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SirJeffry:
I did and I think I've replied sir.
okay, have replied you sir

If i stop to gym, then my stomach will protrude when am married, i guess man have to stay fit.

Cc: SirJeffry kindly check ur Pm

please urgent GRE textbook is needed anyone with information on where it can be purchased here in lagos or kwara state should please kindly drop the address or contact

well well, this is a rational post trying to butress the fact that 'sometimes' people (male and female) sway away and let their emotions, habits take over which are the reasons for domestic violence.

An elder who is very gentle, married a good wife too, but the woman doesn't know when to stop when she's angry. Over the years they've been good together and but any slight misunderstanding the wife is on rampage. The man has been coping until one day, they had a misunderstanding the man was trying to walk out, the woman blocked the way, kept pushing him, pushing till the man gave her a slapped her and pushed her away, she said she never expected it.

So most times our actions determine what's coming next, no sane man will love to violate his wife. I never ever support domestic violence for once, infact patience is the key but the truth is like the OP said everyone has a limit

yomi007k:

U knw one thing. A smart guy really doesn't need anyone to tel him a lady is fake.

And if d lady changes, u sef change am for am. No time!

lolz... bahd guy

i wish a lady is here to share her experience

yomi007k:

Some ladies actually do...dey use reverse psychology on d family n tell dem dt dey will be held responsible if dey dont get a suitor ...n dy can cite cases of females dey know.

but the mom will always tell the guy 'ni kini, she will still show her behavior ' that she's just doing the initial good gal stuff

yomi007k:

Yes..ur right...not all ladies from there may be bad but der r certain tribes I cannot date even wtout advise cos of info I hv about dem. Pls dont be blinded by love.

For example if u go to mbaise to marry, dude u will pay tru ur nose. Pls go n confirm. I knw a dude dt was ruined by ds act, he was warned but ignored.

lolz..... i pity the guy
but why is that the Ladies of nowadays(not all tho) can't do something to redeem the beliefs people had about the parts they came from

yomi007k:

A lady who is hausa or raised in d north wud hv different character from one raised abroad.

D former may be submissive n prefer u handle all responsibility in d house while d later may wear a mask of feminism n do tins independently.


.... Not dt any is bad but u need to knw ds n knw how to tackle each case.

I agree with you but not totally, lets take naija ladies for instance, an average yoruba guy would have been warned not to bring ibo gal home at one time or the other cos of few experience they've had, does it now mean all ibo gals are bad?

Or not to go out with gals from one particular part cos of what they did in the past, does it now mean we can't get a good lady from there??
did you get the logic?

yomi007k:



Yea...my mum asked me d same even up till her mother's name.....


Well, I guess dey wana research n find out if d family is a good one.


Correction- there is correlation between where she is from n her character sometimes.

correlation like what cos that's the part i don't get

Most times our mothers do ask this popular question 'where is she from' whenever they meet any lady with their son. These happens with guys a lot especially if you are from the west.
Personally i don't really see the connection between where she is from and her character but they always do. So i just wonder cos sometimes they are right tho

Acidosis:

The older generations are as corrupt as the present day generation.

Everything we do today, we learnt from the oldies. If grannie had tattoos, it doesn't make it right for you the grand child.

If we all decide to pick everything our forefathers did, then we are in for bigger troubles. What I will say is, while some people are trying to correct their father's mistakes by living rightly, a lot more are so insensible that they fail to understand the time.

As an individual, if your forefather was so reckless with se.x giving birth and marrying wives on a local government basis, you as a son needs to correct that.

in as much as i don't know you I'll have to agree with you. Cos my grandfather was from a royal family so he has like 45grandchild till his death decade ago. Now as a grandchild i can't go all out and have multiple offsprings cos its detrimental.
Now you can't even have a second wife, with your first wife not putting up a fight with you coupled with family members. But then as a man you can take up wives as many as you can.
In essence am saying 'somethings' that are allowed then are not allowed now while somethings that are kept at bay then have crossed the line now.

well the way we reason differs... have seen a married man that is doing a lot worse than the one OP said

Zikavirus:

Werey, i dey tell u something u no won Gree...

you wan make ogun kill you abi....phone ti mo she ra lai pe

intelligent and matured people needed please.... it must have happened to few guys before

recently purchased a gionee phone marshmallow and its giving me serious issues when am about to install an application. It will say turn off screen overlay go to settings>apps. After turning all off its still not installing. Now all other apps like whatsaap yaff join bad gang.

tayo60:

So was it a crime for d man to av bent down like dt to pick an item? How is dt ur fucking business? U posted his pic so as to laugh at him? Pele o, Iwo ajebota. And people like u don't even worth anything. Mother fucker!:



hehe! ebu reeee....eyin buru o lolz

I believe in God cos He's saved me many times I can barely recall......stick to your beliefs, in the afterlife we shall know and see the truth

with the kind of signs and wonders we see day to day there's no reason to doubt the existence of God...
For someone like p.diddy to say we go through somethings so as to value our life as a precious gift from God while he was on the sick bed. Because I believed one way or the other he might have doubted God because of the kind of life they live but I believe most know the truth.

keep my cake o....happy birthday gal

TrapQueen77:


Ur doing it the wrong way..

If u wanna leave some bruises.. Give her the right stroke.. Coz that bruises will leave her mind go gaga and plead u for more bruises


this moniker sef....her comments de everywhere
you for say make him try left stroke na...lolz

obinna58:

Which scripture or are u talking about bible written by ur fellow being claiming its from unexisting God

I said u must not quote me



must you reply to the thread...to every replies there is option for quoting

TrapQueen77:

Shaking like whaaaaaaat?
Always remember " The dog that barks, doesn't bite"


hain!!!! which dog....come and try my McQueen, waa mo lara e

how are we sure she didn't bleep her way to the top....
#justsaying

I'll go for the poor too but I thought rich man(not all) is fond of having extramarital child



cc: Lalasticlala

Earlier, we were discussing about the everyday increase in population in Nigeria and the influence family has In It with the high birth rates we have nowadays and a topic was raised...

who bleep the most the rich or the average or the poor??

NevetsIbot:

especially to mum.

"arrrrrgh, mummy, you put your phone on silent and you're complaining that it's not ringing out.


Ooooooh, your battry is dead, that's why your phone is off na''


mummies and phone isshh especially when she's using android mehn I no get that patience

mengho:

Do you have any idea how annoying it is to keep telling some1 the same simply thing over and over again ,

its just because we already do those things extremely easily, so we find a person who can do it extremely annoying.

''oh my God, cant you just press the Break, its right there..''

lolz.....I know that feeling, but I guess you're right about how easy it is and not for some

was gisting with my friends and this question was raised....why do we guys(not all) like to shout, yell, insult, joke or almost knock our siblings, cousin or even friends as the case maybe when teaching them how to drive.

Xensity:

You seem to have a skewed understanding of destiny, one that suggests that every human was created to attain a certain kind of conventional success in a particular field of life, and failure to attain this success, is sort of an unfulfillment of destiny. Did it ever occur to you that some people's destiny could be to die young or to die conventionally unfulfilled?

Let me use an example. We are living in this relatively war-free, post modern era because the world has sort of achieved a kind of peace and unity that was only made possible by the events that proceeded from the aftermath of the 2nd world war. But for the second world war to have ended the way it did, millions of people had to die. Couldn't you say that the destiny of those people that died was that they would die the way they did so that the war would end the way it did?

Let use your friends as an example. Let's say a couple of hours from now, an attractive and well to do male Nairalander sees this post, clicks on your profile and develops an attraction towards you. Two weeks later, he sends you a pm and you guys become friends. A month later, the both of you meet offline and develop an intimate relationship. Years later the two of you get married. Clearly, creating this thread was what led to you meeting this guy. And also, obviously, marrying him was your destiny, going by your understanding of destiny. But for you to have created this thread, your friends had to die. Would you then say that their death was a necessary antecedent to the achievement of your destiny? If this is so, was it their destiny to die at this particular time?

My problem with the this whole concept of destiny, is that people fail to realize that our present state, is a product of a plethora of prior causes, and what we are now, is a result of millions of random events that have happened in the past. At every second of our lives, we have achieved a universal state that can be classified as the achievement of our destiny, since destiny is basically our purpose on earth, which shouldn't be limited to one or few, because everything we do, and every decision we make, affects our world one way or another, and influences the destiny of others. So, at this very moment that I am typing this, I have fulfilled my destiny, and whatever I do after this, is still a fulfillment of my destiny. In my opinion, if destiny exists, then we fulfill it ever millisecond of our being.


wow! you've said it all

Akposb:

No rest man and things are only going to become not too easy. It is a known fact but a simple advice, take life as a daily affair.


will sure do