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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by samwillyco1: 6:10pm On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

Wickedness ooooo
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by gwininfo(m): 6:15pm On Sep 16
mine is about 15 years of severe addiction......i am always wishing I could stop
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by samwillyco1: 6:17pm On Sep 16
Mine was even more than that, get yourself a good girl and be fucking her hard, but get the one you like in case of pregnancy, don't forget to go for a medical checkup with her before banging her and pray she will be having sex alone with you

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by aminu114: 6:17pm On Sep 16
stop feeling guilty accept the fact that u are a masturbator but u will control how often you do it. then u will stop it but now that u are so depressed and frustrated about it i swear you cant even go 2days without it JUST RELAX AND ACCEPT IT START ONE ONE DAY INTERVAL MASTURBATE TODAY DONT TOMORROW KEEP GOING LIKE THAT FOR ATLEAST A MONTH THEN START 2DAYS INTERVAL WITHIN 6MONTHS TIME IF YOU DIDNT STOP IT COMPELETELY YOU WILL REDUCE IT TO THE LOWEST

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Aplaudez(m): 6:19pm On Sep 16
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro

Are you married?? If yes, how many kids now?
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Pharaoh94(m): 6:24pm On Sep 16
Chat up this line on whatsapp, they can help you with your addiction. 07058890113. It's an organisation that help people with this kind of issues.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by OA01: 6:41pm On Sep 16
You can stop masturbating. In fact, you are in the process of stopping it.

You had taken the first step by exposing it.

Now, count your losses for the time being, that is, all the things, it had stolen from you and the blockage it had erected.

Masturbation always destroy one's life gradually or terminate it eventually.

Give your life totally to Jesus Christ, He will guide you.

Next thing you need to do is to develop very strong and growing Love for God.
The love for God will always retrace your steps back to God.

This last step is very powerful because it requires a sealed heart. It's that point where you make that decision and statement of ' if I die, I die '.

This stage requires making a Vow with God. You must understand what a vow means before during it.

Masturbation is evil and spiritual. When masturbating, it open your life for any agent of darkness (demons) to stroll in.

It's very easy for any demon to enter in but not easy for them to go out. But, if you follow these steps, you will overcome:

* Expose the demon ( e.g the demon of masturbation )

* Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior

* Love God with all your heart

* Make a vow to God. Note, the must understand the condition of a vow.

May God help you in Jesus name. Amen

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ALEX182: 6:42pm On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

This is the worst advice I have ever seen.

The very worst.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ALEX182: 6:43pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Your problem is idleness not masturbation.

Lazy yoots

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Klechman(m): 6:47pm On Sep 16
Jesus �
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Apktotheworld: 7:05pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.
OP lemme tell you something ehn. You need to stop seeing masturbation as a sin against God. Rather, decide to not do it on the basis of sheer morality and deep seated resolve. I Stopped since March and its September already man. Didn't factor in any religious or spiritual help to it. The moment you begin to realize that maturbation is like every act which when done perpetually becomes a habit and is difficult to jettison, the sooner your solution approaches. For me, I made a register which I firmly resolved to tick in the negative every day since March and it's worked for me. Finally OP, drop the notion of girlfriend solving the problem and also realize the fact that you have the will over it. Bless you bro.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Onelove508: 7:09pm On Sep 16
[quote author=QDubz post=93987430]Man wish we could talk more privately, been down this pit before and very well understand your fears and pain...
You need to stop counting the number of days you've been off masturbation cause it constantly keeps your mind on the act itself.
Your lack of erection/gf is caused by extreme self doubt, low self 'estimation', lack of confidence and low testorone due to jacking off often.
I could suggest some books that helped and some tricks I can't share here lol... But fact is, all this wouldn't work if you are not ready to take action.

I'm interested please.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Christiano25(m): 7:27pm On Sep 16
Kindly add me please
lightangel65i:


You need to join my empowerment group, getting rid of your sexual urges as a man is a step towards a better life, it may be hard for you now, but when its gone its a blessing
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Kriss001(m): 7:32pm On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided

It's simple,you just have to try to skip it regularly,for instance try not to do it daily and don't force it OK,anytime you fall for it,just do it and afterwards continue with the plan which is to stop doing it regularly.Also try not to think about negative things OK
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Firstandonly: 7:32pm On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
read one of my topic on "how where u able to stop ur addiction" people shared some encouraging advice there
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007: 7:44pm On Sep 16
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
u say what Can u hear urself very well
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007: 7:47pm On Sep 16
Until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it. i repeat, until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it. u are a slave to the demon of masturbation

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by johngreatogah: 7:49pm On Sep 16
Download "Claws of Masturbation" by Akande Olatunji Moses and thank God that you did.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joseb007: 7:49pm On Sep 16
samwillyco1:
Mine was even more than that, get yourself a good girl and be fucking her hard, but get the one you like in case of pregnancy, don't forget to go for a medical checkup with her before banging her and pray she will be having sex alone with you
you are trying to compound his case
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Abouwaza(m): 7:52pm On Sep 16
Chii59:

Wow!!!
Don't tell me you don't too
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Joshdboss: 7:56pm On Sep 16
Joseb007:
Until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it.
i repeat, until u become angry with the demon of masturbation, u can't stop it.
u are a slave to the demon of masturbation
Exactly. Dats wat I said before. It's like some of these guys don't know this thing has a stubborn demon behind it. Make God open una eye small.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chibuzorAbia: 8:20pm On Sep 16
Rubbish!!!!!!!

I have been doing it for forty (40) years and I am PROUD of it.

It has a lot of advantages!!!

And the satisfaction is just as intense and deeper than sex with a woman. And no woman on this planet can mess with your head or use you for money.

It is fabulous!!!

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by donifez(m): 8:37pm On Sep 16
GreenKalada:


I have masturbated for over 30 years and so what I have a wife and 2 beautiful kids already...Did anything happen to me?? Mumu Nigerians!!

I think it makes one not last when having sex?
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by budebanty: 8:38pm On Sep 16
My bother, you will sure come out of it... what you will do now is to start listening to REFLECTIONS with Mark on Maxfm 102.3 Lagos. You will be glad you did because that is going to be the end of your problem. However, if you are not in Lagos download the app. Just make sure you listen to the program. Everything 4a.m Monday to Friday. Peace

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Emmaomotob(m): 8:42pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
I don't even listen to such. No one can come up and tell me mastubation is not a problem .its demonic and its evil
Fool

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by TexZy6562: 8:43pm On Sep 16
Mr.man is only jesus that wil deliver you. cee knel down and pray jesus is the answer
Don't allow anybdy 2 deceiv u pls. ma own was 14 good yrs JESUS IS THE SECRET IF U LIKE
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Dueprince(m): 8:44pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.
this is what i have to say, first one step you have to take in order to quit, is that you have to feel guilty always when ever this urge comes and to know all the consiquences which come with it, those physical harm which you have experience since u have being doing it, this will help also. Then you have to pray evertime, you have to restrict your self from internet for long time because even if ur mind wont be there, when online. once u are there u may tend to visit the site.
Always keep your self busy pray always, pray against spirit of masturbation and lust, pray for spirit of control to come upon you because when you get outside you see them and lust. that is why u should also pray for the whole armor of God to come upon you and you will see the hand of God in your life. Avoid sleeping late this will also give you time to lust. and avoid flooding your mind with lustful things.
Bad company currupt good character so avoid bad company to avoid hearing rotin words that will stimulate your lust and you be be delivered . Pray for direct deliverance from above bless you.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by PrettyNengiBBN: 8:45pm On Sep 16
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Diffen: 8:50pm On Sep 16
Worry no more, brother. The fact that you have accepted it's evil and crying out for Deliverance , everything becomes easy.
I will recommend a few testimonies books that have rescued thousands of people from any kinds of sexual sin.
✓ Life in Gene- Ah - Kingdom by Opeyemi Akintunde .
✓ Freedom from Masturbation by Dr John S. Balogun
✓ The Destiny Polluter : Pornography by Great Omole
✓ Repercussion from Sexual Sins by Frank Hammond
✓ Overcoming Sexual Immorality by Bill Rudge

And so many others. Try and get one of them especially that no 1. They are all in downloadable format.free .
We're waiting for your testimony. Shalom.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gentlebuka(m): 8:53pm On Sep 16
Ghost8889:
Many people are addicted to masturbating, I am addicted to it also...

The whole masturbation thing started when I was around 10, I felt like it's some kind of terrible sin or disease the first time that I did it — and I promised God to never repeat it again, but no matter how I try, It never worked angry...

Now my problem is not only the masturbation stuff — but for the fact that I couldn't keep the promise I made to God...

I am so depressed now to the extent that if you are to give me a chance — I would choose to never been in existence undecided

If you have stopped masturbating, please tell me how you did it smiley, tell me what worked out for you please undecided
Around 15th September 2018, I posted my own story here on nairaland (with a deleted account). Just like you, I was desperate for a cure and I got one. Someone here recommended me a webiste called Nofap. God bless that man for me, I will never forget him (though I don't remember his name). I joined the website and since then (exactly 2 years and 1 day today), I think I've only beat my meat twice. Join the website and be dedicated to the goal, you'll come out a greater person. You might find some of my posts littered around that website. I go by the username I-am-the-greatest on Nofap. My posts there might help you. Goodluck
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by biggy26: 9:00pm On Sep 16
lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.
Not a good advice, he isn't a sex offender. He needs all his homones intact, not artificially suppressed.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Tillatalk: 9:00pm On Sep 16
izuswift:

Masturbation is demonic.
This three videos will help you break free. Trust me!
The videos helped me.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gN3yrv-fIII


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ocB-npVNjs
this man videos changed my Life completely

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