Special Egusi Recipe

Giddyperson:
Was there an accompanying recipe?

Unfortunately, no

Saw this on someone's page and saliva keeps filling my mouth but no strength to arrange it. Someone should please come to my rescue!!

barag:
Ma'am, please explain the porridge. I see chicken in the porridge. My understanding of porridge is either you mix a powdered cereal with liquid milk or mashed starch with powdered milk. Thanks in advance.

Hi. it's actually pottage although we call it porridge. pottage can be made with yam and other tubers with a mix of vegetables and fish, beef or chicken and other "medemede" .The vegetables r optional though. @jagugu88li

Oh! Pardon my grammar. I Neva new porridge and pottage are two different things

jagugu88li:
I trust we are welcome.

Ma'am, please explain the porridge. I see chicken in the porridge. My understanding of porridge is either you mix a powdered cereal with liquid milk or mashed starch with powdered milk. Thanks in advance.

It's not chicken, I didn't use chicken, It's stock fish (okporoko). I cooked it d way we cook yam porridge. As d plantain is boiling, I added my ingredients... seasoning cubes, salt, pepper, onion, stock fish, crayfish, redoil..then allowed it to cook for sometime then added vegetables (scent leave and utazi). I forgot to snap the end product.

Plantain porridge in the making
#pregnancy cravings.
I must eat it before I sleep.

Hanseel1:
"For better for worse"
"In sickness and in health"
"In poverty and in wealth"

BTW this story is fake.

U think I will just sit down and manufacture a fake story? I ve been following nairaland as a visitor for a long time and I've seen how people get help on daily basis. So if I seek for help, my story becomes fake? Mchw

austyn0:
If this was an ordinary lovers relationship it would have been easier,, this is your marriage,, a lifetime submission....Dear,, you gotta call on God, day in day out,, He is the number 1 solution,, then you can talk to your husband about your worries,, it appears you haven't done that,, it's wrong to bring it here whereas you haven't reasoned the issue with your husby. Finally,, seek counsel from relationship experts.

I have talked to him severally, each time we talk about how he hurts me, he becomes so emotional, proclaiming love to d moon and Jupiter and how he's gonna change bla bla bla. I ain't seeing the change

chigoizie7:
That is your family problem, deal with it

I am dealing with it SIR

DrinkLimca:
You gave him your virginity because you was young and naive..

He cheated on you, he apologies and you accepted him back..

He still cheats on you, yet you got married to him..

Sorry op but i think you are old now but still naive..

It's like the love is only from you because you cannot love a lady and constantly cheat on her..

He don't love you..

my advice to you is to dumb him and save your self from stress all because of a cheating man..

Forget about the marriage, you cannot be in a marriage that is sucking your life gradually..

Your marriage is like tramadol drug, it is gradually taking your wellbeing unknowingly..

Don't worry, in no time, a good loving guy will love you totally.

There are still good guys out there, while settle for a cheat?

DrinkLimca:
You gave him your virginity because you was young and naive..

He cheated on you, he apologies and you accepted him back..

He still cheats on you, yet you got married to him..

Sorry op but i think you are old now but still naive..

It's like the love is only from you because you cannot love a lady and constantly cheat on her..

He don't love you..

my advice to you is to dumb him and save your self from stress all because of a cheating man..

Forget about the marriage, you cannot be in a marriage that is sucking your life gradually..

Your marriage is like tramadol drug, it is gradually taking your wellbeing unknowingly..

Don't worry, in no time, a good loving guy will love you totally.

There are still good guys out there, while settle for a cheat?

He makese me feel he loves me even up till now. nothing really changed as regards to how he treats me.Dat is confusing me....how can he treat me like a queen and yet cheat on me.
I'm currently 3months pregnant for him

My dear nairalanders, greetings to you all.
Please I will want to know if it is possible to love someone unconditionally without Trusting him.

I met this guy in my days at the University, I was so young and naive, I didn't really understand love then. But we became close friends, inseparable, and eventually became lovers. He took my innocence. I was so comfortable with him to the extent that I believed he wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
I found out that he cheated on me. I was really hurt, but I forgave after he apologized promised it won't happen again. But then he had shattered the trust I had for him. It made me become curious, always wondering what he is doing when we aren't together.
Fast forward to today. We go married last December, and I'm trying to build back dat trust I had for him cos I love him, but it ain't working out cos he is still cheating. D problem is that I love dis guy, I ve tried to ignore his unfaithfulness, but I can't. I don't know if I can continue loving him without Trusting him.
I don't wanna scatter our marriage at dis early stage.

Plz advice is needed. Cos he's killing me softly inside.