn early that the brunt of most unsavory relationship failures are borne by them eg pregnancy, so a girl naturally associates more caution with sex than men. remove these risks and you will get the shock of your life what girls can do.

3) women take the brunt of raising children, they are the one that carry the pregnancy for 9 months, breastfeed and cater to the child which leaves less room for other activities sex included. remove these encumbrance from a wife and see her show her true colors

4) women have observed that they get more value from the relationship when they are the less willing party so they put up with the pretense even in marriage especially when married to a less exposed spouse. decide to stay away from sex with that your "holy" wife for a month without making it look like a quarrel and you learn another thing. a married woman ran after me earlier in the year for more than 2 weeks just because her husband traveled for 2 months, if i show you whatsapp messages from her you wont believe it.

see my brother don't ever ever buy into the falsehood of women which isn't mostly their fault anyways, women love sex very very well and stop that your wife from using your head

Awesome.
I strongly feel what you wrote do not completly apply to married women.

LastProphet:
please sir is it only men that enjoy sex? is it only the husband that ask for sex? why are black people always unintelligent? Are many wives not dying to have sex?

Are you married? Answer that first.
If you arent, I see why you asked the above.

Women like sex during the love making.
They can stay away from sex more than men. This is from my own experience.
They do not ask for sex or better stiill they rarely do. From my own experience as well.
My submittion is based on my own understanding living in Nigeria and by no means do not represent the larger number of women in the world.

Tricky question.

Of course my response may not be tenable in the western world strictly because of their culture but I feel a wife should try as much as possible not to ever decline her husbands advances.

That doesnt mean she cannot say no when obviously the husband is not sensitive enough to understand her wives moods, her being tired, her stressed period, pregnancy etc.

What actually matters is understanding your wives because after a hard days job some women needs sex to help them relax. Some women like sex more or enjoys it more when pregnant.

Ultimately, wives should try as much as possible not to say NO because it makes men feel unloved or breeds adultery etc. in short, most men hate NO.

This is a very vast topic with a web of significant assertions, postulations and ideas but thats my take in few words.