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dominique:
You didn't include all that in your opening post.
Did he call you a bastard before or after you intervened in their scuffle?

Talk is cheap, there's absolutely nothing he can do to crumble your father's business. If he was that powerful, he would have improved his life don't you think? You shouldn't have reacted that violently on such empty threat. Next time, take several deep breaths and visualize possible consequences of your actions before snapping like that.

Tanx a lot happened and he said alot. I just didn't want to keep recalling and saying what he said he did that right before I reacted. it was so painful. it was after I was like..... the Bleep I wasn't thinking.....

matrix199:
It is not the mistake we do that matters. It is what we do after the mistake that matters.


Your remorse after your impulsiveness is what matters. After all, you were provoked by the pastor's action towards your father.


But try to be calm next time ok?

Tanx. I will.... when he said me n my siblings are bastardz. it's kept recalling in my head....

Penalty82:
You can't find inner peace in romance section

couldn't get it outside romance section either

Today an event happened that's making me depressed. Long story short my dad Gave a PST a car on higher purchase after a while. He returned it n said he isn't working again........ That's not d issue now, but when like almost all d member of d church mostly men came to our house to harass us and were saying my dads business crumble. I helped my dad calm down but on a second note I lost it. I went in to get a spray n spray on the PST eye I was stopped thou. But afterwards I tot this was on like me.....
I felt I overreacted. Not cos he is a pastor I have no regards for that man. But I still felt bad I acted that way I used to b this calm guy.... But..... I dunno... Was I stupid at that move or what

femidejulius:
I do not know why it is difficult for you to type out "pastor" instead of "PST"

Your likes will want to wish someone a happy birthday on Facebook and write "HBD LLNP". It is very ridiculous.

I intentionally quoted your whole text knowing you might edit it.

As for your question of whether you overreacted, I have no comment.

you don't know me outside here. so don't be too quick to judge me pls.....

dominique:
How old are you? Based on what you wrote, you overreacted. As long as your father is not being physically assaulted, you should have stayed out of his business. You only exposed yourself as a badly trained child and your parents as bad parents who can't train a child properly. You should find a way to apologize to the pastor and learn to stay out of your parent's matters except you're called to intervene.

even when he called me a bastard

he said if he was a man of God. in three days my dad's business crumbles. a biz that is used in feeding me
pls am not trying to justify my act, but I feel bad I was calm but it strucked me.

Today an event happened that's making me depressed. Long story short my dad Gave a PST a car on higher purchase after a while. He returned it n said he isn't working again........ That's not d issue now, but when like almost all d member of d church mostly men came to our house to harass us and were saying my dads business crumble. I helped my dad calm down but on a second note I lost it. I went in to get a spray n spray on the PST eye I was stopped thou. But afterwards I tot this was on like me.....
I felt I overreacted. Not cos he is a pastor I have no regards for that man. But I still felt bad I acted that way I used to b this calm guy.... But..... I dunno... Was I stupid at that move or what