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DivineKayy:
Here is the direct link to apply-
https://careers.peopleclick.eu.com/careerscp/client_standardbankgroup/external/gateway.do?functionName=viewFromLink&jobPostId=47406&localeCode=en-us

Thanks

NaturalNerd:
Abeg while filling the form on my phone, towards the end I saw something like: "Click to write question 1" "Click to write question 2" and "Click to write question 3".

I clicked on "Click to write question 1" and went on to click on next. Omo the thing just submitted my application o.

What did the "click to click to" mean? Is there actually something there that I missed? Or bad network? Did you experience same or is a village people something?

please give me the link to apply

please I need the link to apply, help a brother plsssssssssss

Beverly1:
Rule 1 of any relationship is never get too emotionally attached to any girl that u can't afford to loose her...and in anything, always pray for the best and expect d worst...I know most time when we experience love in a relationship, something swiftly attached u and makes u feel u can't survive without it anymore...

Op I guess this is Ur first serious date, imagine people who experienced that kind of love u felt for 7yrs and still break up...yours is just 1+yrs......even married couple struggles....

Olori wuraola left Oni not because he's not rich but because holes are not just meant to be loyal.breakup is part of any relationship.

Just get another girl even though u no like am...
. replace ur ex number with her's....talk to her often...transfer d feelings to her and remember the rule1.....
Focus on Ur carrier ... struggle to be successful,be disciplined and love will find u not u finding love again.....

thank you so much, believe me I've moved and all thanks to God on my new job, it keeps me busy all day

Queencess1:
pay no attention to whatever she is pleading for.. I gues she heard abt ur success..

hahahaha, okay ma!

please any news from stanbic?

she has started begging me again, promising to get back my love for her with the last drop of her blood, she has even started uploading my name as her status on whatsapp but I'm definitely not gonna be fooled this time around, I got a good job last week and i obviously don't need such human being in my life again, I really appreciate y'all for your wonderful counsels, it really helped me a lot, God bless y'all

Queencess1:
good

thanks for your candid advice, I appreciate

Queencess1:
I really knw hw u felt...
U jst need to be focused first

she's a forgotten issue now, I no send am again

my people i finally got a job oooooo, a very good one

Zhahovic:
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Bro...I had a similar experience to yours but I had to just let her go..
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Imagine...some women can lie right in your face.. it's quite shocking.....best friend indeed...
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That's how my ex was dating a guy and she kept saying he was her family friend...and she had over 15 of his pix on her phone....
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Additionally... she always defends the guy like a tigress..
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Bros end the relationship and move on with your life...
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Its very tough...but time will heal u

thanks Bro, I've already taken the bull by the horn and I'm healing faster than i imagined

AjahAgility:
You may want to read this man @ https://www.nairaland.com/3980433/trying-repair-relationship-when-time

just did, thanks

Nma27:
Call off the relationship. Block and delete. No woman will take u seriously if u exhibit weakness. You didn't come into dis world for one human to mess with ur emotions... Life is short so do things that brings last joy to u.

thank you so much, I appreciate

NwaAmaikpe:


Dont make me weep,
Please take away Arochuwkwu from there.
The glory of that land has vanished like the Ibinu Ukpabi.

It's easier to travel to Libya through the desert by foot than to use your car to reach there.
The roads have been neglected by government after government.
From OUK, to T.A to Ikpeazu...such a shame.

The Eze Aro is a weakling;
A figurehead and a disgrace to educated monarchs.
Sen. Mao Ohuabunwa is a curse.

Arochukwu's relevance declined after the death of Eze Vincent Oji and Mary KANU.

Aro Okeigbo nma ma.
Ori ihe ori ihe!

Nwa maazi chineke ma agozi gi

Lordapson23:
No sweats bro, I'm sure u saw my direct reply to ur post.. Just make it one step at a time man, u gon' be alright..

thanks boss

Lordapson23:
You have a point but trust me when I say it's not as easy as you make it seem cause if it were, i trust he'd have let go of her without thinking about it twice or even having to bring up the issue on here, but u can't really conclude someone is weak when it comes to emotions cause we all AV different kinds of hearts, the most important thing is not to fall for the wrong person.. Although the nigga in questions sounds weak for real and girls ain't really worth it, once u make it obvious to them that ur survival depends on their existence, then u're in for the worst shit of ur life.. Witches!

thanks brother, believe me I'm really working on that "weak" part of me, thanks once more for your advice

Khallyella:
Rule no 1..
Never promise a girl marriage no matter how serious the relationship is..
Rule no 2..
Never, I repeat ,Never cry in front of a GIRLFRIEND

If you get out of this toxic relationship alive, don't carry out your revenge on the next girl, be cool with her and set your rules , once she breaks any.. Dump her ass

Girls detest weaklings! ..
Your current girl is the kinda girl that'll start stalking you when you've moved on to the next girl..

thanks a lot

i really thank y'all for the wonderful advice, I'm so happy i'm finally moving on, I know I'd surely be fine soonest

nickvanilla:
If she's behaving like this now how would she behave when you're married to her. Use your number six man. That girl even seems to be bidding her time to call it quits on you. Keep your distance from her. Show her less care and attention. If she doesn't come around but decides to blackmail you emotionally, dump her!

thanks brother !

agrovick:
Op sef, you need to get your sh.it together.

A part of me is hoping you don't get a job until after you've totally purged yourself of the snake cos at this rate you having a bit of spending power means you are likely going to try to compete with the Custom Bobo for the snake's attention.

Throw the hoe to the gutter and stand your ground

lolz, I need a job joor, thanks brother for your advice

Sapiosexuality:
Why do we keep making these mistakes? It's obvious she's no longer interested in you and you know it but because you love her blindly, you pretend that's not the case. Slapping her was off but you don't deserve such treatment. Stop being a weakling.

You are no longer interested in her but can't leave her? You know what you are doing to yourself? You are raising the degree of the torture that will come. If leaving her now will cost you six months depression, staying there will be adding more months to it.

You deserve better. Every human being deserve better. Stop being a weakling and stop hurting yourself more. She has no respect for you. She knows how poor you are but still tries her best to take the little money you have. Stop this nonsense and save yourself from a greater trauma.

great advice boss, I thank y'all, I'm elated i got great advice from everyone here today

SmellingAnus:
trust me a new you will still not work... She wi still have the upper hand over you and mess with your emotions again... When this happens again... Quote me... Then we can talk about it the way it should be not some nairaland (far from reality) comments

lol, okay boss

Joeblack01:
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Obinna abi na obiora you need to sit up and act like a man that you are. The worst thing that can happen to a man is to show a woman his weakness and from every indications you have shown your girlfriend how emotionally weak you're and she is taking advantage of it.

If you want to regain your dignity, then you must let her go and stick to it. She is no longer the woman you used to love. She has tasted the cheating game and she is not willing to let go of it at least not now. So for the sake of your health and possibly life you not to let her go and move on..

I know it will be difficult being in love, jobless and so on
But believe me you it will do you good in a long run and make you a better and more mature person.

Lastly there are many fishes in the river. Use your head and not your emotions.

thanks brother, I appreciate your advice

shinarlaura:
U re killing urself slowly. How can u be in a relationship that brings nothing but pain and suffering. I know it's difficult but do everything possible to forget abt this girl. Get hold of urself ok!. I know it's not easy considering how much u love her but get urself busy in some activities. You cannot kill urself because of someone who s not worth it.

thank you so much ma

Lalas247:
Op
Grow a pair some ladies take advantage of an easy Going nature ..
now you know how she is .. so do the right thing and move on
You are not happy clearly ! So do not compromise your happiness because of what u felt or what u think you a feeling .. break it up and move on

You will find someone who will use lobpve and kill u boss up

thank you so much, I really appreciate everyone's advice, a new and better me will emerge today by God's grace

I'm so happy with the advice so far, thank y'all for your care, I feel loved and I'm happy we can put jokes aside and help ourselves when it really matters

sekxy:
firstly, your stories are pathetic.I don't like guys that sound so weak,,you are just sounding as if your life depends on the relationship..yes,she was once an angel but now she has turned to something else..why not change your dancing step since the track of the song have changed..honestly I'm disappointed, ,what happens to securing your career first? you shouldn't deny yourself the fact that you know you are the side boo now,,just forget about her and work towards achieving your goals...my candid advice though

thank you so much, I appreciate your advice, I strongly believe i'll get over her soonest, I'm working on that WEAK aspect for sure

Abduljohn:
All I ll tell you is to build your career first. As per your emotion, try to also be a man and see things on the angle of risk so as not to affect your health afterall it is a general say that there are two sides to a coin so enjoy/endure which side u find yourself

thanks brother, as for my career path, I have everything in full gear and i believe God will see me through but dealing with my emotions hasn't been easy, since November till now, I've been in this deep shit, I'm even ashamed of myself

I want to make my story short, I've been dating this my girl since April 2015 when i was in final year in the university while she was in year one, she reciprocated the love infact she made me feel heaven on earth until November 2016 when she started uploading several pictures in a car with a particular guy who happens to be a customs officer,prior to this her attitudinal change, I promised her i'll marry her and from the depth of my heart i meant everything I told her, I even had to influence my state of deployment during my nysc programe to her town of residence, uploading pictures in the car with the guy has never been my problem but the worst happened when she reluctantly (unlike her that usually begs that she wants to visit ) came to spend the weekend with me), right in my presence she was making a call with this particular guy, I mean using this intimate and sexy voice, I left the room in anger to avoid troubles, I returned like after 20 minutes and she was still on the call, I had to take the phone from her and in her bid to resist me, the angel i always loved, cherished and adored hooked my shirt by the neck such that I was shocked to my marrow that such thing will ever happen, i gave a her a resounding slap ( which i regret because I've vowed never to lay my hands on a lady till the day i die), she left my house the next morning and threatened the relationship was over. I never knew the words HEARTBREAK AND DEPRESSION were real till those moments, i begged and begged and everything seemed to normalize after a month, my problem now is that this particular guy calls my girl like more that 10 times in thirty minutes, I called her and asked her what was going on, she told me the guy is her best friend who she has known for five years meanwhile i never knew this guy when things were cool with us, I told her to cut off the relationship but what I get in return when ever i mention this guy's name are insults. Infact there's no type or kind of insult(s) which I've never received from her, I was a corps member but I kept sending her money out of my little savings but she kept demanding things from me like I was already employed, during one of our conversations she told me how she was still requesting for financial aid from her mum when she has a boyfriend (this was a lady that was always encouraging me when I even had nothing when I was in school), between November and now, I've always told her to move on with her life with her best friend (a customs officer ) but after a week or so she calls back promising to change, once i succumb to her plea i end up in tears and agony again, I know it might sound foolish but since November 2016 till now she's been messing with my feelings and emotions. I'm so angry and ashamed of myself that I've not been able to call it a day on this tormenting relationship. I finished my Nysc since April but till now I've not been able to secure a job but I believe God will see me through someday, my story is a very long one but i decided to make it laconic so as not to bore anyone, please i really need advice on how to end this relationship and mean it, I've tried severally but still find myself talking with her again. My soul is no longer with her, I don't want her in my life anymore but i really find it difficult to leave her, I don't want to marry a woman that will make me regret my existence on earth

I got a blank page and no mail after submission, I just hope the submission was successful

Good afternoon my people, please i need a good Nigerian to help me secure a job. I completed the compulsory Nysc scheme since April 7th but till now I've not been able to secure a job, I'm a graduate of the department of chemical engineering, (second class lower ). Please help save a brother

please my people, how did you guys apply ?