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Bassa1:
I was 13yrs when my Islamic teacher had an Indian guest who he kept in his guest house, all 7 of them. I was asked to attend to them since I understood their English accent. Late in d night one of them abused me by repeatedly kissing and using my hands to handle his dick. I went with d flow realising that if he could risk trying this act on me without worries dat his colleagues could walk in, they are definitely in together.

I kissed him back and handle his dick after a while I told he to let me go dat d place was not private enough promising dat I was going to invite him to my house the next day when my parent are away.
After he let me go, I was so angry by wat has happened that once I got home I grabbed a knife from d kitchen and headed back to d guest house. I met him lying down I walked towards him to slit his throat but luckily for him it was just a minor cut in his throat. I ran away while he was still bleeding. My Mallam sent them away d next day.
I spent several year traumatized by d event. Untill recently am usually very uncomfortable when a friend is making body contact with me.

I really wished I had slaughter him properly dat day.

TenthMan:
Humans are blessed with the gift of thought and reason.

It separates us from other species.

If we go by human instinct, the female will always choose the male that has the highest/better propensity to produce offspring with healthy genetics and a male that will support her with resources and security. It is therefore basic instinct for a woman to choose men who are financially capable in today's world. Also, the female is considered vulnerable when she is pregnant and nurturing her young. After this, she has always been productive resource wise.

People calling for women to select/choose/stick to men who have little or nothing are asking the women to override their basic instinct. A lot of women are having none of it. Men who accuse women of ''not knowing tomorrow'' do not know how nature works. A woman will rather stay with a man who she sees his fortunes/resources than one which is imaginary. ''I go fit get am'' no be property. It is the woman's right to ensure that her offspring are properly nurtured. It is the woman that gets pregnant. It is the woman that bears the child. It is the woman that nourishes the child. Hence do not expect the woman to take such major risks by selecting a ''weaker man''. In the past, the males had to prove themselves competing with other males. Nowadays it is financial strength and material comfort that is the yardstick. Not brute strength and the ability to hunt a mammoth.

The woman is also aware of the risk in the man's desire/propensity to procreate as many times and with as many females as possible. She needs security for her own offspring. The woman too, if the man is found weak,unable to provide at any point in time, may lead to allowing another man have his way. People are shy to state these facts or simply do not like them because they do not conform to what they believe, which is fine.

What the women have to know is that happiness is not usually based on lavish comfort. Men also have to note that because she stayed with you when you had nothing does not make her a good person/mate either. Nothing is guaranteed.


My responses are objective (knowledge/fact based) and you must know I answer without any form of bias (cultural, religious, tribal, ethnic, class, gender, age, race, nationality, blood, acquaintance, etc.)

Wish I could like this comment a thousand times. Not only for the objectivity in it but also the writing style

SamuelAnyawu:
Yeaaaa true bro. It was not funny at all today. Did the guests use our regular Max Air and Azman or it was Chartered flights

All of the above was used. At a time lending became an issue due to space.

SamuelAnyawu:
Is that why they blocked almost all access roads today in Maiduguri? I spent one hour trying to Navigate from Old GRA to West end Rahama Restaurant

No. The blockage was due to the wedding of three children of the GMD of NNPC, Mallam Kolo Kyari which was attended by the creme de la creme of our society. That one was held in the central mosque and subsequently the government house and Lagos house. I attended although am back in Abuja.

I noticed right from the Airport to all the above stated venues and back that all the route we applied was reserved specifically for the guests.

I'll pay anything to see the video clip of this woman crying and begging as the narrative goes

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Hope this helps someone