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There is God ooooooooooo!

You've become wise in your own eyes.

Go back to sleep o man!

realestniggah:
God doesn't exist..stop all this rubbish

when you die you loose consciousness forever.. same thing that happen when you go to bed at night and you have no idea what going on around you. there ain't no heaven or hell

if God really does exist I wonder why he would allow that RCCG female preacher to be murdered while she was preaching his word


y'all should leave religion alone and focus on building this country

How do you know people who die lose consciousness forever. Have you ever been dead before?

Science is still infantile. Can only explain that which it can explain.

Enough already!

ImaIma1:
Lol...you got here by constantly responding to me and Hey!!! Women are not to be "handled".

Dont get paranoid. I only used the word "chauvinist" once. You are probably mixing me up with someone else.

You no de ever gree. Anyhow this is a new day. you won! I take my bow and my leave humbly.

Imama .does that have any love meaning attached?
(Just curious)

ImaIma1:
Lol...you got here by constantly responding to me and Hey!!! Women are not to be "handled".

Dont get paranoid. I only used the word "chauvinist" once. You are probably mixing me up with someone else.

You no de ever gree. Anyhow this is a new day. you won! I take my bow and my leave humbly.

Imama .does that have any love meaning attached?
(Just curio use)

This is all they know. PRe- wedding photo and ashebi. When it comes to the real marriage they will want to run like...domestic violence...blah blah blah..

ImaIma1:
I haven't made one feminist comment. Not one. You were the one asking me about "screwing men". Is "chauvinist" such a big word that my learning it today or yesterday has become a bone of contention?

I see your background formed your opinion and thinking.
My father never hit my mum. Thank God. And i don't believe a man has a right to hit his wife. They have become one. And as long as he doesn't beat himself when he does wrong, he should never beat his wife.

What if i told you that i am married to an an african man. So nigerian that he speaks 3 nig languages fluently? What if?

Stop doing that OK! The chauvinist thing only became a bone of contention because you were actually using it way too many time than needed. In my defense I had to respond that way. Am just hardline on how women should be handle. IMaybe the way I was raise formed my perception. I can Never rule that out. Nevertheless I still don't think its a bad way to bring up a child. And aagin I was never abuse. Neither was my mother. Its all part of being in a family. If it end well for you, it also ended well for me. I won't judge the process further.


Are you married to an African man so fluent he speak three different languages? wow Me some more...!

On the screwing men thing


Maybe you misunderstood the context in which I was using that phrase "screwing men" I was actually referring to western culture and homosexual. That we over here find it distasteful however, we respect them enough to respect their laws a and practise. Likewise they should respect ours.

#from attacking celebrity marriages to defending myself. Lord how did I get here.

All this useless feminist everywhere. Championing women course left right. Na so DAT gbolo Tonto dicke Wan still talk of abuse. Just de laugh her. All this wan fit marry.

Think marriage ends at prewedding photo/ achebi alone.

Make Una go find work. Maga no pay.

dangotesmummy:
I know una go still find something to criticize about

Hahaha..you no know we? Na the work weh we de do chalie.!

dangotesmummy:
Wow.they're all beautiful and successful women


Where are those pained riff raffs who sees a successful single woman and attributes it to sugar daddyvis behind it?

Lol see.me here. They wanted to engage their jobs. Fine with them. Obviousely marriage is not their thing. But don't goan be slaying small fine boys for corner. That one will take from the whole sophisticated strong will persona being created

ImaIma1:
I didn't claim to be educated. You are the one throwing terms around. I thought we were talking about men hitting their wives. Let's stick to that.

A typical male chauvinist comments..."screwing men". Now you have committed the fallacy of hasty generalization.

Though you seem to know something about screwing men. Enlighten us please.

Chauvinist..chauvinist. Did you learn that recent. Enough already. Just because you are defending women stance, Does that make you a feminist.

My dad hit my mother yes. My dad still buys her what he can from the abundance of what he has. They've had their moments and are still waxing strong. If I am to define him by that one moment then he will be an abusive man. He Still speak about her in glowing terms with bright smile on his face.

Have you even dated a real African man this one you are doing lady so.

ImaIma1:
All i see is circumventing and justification of a man hitting his wife and tagging it as "culture". Since you are so hell bent on culture and its practices, I bet you will circumcise your female children, or probably have slaves and still eat human beings.
Your education has obviously affected your reasoning objectively and reasonably Mr educated philosopher

All I see is someone whos society has stuff with a believe sets. What is it that you don't understand about peoples culture. Yet you claim to be educated. Do I complain when you screw men or don't you you think Other societies frown at it the way you frown at beating a child

We do not beat children for no aperent reason rather as a method to correct. Why can't you reason. Its not the same thing as abuse.

ShakurM:
Your dad beat you a lot...hmm then you would beat your children a lot, the cycle continues. But beating you didn't change your life from what you expect, did it? The West's discipline is the best form, we do ignorant trial and error here. Do we have juvenile prison system here? Nooo What do I say about your dad's esteem and psyche? displaying dominance by beating you guys. Wtf

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My dad psychic is fine and we get along real fine. I even remind him of that one time he paid soldier to beat me and put me under the truck of their car. That was when I use the money meant for fuel to gamble. Lol its always a funny story my brothers make joke of it all the times. Never ending once.

Again we get along fine. Am sure tupac mentioned something about how mama put a smack on his back side in his lyric still didnt stop "dear mama" from being one of the greatest eulogies to mothers worldwide.

You have your ways of training we have ours. Respect it. That's all we ask. Non is superior. As long as it has a mind to correct in love. Love hits sometimes but after that comes embrace.

ImaIma1:
Your dissertation mentioned fathers beating kids. What about their wives? I get that the western culture differs from our backward African cultures.

However, when the life of someone us threatened, culture can as well be theown into the dustbin. Where I am from, the men do not hit their wives. I never for once saw my dad hit mum.

When you are the leader of the house, you are supposed to protect the interests of the people you lead and not exercise your authority negatively.

Even the bible said spare the rod and spoil the child. There is no place where it was implied or indicated that the man should beat his wife.

My friend again educate yourself. There is no such thing as backward culture. Don't make the mistake of committing cultural enthnocentrism. This was why I refer you to cultural relativities in the first place.

If I see the white man screewing another white man. I may frown at it and call them possess. If I see the a Muslim man marrying a teenager, I may say they are backward. Likwise the way western women go about semi naked. Its all a matter of perception. I may not like it but I have to respect there laws and culture. It

Backwardness advancentment these are relative concepts.


There are no reason for beating should not be the final stand. If the reason is towards outright correction. Then its a sufficient enough reason. And don't compare yourself with white societies. Because the factors that conspire to make their societies what it is are not even remotely present in yours. Understand your social realities first before you take side.

selflessmaya:
what exactly is your point? that women who suffered abuse should have stayed or would've been spared if they acted differently? your whole post reeks of pretentious chauvinism, trying to sound intelligent and sympathetic while being condescending at the same time. counselling is only in cases where a couple have grown apart or they're bickering or there's a strain in the relationship caused by maybe death of a child or infidelity. domestic violence is abuse. it's not just a "glitch", ppl have lost lives to it, it's the man who should go see a shrink and treat his anger issues and the woman has the right to decide not to wait around for a damaged man to make peace with himself.

so what if she's going through a divorce, should she put her life on hold and sit around wailing? no! most ppl here hate it when a woman leaves her husband's house and she's not utterly miserable. for every thousand men out there waiting to be "showered with praise for doing their job as a husband" there are MILLIONS of women who are living now and who lived before us who worked their fingers to the bone for their families and didn't even demand the acknowledgement they never got. and nigerian women are as educated as can be, at least the ones i know. remove yourself from the local champions that surround you, educate yourself on social issues and cut this mess you're projecting.

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Nigerian Celebrities don't do nothing except for selfish reason that's my whole point. The fight against domestic violence cannot be champion by this kind.

If they touch on this issue, they may spin it round and round to suit their selfish reason. Not ideal I tell you. Let's not insult domestic violence any further. Let the real people. With real life case sceneros take to the stage. Tiwa savage acted episode one. Cameras and lightening everywhere.


Like I said am not making a case for domestic violence. Nevertheless we should be watch full how we give this things publicity. The kind of people that gives it and what are their reasons.

ImaIma1:
Guy domestic violence is not a glitch. It is a threat to life. And it is a very potent reason for quitting a marriage. You are just going on and on but not really making a lot of sense or hitting the nail on the head
No one has a right to abuse his or her spouse. Any form of violence attack should be taken as a threat to life.

This is where you get off all wrong. There is what we call " determinate of behaviors" in societies. Also "cultural relativities". That peoples culture should be understood within the context of those practising it. ( read a little on cultural anthropolgy so you dont sbsorve everything the west does) Maybe in the west they don't beat women or children. But here we do. A lot! Yes! Now before you get all civilise on me educate yourself. Behavior determinants mean those things that permitted their societies to be the way it is. For freedom to be utmost, it start from an early age. Allowing the child full expression unhindered. Some of them end up being professors of quantum physics.. While some strippers. It a two way thing. Hower in our clime, their is the little matter of culture in which many of you don't take into context when making arguement

Hierarchy must be mentain in a home. Your dad is not your friend. And you do not address him by his first name.
My dad beat me a lot. Am sure yours did too( its our cultural way of raising children and fathers way of accerting dominance sometimes on who is the head) . However, what it all comes down to, is that he is not a violent man. We all know that. If he was in the west he should be in jail by now for child abuse or other domestic violence related charges right? But we all know that there are beating unto correction. However there are those that borders on outright assault. The later should be differented from the former. Which i clearly distant myself. My point is we should be able to tell the difference.

Someone that is going through a painfully divorce right?. The things women do for publicity this days its alarming. They can serve this god of fame anything even their own children . not to talk of their marriage. This was how tiwa was trying to use her own marriage to gain cheap publicity.

Let be clear on one thing. Nigeria women. You are not as educated as most of you give yourself credit for. We are still in a third world country. That means they are many things that elude us. We are watching too many TV. The trend this women are about to start...with divorce. Lol am laughing in Jewish.

Very soon any little glitch in peoples marriage. Divorce will be the next thing. Marriage in the west most times they visit counsellors or shrinks. At list they do all they can to save it first. Divorce are usually the last option. It can create an opening in which undeserving people will profit from your mutual hate. Like lawyers. Clive to your parents seek their advice and help. If your parents didn't divorce despite all they went through why should you.?..

And don't tell me your father didn't beat up your mother. All this rubbish trend on domestic violence gaining momentum daily. Discrediting men is uncalled for. It puts a strain in an already strenuous relationship between the sex. For every violent man out there, there are thousand men who perform their domestic duty without any praise shower on them. Please women you should talk to yourself if need be. Some of you are truly stubborn and unrully. Am not making a case for abuse. Far be it from me. But many women will hide under this guise now. Even thought their own behavior is nothing to write home about.

I guess once we open that door call reasoning, there is no telling what could come through it.

dangotesmummy:
#yawns again #


Mandela spent the productive/best part of his life in jail,he became president, fine,died,the whole world came for his burial to honor him.question of the day does a dead man know how many people came for his burial?

Yoruba's will say oku omoye alago da.a dead man doesn't know how much was spent on his burial talkless of knowing whether the world came or not

And yes money solves 90%of life's problems

Next

Who cares what yourubas say? Am talking sense you talking about a guy who probably hard too much to drink and started making achohol inspired alterations.

A girl found money and returned it. If it was your money would you be saying this. Or thanking your ancestors for returning in form of a teenager.

dangotesmummy:
#yawns#

Story for the gods.that's what you find in primary 2 English text books.honesty is the best policy


But they didn't put not in Nigeria

See how rich our kleptomaniac politicians are and look at our honest and sacrifial human right activists

If honesty was the best policy in Nigeria people like Joe odumakin should have been a billionaire, people like Dora akinyuli should have still been alive and a billionaire too

Boring you! One track mind. Typical Nigerian Everything has to trickle down to money. Its the reason, you marry, reason you join politics, reason you open church's. Keep this mentality up and a huge chunk of life has already pass you by.


You probably will never know why the whole world showed up at Mandela's funeral.

Airforce1:
So no reward

Even the owner of the missing money didnt even show appreciation whatsoever?

The pride and satisfaction one gets for doing the right thing is often is worth more than a thousand money.

There is too much education riddle in the teaching of one. Greek, origin, biblical references e.t.c.

While the other brings it down to the level of a lame man as though to say ..the kingdom of God is like...

For you yo know them..it was said of them. " they shall grow up before you as tender plants , having no form of comliness and when you shall see them , there will be no beauty in them that you should desire them"

spicyv1:
@ Micheal Manyeza: I totally enjoyed your post except the part that you were actually defending a mistake! I refer to the teaching that masturbation is not a sin against God as an error! Now, the preacher never directly said Lust is a sin but he definitely said that indirectly! Why? Because masturbation is a product θf lust! It is not an act that can be committed without lusting because the sin θf lust would have taken place before the act θf masturbation is carried out! It is therefore a capital sin against God!

Your point about married people carrying the act on each other is an expression θf ignorance because masturbation is an act carried on one's self!

Personally, I have been blessed tremendously by pst Chris' teachings! Good thing is I have the HolyGhost to discern an error or a contradiction to the world plus I am also wise to be like the Berrean Christians! I subject every teaching I hear to the scrutiny θf the WORD!

Lastly, I advice that if you have the Spirit θf God dwelling within you, give Him the chance to play His role θf guiding you into all truths! And when He does, accept his corrections whether it injures your pride, ego, reputation or whatever! It is better to yield to His correction than reject because the pains θf disobedience far outweighs the pain θf obedience! And the fear θf the Lord is the beginning θf wisdom! So, Choose to pursue after wisdom!

That teaching is clearly wrong! I thought it was a mistake and its okay to make mistakes but it is foolish to defend, endorse and justify your mistakes for any reason! What you ought to do is pray for your pastor because he is not immune to mistakes, rather than persisting in misleading those whose faith are weak!

May God give us the grace to allow our eyes θf understanding to be open!

Be carefull how you stay long on certain spirit. They don't call them " unclean" for nothing.

I will advice you whatsoever things are pure let your heart meditate on them rather.

tartarus:
She could have been kidnapped don't be "codedly" jumping into conclusions

Kidnap is a relative term. Am not jumping into any conclusion. Its so easy to get women from there to here this days.

This should be a lesson to all you women. Don't even bother to get defensive. This is the real face of the world. Humans are calous and barbaric. They have never lost that trait. Yet most portray enough boldness to hop into a car without a relative stranger. Don't look away. Look very well and learn. Cus this is the nature of the world. You want it to be peotic. Well its not!

That was how I saw this big ass girl by the highway waiting for a lift. She knew she was going to get one cus she was well endoured.

She did get one eventually. How much was she suppose to spent to get to her destination? Probably a hundred naira. Rather she prefer a cheap lift. Just be carefully women especially your site are your biggest weakness.

If we don't qualify, which is looking more and more probable (don't see Liverpool slipping up at home against Middlesbrough's)

It will be a very difficult next season. One of the most difficult Wenger has ever face in his stay at ARsenal. First, section of the fans will revolt. There will be more games played in the uefa cup. However unlike the champions league, there will be less income. The quads dept will be stretch. We won't be able to make any quality signing to improve our squade. Since champions league football is one of the main prerequisite for top players joining any clubs.

The top four four will be an even harder nut to crack. Since its now officially a top six. I don't particular see Wenger having any psychological edge over Morinho, guadiola, clopp, conte, or pochentihno. By my reckoning, he is the weakest of the lot. I would love to be optimistic but truth be told, we are on our way down. It has been comimg ...

Naija behold your models.

This are the people they stuff down our troat as role models.

No problem!

hardwerk:
your postulation is truism ....before i got into the field ,i had this general conception that the arts is for dumbies.....boy how wrong was i !!!!


the pure sciences need a lab for their research while all i need is the next person around me to conduct a research swiftly

Exactly what I thought going into the field. Wanted law. You know the drill. However as soon as I peemitted myself, I quilkly fell in love with the decipline .it Did open my mind alright.

There are so many social ills this field can help correct. If the government awake to it.

hardwerk:
you man is a real social scientist ...abraham maslow's hierachy of needs is a classic .......one stage to another

True sociology was my decipline.

One can be "llitrate" however in certain area of discipline can be "illiterate"

I think many Nigerians are not quiet in line with their own social realities hence they make undue comparism.

The artist whom you idolise has done it all. Those children are being destroyed right in their own house. Do you know the amount of toxic video we consume daily?

I am an adult still I struggle with those material to keep my mind sane and free of sexual thoughts. What then do you expect from underage teen.


The media should be rgulated . all this so called artist should be called to moral accountability. Otherwise we are toast.

Kee