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TransAtlanticEx:
Forehead scar

poshestmina:
Emotional scar.
Growing up in a violent and bitter atmosphere.

Parents always at each other's neck ,new day,new wahala.
I remember days my dad chased us out with cutlass,locked us out, threatened to burn my senior siblings certificates, starved us ,beat up my mom right before us. and she didn't want to leave because of us and zero finances.

The only escape route was getting admission and leaving the house .I barely visited home all through my school days and my family house was less than 500 naira to and fro.

Left for service and never looked back (on very FEW occasions) till it was time for me to marry.

I'd rather raise happy kids as a single mother than having my kids(s) go through the hell I came from.
He's old now and we take care of both of them .
But no LOVE whatsoever! .
Just paying him back for at least sponsoring our education .
Nothing more!

Evaz900:
Scared emotionally and mentally

vastolord4:
Mine is an emotional scar..My cousins were very envious of me cos I'd say I had most things they didn't have as kids.. my parents decided to help them out by bringing them over to fund their education and to make sure they attended school.. my parents got us same wears and ate everything I did but to them but theirs wasn't enough.. preparing for school on a Monday morning, these 2 ladies 6 & 8 years older than me set me up and as a kid that I was, I fell for it.. my dad hit me like I was a thief.. I cried from home to school and back. Like how could this man do this without hearing from me. I couldn't concentrate at school. Everyone knew something happened but noone asked cos I was this bully in school (lol).. this was gbagada grammar school (89).. as for them, karma is a cold blooded rapist .
Well I learnt from that though and don't treat my kids that way..before I judge, I'll make sure I hear your version of the story.. interesting trend.

gordonbarrett:
Asbestos Is that material still in use?? Or you meant fibercement.

skyfather09:
I never knew my dad... so you dey insult person wey no get father abi??

skyfather09:
so theograpically you're gay then... useless gay boy.

Powerfly:
I'm not scared of rats. You're an alpha male,so i'm surprised you don't know what i'm talking about.

skyfather09:
you be gay... nothing you go tell me.

Powerfly:
You're awesome!...
These men think the universe revolves around them.. It revolves around God.
How're you doing by the way..? No mind the guy jare...

REDBUNNY:
80% of what?
You people just sit down and make up things in your head just to feel cool.
People wear what they want to wear, what they feel good in.
80% indeed trying to attract who?
Looool, this is hilarious.
That is how i will wear my bumshort and go out and one rat will think I'm trying to attract him.. Very funny.
You do realize some women are not even attracted to men right?
Oh, of course you don't know.
Everything is about you people abi? Middle class indeed.

tabithababy:
Please anyone with a small android phone to give out??

Sixfeetbelle:
You missed the point though.

The major question here is: after dressing decently, won't you guys still treat them they way you treat ladies wearing shorts and short skirts?

REDBUNNY:
Nobody is going to dress in a way that suit you.
Some women love leggings and bumshort, they're not going to stop wearing it just because you don't like it.
Go for your type.
You like girls in long skirts, trousers, long gowns? go for them.
Don't look for a girl who likes leggings and bum shorts and try to turn her into your idea of "decency".
If everyone go for their type, all will be well

Powerfly:
Hmmm.. This life no balance atall.
So after she dresses decently.. You'll still engage her in an indecent act of 'chop clean mouth' fornication. nawa oo. Local gyal is surprised but not shocked. Smh.

lefulefu:
some ladies have horrible shapes and they will still be wearing shorts and short skirts.they will be catwalking on the street and forming sexy and u will be seeing the fat stomachs and thick cellulites poking out.some u go dey see their pant and thick cellulite riddled thighs.Op i guess na such u see dat put u off

tnerro1:
I understand with that guy, there are some short very light wrapper men! Especially when she just had her bath come tie the wrapper , chai ! If you know you know

Adasun:
Suits or short gown drives me crazy.even rapper too

paulolee:
dts ur opinion...as for me i love seeing girls more on short skirt and bump shorts..
whenever a girls visits with short skirts or mini gown, i may look cool am calm bt am over excited inside my mind because that dress code to me simply means dt she knows what she came for and i would address her based on how she dressed..

Hakeeb123:
Please how can i get this in lagos?

i cant send money to delta oh. Make dem no use me self count scores on nairaland.

fattprince:
Seriously. If you want to seduce me. Just send a girl with fresh thigh on short skirt or gown. Even if she below average facially but neat. I might be saying I don't like her in my mind but my thing will be saying another thing by raising it's adorable head.

fattprince:
They are my own undoing. If I see their thigh I'm aroused already. I don't think I'm perverted though.

Kabir5643:
Don't mind the G above me. You're completely fine. You just have a different taste in girls

fernandoc:
You’re weird

Lovelynife:
is ds d only colour available?
2) Can it be used on wall without paint?