₦airaland Forum

calabar, !!!!!!!!!!!!

My job took me twice to calabar, first time i worked there for two years.Second time i worked there for 3 years.GUESS WHAT , AM YORUBA, i met and married my beloved wife there.She is EFIK (THE MAJOE CALABAR EHTNIC GROUP)

THE CITY IS PEACEFUL , CLEAN , CHEAP AND LOVELY, unusual for a Nigerian town.It is a play boys heaven - lovely girls , good at everything, i mean everything.Its also a place for the serious minded lover - Calabar girls love deeply , and will get serious with you if you are ready to be serious - very detribalised whan it comes to relationships.

Its serenity and peace is captivating , its social life is interesting but not as wild and expensive as Lagos.Its people still have an innocence and welcoming nature that is touching and disarming.

I FEAR, !!!, I FEAR, !!!, I FREAR - that the conversion of the area into an export processing zone and the TINAPA project will destroy its serenity and peace, turning it into an overcrowded , expensive, bustling and currupted city

I am proudly married to a Calabar lady, proud of my sons dual Nigerian heritage

Cleofel - just y do u think some pple hate ghanians here - can u tell me y you feel so - this forum is for all Nigerians and FREINDS OF NIGERIANS. Ghanians are more than freinds to us - they are our brothers - just tell me what makes you feel some ppl here hate Ghanians ??

2fine4u - ok u want mine - are you adventurous enough to call me

2fine4u, most gurls classyfy me as boyisly handsome - with a voice that is a replica of Barry whites voice - U WANNA HEAR MA VOICE JUST GIVE ME YOUR NO, ILL CALL U RIGHT NOW, BUT AM KIND OF SHY BOUT POSTING MA PIC- u got onion boty, cos i love that kind of booty

Ghana has always ben a close allay of Nigeria - i get along very fast with Ghanians AND Sierra leoneans compared to other africans.I have formed very strong bonds with many Ghanian guys.I tend ton understand Ghanians very quickly, and discover that they understand Nigerians too, Africa is a brotherhood, Ghaians and Nigerians are one of the closest in that brotherhood, simple !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2fine4u, do u have an onion booty, ??

Confessions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm confessions !!!!!!!!!!

Mamaput, its hard to forget a lady like you, you are always on my mind,

can we see more pics of gurls with breath taking beauty, ?

Mamapt - hi,

mamaput - it will really be nice to talk to u - ive always wanted to know u better

Mamaput - cell phone no ?? - ill give u a call right now!!!!! - ill love to hear the voice of that preety lady

mamaput - ive always told u am not one of those small boys on NL - YES I AM OVER 40 - IVE TOLD U THIS B4

mamaput - i wont mind dying after being in your  'paradise' - i still remember those sasy pics of you that i saw

Mamapt - how are u ?? - its ben a little while since i caught u online - i cant test positive to HIV , RIGHT NOW I KNOW AM NEGATIVE AND AM ALWAYS SOOOO CAREFUl

Am dead serious, where in Lagos can i get a flat to buy for about 4.5 million naira ??

Rhodalyn:
nobby nu, whassup??

Rhoda - am ok -

Aloib,

how are u - its been a long while since i caught u online

Morena:
I can speak from experience.

I'm a black woman and have dated my share of men. White, Pr, Cuban, Honduran, Mixed races,and black. I can honestly say for the new age of educated black women, that we expect more from our " men" no matter what race. UNFORTUNATELY, black men of today aren't up to par. They don't respect us because of our opinions and boldness. My personal view is that black men are attracted to what they can NOW get their hands on. The " untouchable ". They believe that they've accomplished something that says they can get a white woman, or any other race woman being a black man. But what then? Babies? Their " women" doing ALL the work to support them?And. . . what else?

On the other hand, black women are becoming more excepted into the business/mature/comfortable life. We look for some one who can run with OUR flow. They happen to be white/Spanish/ or another race. I myself am engaged to a PR/Italian men. I can honestly say that what attracts me to my honey is the way he treats me. He treats me like I'm a Queen. He loves my brown skin. My dark eyes. My personality. MY MIND, I have yet to see a black man feel that way towards us black women today.

I also believe that SOME black women are pissed off that white women are taking the " good ones". In acutality its HIS choice to not be with a black woman. They don't feel apprecitated by us black women because THEY DON'T COME UP TO PAR! Just because they share our skin color doesn't automatically grant them love. . . They need to be worthy of us. Value our opinions. Don't just f*ck us and leave us alone with children. Love our brown skin and our features. If they don't. . . forget them.

Black women need to get with the program and realize, we can't fix the way our black men are. We can't make them want us. We need to look for someone who loves us for US and our souls. NOT just because they share the same color skin. We B*tch and moan so much because MEN give us reasons to, but thats WHAT ALL WOMEN DO.

We're beautiful. Unique and in other places men LOVE US just because we're brown-skinned . I must admit, the pool of black men loving us black women is fading. . and fading. . and fading. . .SO just find love. No matter the race, but just the person.

Morena,

Blk men are not apar with thier women, ??, baby , just what do you mean by this, , that blk men are not achieving higher socoi - economic status at the same rate with thier women, ? - if thats what you are saying i disagree with you.JUST AS MANY SISTERS ARE MOVING UP THE ECONOMIC LADDER , MANY BLK GUYS ARE ALSO RACING UP.

As for blk men getting thier hands on the "untouchable" - i understand what you mean - but ill love to just remind you that men by thier nature are "curious hunters" - and just as many blk men may be sexually curious about wht women - many wht guys are sexually curious about blk girls. - its a "man thing" - i mean sexual curiousity - blk ,wht asian and rainbow coloured men all have this desire to "conquer unknown territory".

i understand THE FEELING - blk gurls feeling bad and jealous about us brothers going for wht gurls - but 90 percent of brothers still end up with blk sisters - 90 percent. ILL ALSO LIKE YOU TO KNOW THAT BLK GUYS FEEL JEALOUS ABOUT SEEING SISTERS WITH WHT GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saying wht guys "respect and value blk girls"- is a load of bull shit !!!!!!!!!!!!!! - most wht guys just want a piece of "blk ass" - for the adventure of it. Do you know the history of sexual exploitation of blk women by wht men in the slave era America, ?? - do you know how wht men plunder blk girls in Africa - exploiting the poorer socio economic status of blk girls to "lay" them, ??,. Do you know how ashamed many blk guys feel to see thier women flock around wht men like flies around shit in africa - ?? - just for a few dolars - most of these wht guys are expartrate workers in African nations - the go on rampage fucking blk girls who flock to them for hard currency.

How many wht guys would truly take a blk gurl home and introduce her as "my fiance" - some may , but i tell you most would be too ashamed - considering our women too inferior - considering that such a "union" - would be "embarassing" to thier families - but blk gurls are okay to them for " a casual lay" - and most of them consider blk gurls "cheap and easy" - eager to date "men from the master race" - baby girl - dont give me any fairy tale story of wht guys valueing blk gurls - look and feel the reality on the ground - the vast reality !!!!!!!!!!!!

racial prjudices still exist and run deep - morena - thats the truth - and blk guys are not abandoning thier women - i wont date a wht woman who wants to Bleep me in secret because she blives i have a big dick but is ashamed to be seen with me in public - BLK MEN ALSO LOVE THE FEAUTRES OF THIER WOMEN - WE ARE THE ONLY RACE THAT PRODUCES WOMEN WITH WONDERFULL FLESH IN THE RIGHT PLACES - IN PROPORTIONS AND CURVES THAT CAN MAKE ANY MAN DIZZY WITH LUST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WE LOVE OUR WOMEN - MORENA - WE MAY PLAY AROUND , SOME MAY MARRY WHT SISTERS - BUT WE LOVE OUR WOMEN AND 90 PERCENT OF US WILL ULTIMATELY SETLE DOWN FINALLY WITH A SISTER !!!!!!!!!!!