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You have all right and justification to get angry at all of them.

Remember! You can't achieve anything without the mercy and grace of God, most especially the love of God.

You need to reciprocate the mercy, grace and love God bestowed on you back to them.

This is very hard to do, but you still need to do it for the sake of their creator.

You don't deserve the position you are today by virtue of the circumstances that befell you but mercy took you there.

Do what is in thy power to do for them all, if God grant you the grace.

God is respecter of nobody, whatsoever one plants shall he reaps.

Brother! Start planting good seed now.

My advice: call the child back and apologize for how you spoke to her/him because just like you, you don't know where he/she can get to.

Assist him/her in your capacity.

God will continue to help you

You can stop masturbating. In fact, you are in the process of stopping it.

You had taken the first step by exposing it.

Now, count your losses for the time being, that is, all the things, it had stolen from you and the blockage it had erected.

Masturbation always destroy one's life gradually or terminate it eventually.

Give your life totally to Jesus Christ, He will guide you.

Next thing you need to do is to develop very strong and growing Love for God.
The love for God will always retrace your steps back to God.

This last step is very powerful because it requires a sealed heart. It's that point where you make that decision and statement of ' if I die, I die '.

This stage requires making a Vow with God. You must understand what a vow means before during it.

Masturbation is evil and spiritual. When masturbating, it open your life for any agent of darkness (demons) to stroll in.

It's very easy for any demon to enter in but not easy for them to go out. But, if you follow these steps, you will overcome:

* Expose the demon ( e.g the demon of masturbation )

* Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior

* Love God with all your heart

* Make a vow to God. Note, the must understand the condition of a vow.

May God help you in Jesus name. Amen