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KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

You are a chosen one selected by God to save your generations.
Do you know the Deep things of this world, just use what you have to make money for yourself and keep your head up, still life goes on.🤏

ChildOfDoom:
I know there are other vices like betting, drinking, drugs, cultism etc. but I believe womanizing has a strong effect.

Since I started uncontrolled intimacy in 2022, it has been from one problem to another. The desire to please women for example, leads me to lots of problems.

I engage in betting with people's money for example, to see if I can double it to please women's demands. Not to forget all sorts of infections we tackle.

God help us

This my man dey worry, you get to do what you gat to do when it's gets down to do lady stuff, NGN10,000 every night, bros eh no dey easy, mate.

[quote author=Schoolshoe post=108874305]There are some girls your game can't win over. These girls are out of your league, or some of them are quite demanding for your pocket value. You shouldn't stress it, don't try too hard to impress them. It would burn you out and you might probably not get the relationship you want with them at the end of the day.
Some of these girls, they seemed to worth much not because they came from a wealthy family. They seemed expensive because other guys made them to be. Some guys would spend up to 50k in a week for a Jessica he is trying to woo. Now you are a guy that want to woo the same Jessica, how would you do that when your salary in a month is around 50k. Tell me how you are going to compete with the other guy. How can you beat him to it and win the girl over. Believe it or not, most girls would choose money over a guy who is humorous. Relationship of nowadays is now based on I can only date you depending on how you impress me with your money than other guys.
Two days ago, I was walking by the road and a girl was doing same. She was on call and I overheard her saying, "You want to send me just 3k? I'm not begging for money o?" This same girl wouldn't care if that guy did concree work to get that 3k. If another guy that once dropped 10k for her calls her the same time with the 3k guy, you should know whose call she would drop for another. It's a matter of the highest bidder.

Maybe I shouldn't have used the only the statement "out of your league", I should also use "girls that are materialistic, or too demanding for your pocket." Some girls in your hood would only date guys that use the latest iPhones. And you are the cheap android type, my brother go and rest.

I'm not here to talk you out of relationship quest if you don't have a lot of money as a guy. In fact, there are girls who would date you for your humour, confidence, your position in the office, calmness and looks. You just have to step back and think do I have what it takes to win her over?
The best way to avoid wasteful and inconsequential losses is to be true to yourself. Be a realist. Don't start what you can't finish. Save yourself the stress. There are many fishes in the ocean. The size and shape of the fish you can catch depends on your type of hook or net. Unfortunately nowadays, the metric for your hook or net is now based on money. :So many things on our mind bro.
Just make sure you have a business fame to incorporate income and profit, let her discover who she really is, and teach her way of being respectful and loyal to you and your business, every other thing goes on and on.

Use this Affirmation to unlock more creativity and build your confidence.
Repeat this Affirmation everyday and see what will happen.
Say it like you mean it.
Take a deep breath in and repeat these words.
I am a limitless creator that is channelling divine inspiration with clarity and purpose.
I am a perfect alignment with the flow of creativity and i allow for Genius ideas to effortlessly flow through me.
I am vibrating at the highest frequency and I attract and magnetize boundless opportunities and inspiration towards me every single moment.
I am open to the infinite opportunities of my imagination and I expand beyond all limitations.
I am connected to my higher self fully empowered to creatively express myself with passion, intention and confidence.
I Trust in my power and I trust in myself.
I am that I am and so it is.

wfjimmytobby:
There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.

She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..

She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.

So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..

Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..

It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…

Another man has been giving her some material stuff and she does not want to share it with you, just buy her freshly cooked goat head with juice or meat pie with ice cream, just keep surprising her for two weeks and three days, trust me she will continue loving you like never before.

🦋 There's a very famous statement of a great scientist Nikola Tesla about the numbers. He stated that the numbers 3,6 and 9 have extreme importance. If you know the magnificence of three, six and nine, you would have a key to the Universe (9).
🍂 originally Answered: what are the most Magical numbers?
🍂142857 × 1 =142857
🍂142857 × 2 =285714
🍂142857 × 3 =428571
🍂142857 × 4 =571428
🍂142857 × 5 =714285
🍂142857 × 6 =857142
(Thanks toAditya Khandelwal)
Edit:🍂142857 × 7 =999999 (via Joachim pense.

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Biznesworld:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKF95YSvBxI

A pregnant woman was spotted indulging in a rather unusual snack: uncooked potatoes paired with sliced bread.

This unexpected pregnancy craving has left many scratching their heads, wondering what could drive a pregnant woman to seek out such an unconventional combination.

While the reasons behind this unusual craving are still unclear, one thing is certain: pregnancy cravings can be surprising, intriguing, and sometimes downright baffling.

Ladies, Please share your experiences during your pregnancy Cravings period.

Why using potatoes and bread, when they are so many diet to choose from.

njikoka:
Fufu, afang soup and chicken

My mind dey Banga soup with loi loi

Understanding meditation.
🫧 Benefits of meditation: can give you a sense of calm, peace and balance that can benefit your emotional well-being and your overall health focusing on something that calms you and also helps you learn to stay centerd and keep inner peace.
🫧(Emotional and physical benefits of meditation).
🫧 Giving you a new way to look at things that cause stress.
🫧 Building skills to manage your stress.
🫧 Making you more self-aware.
🫧 Focusing on the present.
🫧 Reducing negative feelings.
🫧 Helping you be more creative.
🫧 Lowering resting blood patient.
🫧 Helping you sleep better.
🫧 Practicing mindfulness.
🫧 Write down your thoughts.
🫧 Challenge negative thoughts.
🫧 Engage in relaxation techniques.
🫧 Create a worry period.
🫧 Seek support.
🫧 Finally seek God's wisdom to know the right thing to do at the right time and in the right way. Peace and love💥🌳🎨🖌️💡🪐⚡💯☕👊✨

adalame:
Hello Nairalanders,

I need your help! I’m a mum preparing lunch boxes for my kids, and I’m looking for creative, healthy, and age-appropriate snack ideas. My daughter is 3 years old and in Nursery 1, while my son is 1 year old and in crèche.

I want snacks that are:

Easy to prepare
Healthy and nutritious
Appealing to kids
Mess-free (since they’re for school)
Please share your tried-and-true snack ideas or anything your kids love. Suggestions for both homemade and store-bought snacks are welcome.

Thanks in advance for your recommendations!

Looking forward to your ideas.

Organic and dietary supplements could make your kids more exhilarating and keep on anticipating for more, keep it healthy and refreshing.

🗝️ Don't be scared to rock alone, The sun be
alone everyday and still shine.
🗝️Every successful person has a painful story.
Every painful story has a successful ending.
Accept the pain and get ready for success.
🗝️Work hard, stay disciplined and be patient,
your time will come.
🗝️ Don't lose hope, everything happens for a
reason, you never know what tomorrow
might bring.
🗝️If you stay, stay forever
If you go, do it today,
If you change, change for the better. And if
you talk, make sure you mean what you
say.
🗝️I have learned one thing from life. That you
can be important to someone, but only
when it's for their benefits.
🗝️Be careful who you push away, real ones
don't come back.
🗝️Master your emotions. A calm mind can
handle any situation.
🗝️Give people time. Give people space. Don't
beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What's
meant for you, will always be yours.

adeoyekay:
Have you tried beans and spaghetti before

One of my best combo

It is very delicious

I tried the combo during my school days since then have added it to my food list

TRY PAP AND PERIWINKLE
You are good to gooooooooooooo (ask ur DJ)

Ororocelemi:
Despite the challenges, Nigerians are known for their resilience and ability to find joy in the midst of adversity. The festive season is a time for celebration, love, and sharing with family and friends.

Nigeria's cultural delicacies are indeed delicious and diverse, reflecting the country's rich heritage. From Jollof Rice to Suya, Egusi Soup, Akara, Moi Moi, and Tuwo Shinkafa, among others, there's something for everyone to enjoy.

This festive season, I wish you and your loved ones a time of laughter, warmth, and togetherness. May your tables be filled with an assortment of Nigeria's flavorful dishes, and may your hearts be filled with hope and joy.

What dish will you be preparing for Christmas?

"Season's greetings"

Reset your brain and entire body with exhilarating diet and supplement for the festive season and beyond.

illicit:
Too greasy

If the oil was reduced I will eat it 4 or 5 times

Oga chopper-ton mix everything carry come my table

Corrections:
Why did the 3plot of land not do well? Was it due to lack of water since you used fertilizer?

My gee ur thinking wild, allow dey guy plant and cultivate his farm produce next time in peace without bringing it to nairaland to showcase without physical evidence.

trevorlinda:
massive lootin loading


Congratulations in advance to the looters

When will Nigeria develop into Dubai and their personal generosity and government support for citizen to notice the change without hearing it?

Mistral:
I definitely agree with this message.

Thinking is a skill that is underdeveloped in most people, hence the poor decisions and quality of life. It hurts me to witness the level of ignorance most people have

Creative thinking should be inculcated in the curriculum as a subject in schools for teenagers to use theirs mind to think creatively and expressing it vocally.

richiemcgold:
Anything is possible in Nigeria. Even if I hear say Mr Yahaya is currently chilling out in Las Vegas, I no go doubt am.
🤥 .. abi no be dis same naija wey we dey?

Las Vegas: imagine yahaya bello dey casino dey play whitejack🫣

Ikaeniyan0:
Una don start una fables.

No be small Dragon fables, hope say he/she dey go china🤨🙋

Tbillz:
Found the fruit edible and cant stop eating afterwards but I don't know what the name, I want to know the benefits to my body. Thanks

INDIAN APPLE👌
A seasonal fruit with highly sensational mouth watery taste, always suitable for cultivation in garden like areas with care against pesticides

Nigeria was Greatly blessed by God, but greatly mismanaged by men.🙄🤔

£750,000,000,000 Pounds. 💷
NGN1,655,567,250,000,000.20 Naira.💰

Seven hundred and fifty billion pounds.

One Zillion, Six hundred and fifty five trillion, five hundred and sixty seven billion, two hundred and fifty million naira and twenty Kobo.

My imagination: I go live for Golden castle in Dubai, own diamond cars, acquire luxurious skyscrapers investment fames, and Mega car shopping mall, with an unlimited Visa to all countries in the world, Even the Crown Prince go dey imagine my imaginations.🙄🤔🌎🤣

Henry2405:
Me: NO CARRY FIRST PAD 🎮

Guys:No forget to carry flexing money show🍾🥃🎮, if na PS4&5 Omo na betting and sweating😅

Babes: She must branch supermarket collect things on things for normal enjoyment🍎🥕🍉🫐🍒🍇🥑🍕🥩🍞

If anything in the country was working, you won't have to explain to us, we will see it, and be happy to applaud their afford, but for now partially we are doomed, we need special intervention from our leaders collectively and also funding incurred debts.⛽🙎

MEGAWATCH:
💯 Percent correct my dear brother.

APC ONLINE PAID AGENTS will go home disgraced today.



🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If na online no wahala, but make i receive my NGN50000 to NGN100000 credit alert for my phone, even na dey least party,I go vote, wetin concern me with their wahala, last last after election, nobody send you.

fineboynl:
It feels like cars now consume fuel.

There is big difference from 1300 naira and 730 naira.

The fuel car will use when fuel was 730 and now 1300 is frustrating.

I bought fuel 15k on Sunday. Went to church after closing did some Sunday movement before heading home. Came out again for night movement here and there fuel gone. It now feel like my car is burning fuel.

If it were at the time when it was 730 half of the fuel would still be remaining.

How much can you fill up these Tanks to travel on a distance acceleration?

fineboynl:
It feels like cars now consume fuel.

There is big difference from 1300 naira and 730 naira.

The fuel car will use when fuel was 730 and now 1300 is frustrating.

I bought fuel 15k on Sunday. Went to church after closing did some Sunday movement before heading home. Came out again for night movement here and there fuel gone. It now feel like my car is burning fuel.

If it were at the time when it was 730 half of the fuel would still be remaining.

How much can you fill up these Tanks for long distance acceleration?

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