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In need of a clean,

Saving your pennies,

Never complain its not hard enough.

Wanna dance!

Hole in one.

Anyone for tennis!

I love a good laugh!

I just been out doing some retail therapy.

I just broke a nail

I love my toes sucked .

I just bought a new watch.

Am far from materialistic!!

I love tall guys, however I once fell for a guy the same height as me 5ft7.

Taurean, Romantic, loving, faithful with a tiny bit of stubborness but most of all a fantastic lover!

That just about sums me up

nosillA XX

Ive got a sore throat.

nosillA xx

KC & JO JO singing 'all my life'


nosillA xx

@ Olanajim

Thank you for your support , if you are married she is one very lucky lady.

nosillA XX

Im back home Allison x

I am drinking dandelion and burdock.

nosillA xx

I hate freeloaders.

nosillA XX

@bebe2007

Thank you , I have decided to let him go his own way. He sounds very similar to your guy, although he always replys to my text messages, maybe not straight away but he always replys. The thing is the romantic 'thingys' like the hugs and cuddles are very important to me. I know for sure there are a lot of guys who would love to be with a lady like myself, so until that guy comes along I will stay single and just enjoy my life.

@Zignor

I suppose you can say I have been a sitter for his son, and yes you could be right. But i was happy to do this for him and love his son like my own, because of the love I have for his father.

The more I think about the whole situation the more I realise I have been used for the last year.

You live and learn!!

nosillA xx

May 8th,

nosillA xx

@Olanajim

He said he felt married to his wifes parents as well as his wifes, and in the end they ended.
I pay all the bills etc as he moved in with me, we have talked about marriage but it was never a big issue which did suit the 2 of us.
I am 39 and he is nearly 32. I am white and he is Nigerian.

Bearing in mind he is working away Monday to Friday, I have asked him if I smother him to much with love and affection when he is home, he always says that no matter how much or how little affection he is give, he apprieciates it.

I know i have done everything possible to make the relationship work and therefore I do not feel any guilt for ending it, I feel very upset and hurt but I do not have any guilt.

I am a very loving, caring lady and hopefully one day I will be appreciated by a loving, caring guy.

Thank you for your pray Ola , I trust god to get me through this.

nosillA xx

Thanks Ziddy,

I think you have hit the nail on the head. I have decided to follow my head and end the relationship.
I am very upset but i know that its the only solution. I have to be happy myself instead of always making others happy.

nosillA xx (Miss young, free and single)

Im hungover

nosillA XX

We live together and have done since November, he has been married twice before and his son is from his first wife. My partner got custody of him. He says he shows his way in other ways, maybe I am blind and I cant see it, as I am the one who is at home all week keeping a happy home as well as running my own business. I ask him for nothing, I pay the bills etc.

The small things to me are love and affection, kisses and cuddles.
Money and material things dont mean anything to mean, all I want is for him to love me and show he loves me the way I love him.

I have told him how I feel and he says he finds it hard to do what i am looking for, I am a loving, loyal and honest person and would never ever hurt him intentionally, my life revolves around him. But I cant go on living with someone with the intention of marrying, if that person can't love me in a way that is normal.

Is it a culture difference or am i being taken for a fool?

My head really is in bits over this.

nosillA XX

Im I being selfish here or not,

My partner and I have been together now for over a year, on the whole things are good, however when it comes to love and affection it appears I am the one that is giving it all, dont get me wrong he never turns me away when I go to hug and kiss him, but does it make me a selfish person to want some love and affection from him first.

He says that I should accept any little bit of love he gives me no matter which way it is given, which I do except, but it makes me feel insecure that he never gives me the simple things like hugs and kisses first.

I am very independent and never need to ask him for money or material things, all I want is the simple things.

He works away all week and I see him weekends, he has a son who I look after when he is away, I do my very best to make our home a happy home and it is always clean and tidy.

Is it wrong for me to want some love and affection??


Thanks

nosillA xx

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