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angiemartinez,
I feel you so so much. You really tried to have allowed her stay for five months but please apply wisdom if you dont want troubles.

If you dont give a damn about troubles then you can find creative ways to let her go.
I like to have people around but if this person is rough, dirty and doing some things that I am not comfortable with then it will show in my atttude to them and I ensure they leave ASAP (My peace and joy matters too)!.

She has a home and she has daughters and she can have them help her anytime. Though, as this sounds, she might end up staying wth you forever because she probably wants to spend these moments with her first child and your husband may not have a choice in this case.

If I may ask, and be totally honest, why do you want her to leave exactly?

PresVA:
Nawa ooo ... Are you asking for the laptop because you need it or because you're so jealous your sister has?

You're a graduate, you should be more concerned about making a life for yourself instead being so jealous your sister is supposedly living better life than you did.
So you wish your sister to experience same 'hardship' you did? So you don't expect things to get better?
Are you in competition with your sis?
Can't see any good reasons in your writeups that suggest your parents are partial. .only laptop story? Nawa oo ??
You're just hurting yourself being unnecessarily jealous. . As a graduate, the quality of life you lead now is solely dependent on YOU; stop dwelling on 'irrelevant' past because I'm sure no parent will send their kids back to school penniless when they've the money. .

wish I can type all I want to say

All the best...

Bro you have written well but you know people are different.
In the write-up, s/he too needs the laptop and if s/he gets it then Goodluck.
Life is easy jare.
@redwrite, good luck.

Lol @ redwriter. Guess what One funny thing about your current state of mind is that it will pass.

You need to develop emotional intelligence in other to understand that, that young girl is your younger sister and she deserves better things than you. In the sense that, even if parents did not buy it, It should have been you buying it.

She should not experience what you experienced. My mum never bought me a laptop when I was going to school, but upon my younger brothers admission, he immediately got a laptop and I WAS SO HAPPY he did.

Dont look at it from your current angle, look at it from a loving angle. Your sister is getting good treatment.

Besides, very soon, you will look back and laugh at your own current folly and wonder why you were so upset. Its piece of cake okay?.

I guess you are young and thats why you feeling this way. Let it pass, ask for a laptop if you want, or ask for support and add cash or just jokingly pass the message to them that you feel rejected etc.

This your parents you think you want to pay back may continue to be so blessed by God because of your current statement that they may not even need anything from you till they die. So love your sister and be happy for her and say sorry to God for harboring hatred.

In conclusion, hatred or worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesnt take you anywhere.

cyndidamsel:
Dear programmers of NL i am working on a social media site for a client. Though its on its beta stage, i need you guys to help me check it out and give your honest review of the work.
The site is www.kecuse.com
Its a social network site where users can find their friends/other users born on the same date. It has features of any other social network like commenting, uploading pictures and so on.
Please i will need you guys to sign up and have a feel of the site and praise or condemn me yes bashing is allowed not minding am a female.
Please this is very important to me as i have collected the pay for this job. [size=13pt]I need as much reviews as possible. Thanks in advance[/size]

Did you buy the template?

Booyakasha:
WordPress..

What's wrong with Wordpress

TheWebDeveloper:
Hello. I'm interested.
I'm a self-taught web developer.
I know:
HTML, CSS, jQuery, Bootstrap, PHP, MySQL, Some SEO implementation techniques.

Presently, i'm reading books on JavaScript and right now, on Objects and Constructor.

I have a website in the works but still in its beta stage. www.genieverse.com
Haven't been able to implement jQuery knowledge on the site besides Bootstrap implementation. #I'm_innocent_JavaScript_and_PHCN_are_Guilty.

Other concepts and/or programs I intend learning this year are:
PHP OOP, PHP MVC, Yii, CMS tweaking (OpenCart and Drupal), and Linux.


While next year, i intend to learn:
XMPP, XML, Perl, C and OCAML.

Hi TheWebDeveloper,

Your site, was it Wordpress you used? And did you buy a template or you developed most of the plugins.

Like someone said, it's people plus, it's contract, it's not sales, mostly customer service, they turn them to full time as Zenith do not take in executive trainees per say.
So you can spend a year, work hard and see if you will be converted. That's if your current work is not really cool.

Guys, long time. Sorry been working on some projects so been so busy.
Don't forget, tomorrow is Monday, time is ticking, take those fearful steps, do things differently, make every second count... Life is so short.
Do it! Yes you can. Those stuff that seem like dreams to you now are actually achievable.
Have a productive week folks.

@Inspina,

The Bible says; It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with an angry woman.

Good luck if you can carry the burden. No one is perfect. But violence, in marriage, ah! That person will be so unhappy for the rest of his or her life.

I wonder what goal there is in depopulating the world. To what end?.

I also know when Russia accuses you then it is probably true. These Russian folks don't like a country or an organization flexing there muscles at the expense of the voiceless people (China is like this too).

I have always known (believed) that Zika, HIV, Ebola were man made. Not to depopulate but to enslave countries by making them dependent on the western countries for vaccines in exchange for oil or natural resources or some form of partnerships and also rip them off.

What they do is to successfully back-date the origins or history of these virus and make them seem like it had been in existence.
One thing I also believe is that most conspiracy theories are usually somewhat believed to be always-eventually true.

What the hell? We will all die.

Lol...
I am laughing because most successful pass through this stage.
You will look back at today and have a good laugh at how you were so sad and depressed because of this little challenge.

Imagine it, keep dreaming it, keep seeing it and you will eventually have it.
You are made for more.

Think about it, with your resilience, goal getting mentality and with prayers, do you really think you will be in this stage/ state forever? NO!.
So just relax. Do your below 50k job very well and keep applying keep embracing failure and rejection and before you know it, you will land that dream job, that dream deal that will change your life forever.

Keep at it sis. We all have been in this stage and some of us are still where you are. We will become better shortly.
NEVER GIVE UP.

may01:
There's a mirror in the elevator?
Why is he showing off his abs when he's with a guy?

My baeby...

MRS

Jokers all above me.
Guys fumigate your homes.
Use condoms.

Only a devil will ask you to continue using the certificate.
Who knows may be it is your intuition telling you to stop before you get caught.
No one with a moral conviction will say you should apply for the new job and then continue with the old one. It is a sin and a crime.

However, if the tables were turn around and I was in your shoes, it will be very difficult to resist the new offer.
120k is a lot of cash in this present struggling economy.

My advice is that you establish yourself and be a consultant and hustle your way to success ASAP.
Not an easy thing to achieve but it's better than using fake certificates all around.
With the kind of course you studied and with 8 years There is no limit to what you can achieve in life.

It basically depends on three things.

1) If it's a professional experienced position. It has to be stated and you can ask professionally.
2) The direction of the interview can also determine. You should be smart enough to detect how hospitable or better still, how receptive they will be to such question.
3) If you are so confident in yourself and or you have a current job and or you are not really interested in the job.

For me, I will not ask such except ofcourse I am just freestyling. I do attend interviews for the sake of it just to improve my skills and network or expand my knowledge.

Inspiring...
The one I can relate with most are the colleagues who keep telling you to get a new job.
This may be inspirational for someone who is lazy but for someone like me who is a die-hard fan of growth, I detest when colleagues tell me that.

I am working here and I have not spent 2 years and you are asking me to get a new job. Why don't you go get a new job.
Even the ones who resigned to a supposedly good job doesn't mean they will turn out better than you.

What's important folks is that in life, you need to have a direction. A clear-cut growth path and a consistent check on your progress.
You also need to constantly invent, innovate ideas to improve your life while motivating yourself with experiences, books and life generally.

Achieving greatness is hardwork folks. Who says making Heaven is not hardwork too.

Will drop some insights shortly.

What you should know about PWC.
Coming soon.

potbelly:
why are you disturbing my sleep

I honestly apologize.

I am flabbergasted.
That some set of people could be embezzling such a colossal amount of money without conscience.
With their minds darkened and with poisonous selfishness they turn a blind eye to the suffering of the masses and delight themselves in the oppression of the poor and the god-like image they have amongst the haves not.

This is not a spiritual problem, this is caused by a wicked set of people who do not know themselves that they are the devil themselves.
How can you put the country in disarray because you want to eat goat meat which will give you potbelly, because you want to oppress, own a home everywhere, travel and party with girls all around the world.

The subsidy was a fraud after all.
Will Nigeria be better?

So having big goggles means they are powerful.
Let us stop applauding mediocrity.
It's not even sophisticated one bit.
With which satellite can they spot rockets and weapons.

We have five satellites and they are not even working: http://www.nairamode.com/2014/05/where-are-five-satellites-launched-by.html

Is it not just to be waving or throwing hands in circles.

Sometimes horizontally, vertically, zigzaglly.

Anyone can do it. It becomes even better if you do the training with the team.

It's piece of cake but nice one.

Odoemacyril:
@ nmreports,. plz can u send me ur mail so DAT I can send it der

I have seen it.

praxisnetworks:
happiness is a state which you're unconscious of..... Once you become conscious that you are happy.... You cease to be happy

I am trying to understand if this makes sense.
Can you try and expatiate? Please.

Check my profile signature.

Let's have a discussion.
What do you think is delaying your possibility of getting a job?
If you have an answer to this question, then you are in your way to getting solutions.

For me back then, it was because I was not practical enough to in my responses at interviews. I was just saying dream-like things in my head without ample examples.

For example, I was asked how will you sell our products to so so company and I went about talking about how I can speak and how I can convince people.
The best way to have answered it was to share instances when I sold some things to class mates and or friends or my church members and how I was able to do it using certain skills.

Just a thought.