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johnwalex3:
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how much?

Millionjeff:
Bro.I need just one article for a review. Is one month now,no single job.I write attention grabbing article with detailed research. pls contact me @ gateforinformation@gmail.com.
Many thanks.

Pm sent.

INDESTRUCTABLEX:
Please I need help with 1 or 2 articles. Anyone interest should send me a pm.

Note: I will be paying directly to your Naira acct. Thanks

I can help you. Give me a PM if you don't see one from me.

ladywriter:
Contact the support desk.

Thank you.

ladywriter:
1. Open a free account on freelancer.com
2. Search for jobs in the marketplace
3. Place your bids
4. Get picked by the employer
5. Get paid
6. Withdraw your income into payoneer card
7. Withdraw your money from any mastercard ATM in Nigeria.

If you have questions get in touch with me on virtualassistprof@gmail.com

I need your help. I registered an account with Freelancer 2 years back but abandoned it. However, when I saw this thread, I decided to go back and update my profile. Right now, United Kingdom is automatically selected as my country of residence and I can't seem to change it. Do you know anyway I can change it to Nigeria or would it not affect me if I leave it like that?

Krysstie:
Hello,

You can get sites that accept guest writers by searching for 'guest post', 'write for us' or 'guest writers' on Google.

Also, visit listshrine.com and enterprisehack.com. If you're interested in the topics, you can apply to become a guest writer.
I hope that helps..

Thanks

Krysstie:
One of the most common Nigerian trend is for unemployed graduates to lament about sending out their CVs over a hundred times a month without getting a single feedback. They even curse the government for not giving them jobs.


http://houseofmo.com/diary-of-a-pretend-hr/

you said something about guest writing in your post which got my attention. do you know any person/website that need articles to be written by a guest writer without paying. if you do, kindly let me know. I want to do some pro bono work soon...

osina1414:
noted! u're welcome sir. few more students, n we'll kickstart

for those without a dom a/c, how will they receive payment when their site is sold?

Hello all... I'm a starlight in kwasu. If you are coming into economics dept, you can ask me any questions here.

quote author=CHARLYX9 post=35298361]i am telling you the fact and you are saying that am wishing you what if you can read from the beginning of the thread(1-58) you would see alota people saying that they are suffering from depression,schrizophenia,SAD,MD(mental disorder).continue bunch of hypocrites[/quote]

CHARLYX9:
awon chronic masturbators continue guys i promise you some of you would die of depression while some of heart attack and while some will suffer SAD,Schrizophonia,MD continue happy introverts

Wow!

Do not wish for others what you do not wish for yourself.

And thank you for the advice...

Has anyone read: How to read a book by Mortimer Adler or The Well Educated Mind by Susan Bauer?

On it...

You always like to spend time alone as you prefer to focus on your inner world. People may think your living style is boring but actually you enjoy yourself so much. You may not be shy, but you think having a few best friends is better than having a bunch of Facebook friends.

Share answer in F

Olarewajub:
what you wrote is quite conflicting with the information on BBC in respect to the Somalia war http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-14094503

Getting back might be a good idea. I have been so busy I find it difficult to update the diary...

And thanks for viewing...

Olarewajub:
Please continue what i just liked @ nurd

I haven't seen the like. Maybe you point that part out so I continue...

Meanwhile, blublahd has raised a vital issue. I think the discussion here should be multifaceted. Let's talk about books, current event in the world, particularly nigeria, work, education etc., to make this lounge more educative.

At this stage, we all know this is a gathering of introverts, so let's expand the scope of things we discuss.

Disneyboy:
can I join u

Ur welcome... lotta space to accommodate u...

Hello everyone.

Hope ur all enjoying your weekend. I plan to dedicate this weekend to reading. Probably some classics I've been wanting to read for some time.

iamayodeji:
Lemme start from your signature...Lol..
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Susan Cain is my female hero..she opened my eyes to a lot of mystery about the introvert world.
are you new on this thread? if yes, welcome home.

I have read that book like two times and still plan to re-read it. The part that gets me every time I read it is where Introverts are forced to develop and exhibit extrovert characteristics. One thing I hate and I'm still trying to hate it more is small talk. It just wastes my time and make me feel empty. And that is mostly what extroverted people want almost all the time. Such shame.

MarilynNash:
Good afternoon everybody, I have a little problem. I recently stumbled on an article on Social Anxiety Disorder, I know I'm an Introvert but I exhibit some SAD symptoms highlighted on the article like excess sweating, trembling, stammering e.t.c when I walk around school and when I'm with people I don't know, I thought it was normal Introversion stuff until that article and I'm worried because the effects of SAD are frightening, so I'd like to hear from other Introverts who may have this disorder. Shout out to abel14 and Bidexluv.

Sweating, trembling and particularly stammering does not really translate to having SAD. Maybe you are reading too much into the article and your own experiences. Sometimes when you worry about some things, you tend to read into other things that have a link to those things.

I do stammer and sometimes tremble when I'm talking with people, but I'm very normal. It happens a lot when I'm with strangers. What I do is to sit down, take a deep breath and stay in a relaxed state for a minute or two. After that, I'm back to normal. You can try that too. Just try to be yourself anytime you find yourself in such situation.

You should only worry if these things distrupt your daily activities or if they prevent you from achieving your goals.

[quote aauthor=angieberry post=35073688]Hello wallflowers,
So, I have a brief question. Does it ever happen to you that sometimes you don't feel like talking to anyone, you don't take calls, you don't reply messages, you just ignore everyone? I go through this phase sometimes, but it never lasts as long as I'm having it now. This is the seventh day.
I'm not depressed or sad or anything, but the thought of actually talking to someone irritates me or seems like a chore. I know it's a bad habit as people may have been trying to reach me to no avail but I can't just help it. Does anyone else experience this? How do I break this habit? Does it have anything to do with being a recluse?

Olarewajub can you answer?[/quote]i think this sometimes happen do to an event that has happened in the the past. i sometimes experience this. when im hurt by someone, i just try to break away from ppl for sometime. i think MOST introvert dont have the strength to hurt ppl, so when they are hurt, they try to withdraw from ppl.

however, since u stated that ur not sad or anything, it means u just chose be in that state. since its a thing of the mind, i advice you take action everytime you experience this.

just pick up your phone, call ur mum or dad or brother or sister, and tell them u have missed them. just brace up and reply those messages and cheer. thank God u know its a bad habit . so break it by reply those messages, calls, talk to ur family. JUST DO IT

My opinion...

hemor:
Is there anyone who has been able to overcome problem of maintaining conversation for long and stage fright? It'd be nice if you share how you were able to overcome that.


I think this should extend to every other common issues like being shy e.t.c. Instead of just sharing our problems we should also help ourselves overcome it. If the Op can rename the thread to Introverts support group I think that'd be better what do you guys think?

Practice is the best way to conqueur stage fright. try to create a situation where you can talk in front of people. your friends can help you in this. you can start with two of them and then move on. let me share two examples with you:

1. i had stage fright when i was in 100lv in school. fortunately, i was made classrep of a large course (ecn 101) and there are about five departments offering the course. every time i need to announce something, i will just climb the podium (despite being afraid to the point of shaking) and make the announcement with a shaky voice, and even sweating. i do this while face hundreds of faces, although ALWAYS SWEATING. I MAKE SURE I DO THIS WITH AS MUCH CONVIDENCE I CAN GATHER. However, with time and constant practice, i can not only face the crowd and talk, i can also deliver a tutorial to crowd. if you read QUIET by Susan Cain, you will find the same pattern.

2. last semester, i did a course and the lecture gave a group of us a topic to research and present. i was the leader of my group and was asked to present. what i did: when the doc to present was ready, i took home a copy and read it severally. when i got back to school, i asked my group to gather so presented to them twice or so. later, i presente to my close friends at the hostel and again at school. the result: i made a superb presentation on the DDAY.

MORAL: make sure u are well prepared (be very familiar with the topic you want to dicuss) and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, AND PRACTICE ONCE MORE

Hi all,

I think it's good being able to express myself freely here.

I remember my first experience at being an introvert: I was taken to a party when I was very young. At the end of the party, all members of my family were taking pics together and I was called to join. I just hid in one corner just staring blankly at them and refused to join them until it is time to go home. I hate parties (except if it is family party) as much as I hate taking pics.

I also remember the first time I presented in my class. Contrary to what I have read here, I actually wow the whole class taking applauds intermitently as I move on. I think being able to sit alone and plan, practice endlessly is part of what helped me.

I also enjoy the curious looks I get from people. They are probably wondering what I'm thinking... :p

im in