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Abati dey shy to rock this him beautiful wife, abi e need help

Not having the will to leave a relationship that drains you.
Not realizing you are the prize

tunapawizzy:
Victimhood undermines the strength of argument. You sef read weytin u dey always write/type here, always framing issues as “they’re all out to get women” no solid evidence just sounding needlessly paranoid instead of powerful. Rage is valid, but unstructured rage weakens credibility.
As usual, your claims are sacred, so you can now go ahead and get this comment hidden to preserve your ego and have your logic appear unchallenged. Then go on another spree, manufacturing tales of misogyny with your uncontrolled misandry.

hold the weyrey for neck, choke am with sense

DiarisGodoo:
If it were only as straight forward as it appears to you. Life happens and before you know it you're caught up in the same wheel that caught others - the same thing you swore will never happen to you!

We were also on the other side
we have experienced it, we were indebted
we toiled, we laboured, we are not the biggest
earner and we are not living paycheck to paycheck, hasnt stopped us from living a quality life too
If you're waiting for me start living paycheck to paycheck, you go wait tire.
Here's why, I have no problems lowering my living cost if income drops. And yes it's no problem for me if standard of living drops too.
I have bo problems building slowly and steadily.
I follow my timeline, I no care who dun buy Bentley or Lambo before me.

ariesbull:
Why contradiction...you said 98% at the begining and at the last you said Pepe wey dey that table no plenty ....

Are you a RONUIST?

You read faster than you comprehend.

At the begining I said 98% of people wey japa will not be doing better if them still dey naija.
At the end I said people wey follow crowd who may have regrets now, no plenty.

Relax,
drink water.
Breathe in,
breathe out,
now read again and slowly this time
Do you get the gist now

The only regret about moving abroad is that it didn't happen earlier than when it happened.

98% of Nigerians wey japa go UK US and Canada will definitely not to better than they are doing if dem dey Nigeria.
Nigerians just like to complain,
-person wey dey earn 300k monthly salary for Nigeria go dey complain say e no get pass 300 pounds monthly savings/investment for UK.
-person wey dey spend 2hrs on d road to go from him house in ikorodu to office in Lekki every morning go reach UK dey complain say rent is much in London, and he cannot stay far away and drive 1hr to work everyday.


The only people with regrets about moving abroad are the people that didn't appreciate what God gave them in Nigeria and just decided to japa because it looks cool and abroad pictures dey enter their eyes. And people wey dey on that table no plenty.

Regina hanging out with another married woman that is putting in the work and sacrifice to keep her marriage intact, see the way she dress beautifully like a well brought up girl. If na Tonto dikeh she follow comot, u sef go see the difference, u go see all the breast and outside.
sheep wey follow dog waka go chop shit. See Annie idibia wey dey hang with toke makinwa. Tiwa savage

Nigerian politicians and policy makers have their children in the US they are training b with stolen money.
Nigerian politicians and policy makers go for medical in the US

They will find a solution and do what Ttump wants them to do before u count 1 to 10

No honour in this Elrufai family, from father to children, to mother.

GanagiBitrus:
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Seun and his mods be like , wonderful!!! Who is this demon

una wan kill them by force, this is what happens when you employ people based on quota and not competence and excellence

Soludo, Alex otti, Uzor Kalu, Arthur Eze, Cubana Chief Priest, even the real Cubana(many more) all supporting Tinubu for second term, but na Femi for nairaland, Yetunde for twitter, Bolaji for facebook una dey hate for working against Igbo presidency. ori n ta gbogbo yin

tunjijones:
It's better you keep quiet and walk away than this rubbish you are saying!

The governor is just saying gibberish.

He is saying the bitter truth. When it gets to your turn, and you are sure of victory, go and contest under a party where technicalities can be used to nullify your victory.

ttaiwo09:
Oooops what a justification

I am not a fan of ApC and I hate that all these guys are jumping ship to a party that has impoverished Nigerians but let's tell ourselves the truth, PDP is in disarray, if you contest under PDP, even if you win 99% of the votes, the risk of you getting disqualified based on technical grounds is high.
Like he rightly said, imagine the courts coming to say your form was signed by a party executive that should not be a party executive in the first place, so ur election becomes nullified.

havilla:
There is a high chance of divorce if you marry her at this age, she isn't fully matured, she may resent you later and feel you are not the kind of man she wants when she is older and understands herself better

While i agree woth you that she may not be fully matured, I disagree with you that she will resent him later. Omotola Jalade got married to her husband when she was 18, her husband was 30 I think.
Regina got married her grandfather at what age again, even with the man marrying another woman, regina still dey show happiness-even who are we to call it a facade. Who are we to assume what she is not showing.
I am struggling to remember a naija babae that married a muh older man who she was 18 and suffered a troubled marriage

We keep telling g you it's the rich and privileged versus others, nothing like yoruba vs igbo, una no go hear... any yoruba name u see na to dey abuse am, any igbo name u see na to dey attack....
Even if obi daughter marry tinubu son, una no go still know say na political elite vs others

Hopefully the igbos on nairaland and social media can see who their real problems are, not the gbenga or tinuke you keep abusing and attacking on nairaland.

Gerrard59:
While the rest of the post are largely on point, it's hard to have an unmarried woman follow a man's rules simply because she has his (their own anyway) child. In such a case, surrogacy is the best option for the man or a contracted agreement between both parties to part ways after having children since they would rather remain single in the long term.

You're right on that

In 2027, once again the election will be won by APC and it will be because of the oppositions inability to coalesce.

1bunne4lif:
In your article you deliberately put the names of the two easterners in front even though their names aren't top on the list.
I pity any Igbo man who takes this government serious.
The government is using the south east to catch fun

The south east political leaders are selling out the entire South east for political alliance.

All I know is that as long as obi and atiku are contesting separately, then it's tinubu till 2031,and after 2027 the next possibility of a better Nigeria can start in 2039. And it's going to be harder than it is now, imagine how they get away with anything and everything in 2025. Then you give them the next 14 years to consolidate this dominance.

This man is running away with 2027 already and its so sad.

no be you go tell 2baba which of them dey dive am peace

Emeskhalifa:
Software dev in 6 months abi?
Ok o

leave am make e dey whine them

Hisroyalbadmeat:
Ndi feminist are coming for Man of God,

Feminists no get energy to comment again, husband scarcity dun overwhelm them, na d few young ones wey never see life still dey talk. The older ones are busy swiping on dating sites, no time to comment on nairaland