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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Bollinger(m): 5:32pm On Nov 21, 2015
blessedfavoured:


If we have a job, we can afford home cleaning services a few times a week, and clean as you go the other days. yes? Cooking can be done on saturdays.
And I can 'ship' the kids off to their grandparents'.

More than enough time to rape the hozband grin

Ok ooooo. Remember today when the time comes. Remember this also; Men and our libido can last till we are in our 70's. Women on the other hand, start losing their much much earlier. But, that being said, i wish you the best.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by pek(m): 5:38pm On Nov 21, 2015
@op. I guess you don't know that couple is two partners and not couples. You kept saying couples.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Nobody: 5:38pm On Nov 21, 2015
TheDauraMallam:



Pardon my precocious ignorance, but sir, what is a red robot?

Ah, I got it.

The red robot of many mothers.


Wrong! It's the red robot that never kills but knows how to clean and prepare the den.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Nobody: 5:44pm On Nov 21, 2015
lipsrsealed
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by blessedfavoured: 5:46pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bollinger:


Ok ooooo. Remember today when the time comes. Remember this also; Men and our libido can last till we are in our 70's. Women on the other hand, start losing their much much earlier. But, that being said, i wish you the best.

And what does losing libido earlier have to do with anything? I think there's even viagra for women anyway so... undecided

P.S. Men's sex drive start to drop much earlier than the age of 70.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by blessedfavoured: 5:48pm On Nov 21, 2015
Trapnews:


grin got yah! so unsatiable undecided

Lmaoo cheesy

She might be ovulating
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Bollinger(m): 5:53pm On Nov 21, 2015
blessedfavoured:


And what does losing libido earlier have to do with anything? I think there's even viagra for women anyway so... undecided

P.S. Men's sex drive start to drop much earlier than the age of 70.

how long have you been married?
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Trapnews: 6:00pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bollinger:


how long have you been married?

undecided

Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Orikinla(m): 6:05pm On Nov 21, 2015
Capital NO.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Trapnews: 6:07pm On Nov 21, 2015
blessedfavoured:


Lmaoo cheesy

She might be ovulating

grin There's always a match for everyone!

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Bollinger(m): 6:14pm On Nov 21, 2015
Trapnews:


undecided


I only ask because you sound like either you are not or you are a newly wed.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 21, 2015
*yawn*
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Trapnews: 6:21pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bollinger:


I only ask because you sound like either you are not or you are a newly wed.

Guy! stay away from married women grin

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Bollinger(m): 6:25pm On Nov 21, 2015
Trapnews:


Guy! stay away from married women grin

You don't have to tell me twice. I have mine to worry about. just trying to help her. E get dis fairy tale belief about marriage.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Trapnews: 6:28pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bollinger:


You don't have to tell me twice. I have mine to worry about. just trying to help her. E get dis fairy tale belief about marriage.

sad

Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Ugosample(m): 6:35pm On Nov 21, 2015
lol!!!! i remember this film!!! Is this not that ladi film lol. Baba Suwe i think.
Trapnews:


grin got yah! so unsatiable undecided
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by kyrian1985(m): 6:36pm On Nov 21, 2015
This is how some women will take this their stupid feminisim into the bedroom, yet come out to complain that their husband is cheating on them, why won't the man cheat on you when you have failed to perform your duty as a wife....

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Trapnews: 6:39pm On Nov 21, 2015
Ugosample:
lol!!!! i remember this film!!! Is this not that ladi film lol. Baba Suwe i think.

smiley

Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Ugosample(m): 6:40pm On Nov 21, 2015
Bollinger:


Ok ooooo. Remember today when the time comes. Remember this also; Men and our libido can last till we are in our 70's. Women on the other hand, start losing their much much earlier. But, that being said, i wish you the best.
That is a big lie I!!! it depends on the individuals involved. My former neighbours were always doing kill me I kill you grin and they are grand parents. oh shot!! those sick memories are coming back :S grin
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Ugosample(m): 6:42pm On Nov 21, 2015
Trapnews:

smiley
I'm correct abi? lol!!!! he was selfish. ;S Day collect head but he no wan ladi tongue grin
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:45pm On Nov 21, 2015
hahn:
In my own relationship the case is different o. My wife wan use pvssy kill me. Two to three times a day, once at least. Unless the red robot is on duty.

Btw, I work at home
Hmmm u dey enjoy ooooo grin

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:48pm On Nov 21, 2015
IamBae:
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” (1 Corinthians 7:3–
5)


The above verse is essentially teaching two important concepts about sexuality in marriage: Unselfishness in the bedroom and fighting temptation as a team.
This ur shape is rod friendly ooooo grin
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by lovethchioma(f): 7:01pm On Nov 21, 2015
Funny enough, most people answering yes now or no now aint married yet. Don't worry when you are legally married you can come back and answer
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Nobody: 7:09pm On Nov 21, 2015
Olufemiolaolu:
This ur shape is rod friendly ooooo grin
It's not me o
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by LastProphet: 7:15pm On Nov 21, 2015
nmreports:
Tricky question.

Of course my response may not be tenable in the western world strictly because of their culture but I feel a wife should try as much as possible not to ever decline her husbands advances.

That doesnt mean she cannot say no when obviously the husband is not sensitive enough to understand her wives moods, her being tired, her stressed period, pregnancy etc.

What actually matters is understanding your wives because after a hard days job some women needs sex to help them relax. Some women like sex more or enjoys it more when pregnant.

Ultimately, wives should try as much as possible not to say NO because it makes men feel unloved or breeds adultery etc. in short, most men hate NO.

This is a very vast topic with a web of significant assertions, postulations and ideas but thats my take in few words.

please sir is it only men that enjoy sex? is it only the husband that ask for sex? why are black people always unintelligent? Are many wives not dying to have sex?

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by sholly007: 7:20pm On Nov 21, 2015
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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by amuoge: 7:41pm On Nov 21, 2015
SylarsMcQuins:
After paying a bride price of 500k for one Nsukka gal she come dey tell me no?.

Her papa der
I don't know the part of Nsukka that pay such high amount for bride price . it is always low except you met a greedy would be father in law
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by nutty16(f): 7:48pm On Nov 21, 2015
Sex palava. I think it becomes boring wen u marry for long. And dat kill most sex I marriage. One routine,sleep, wake ,eat, work sex . So it makes some couple try side ......

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Kazrem(m): 8:20pm On Nov 21, 2015
This is a topical issue. It depends anyway. Wife should say yes all the time if the husband is not a constant or regular demanding type. She should say yes all the time if the husband has a tendency to look else where if not given.

Cases when wife should not say yes all the time.
If the husband is turning her to sex machine.
If he still engage in adultery despite saying yes all the time.
If it is detriment to her health.

However the best policy I think is for both to communicate and understand one another. Sex is not food and moderate in everything is the best.
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by nmreports: 8:30pm On Nov 21, 2015
LastProphet:


please sir is it only men that enjoy sex? is it only the husband that ask for sex? why are black people always unintelligent? Are many wives not dying to have sex?

Are you married? Answer that first.
If you arent, I see why you asked the above.

Women like sex during the love making.
They can stay away from sex more than men. This is from my own experience.
They do not ask for sex or better stiill they rarely do. From my own experience as well.
My submittion is based on my own understanding living in Nigeria and by no means do not represent the larger number of women in the world.

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Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by ladycomfort(f): 8:52pm On Nov 21, 2015
No she must not. I love sex so much that don't think I will eva refuse a man sex
Re: Must A Wife Always Say Yes To Sex?by Bunmi Sofola by Youngzedd(m): 9:14pm On Nov 21, 2015
Ediss:
Make she say no first, na slap go make am open up grin



Na robot you wan slap



I can't slap my future wife, no matter what. There are many ways to kill a rat.

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