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Foreign AffairsRe: Two Ghanaian Ministers Die In Helicopter Crash, Along With Six Others by Obiedun(m): 5:20pm On Aug 06, 2025
Floky215:
we have plenty candidates for this type of helicopter here in Nigeria...
You just have to fear God and stop this unwarranted statements. Just imagine these men are your relatives
PoliticsRe: Is The PDP Dead In Kwara State? by Obiedun(m): 8:40am On Aug 06, 2025
I am presently in Kwara State but not in Ilorin. Nobody talks about PDP. Saraki's arrogance has killed the party. His father made himself the alpha and Omega of politics in power and was able to manage it but his son could not. As young as he is people cannot sit down on chair in his he house. He is the only one that can sit on a chair. You have to sit on the carpet or kneel down in his house
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 2:42pm On Aug 05, 2025
IamAsiri:
It's no issue at all. If that were to be the case, then that means those who gave birth out of wedlock are going to have issues, which is definitely not true.
I get what you are saying but what I was trying to bring out is that will they not think those children are not his since the children are older than the marriage? Won't they think he just wants to just travel with those children? But since you said there won't be problem, I will let him know.
PoliticsRe: Fabura Agrees To Do Only One Term as Governor by Obiedun(m): 2:38pm On Aug 05, 2025
ikennamadu1:
You no dey rivers state but you Sabi rivers state pass us weh dey rivers state.. congratulations olobe
What has your knowledge of Rivers state brought to you? With all your knowledge of the state and so on what have you achieved? You brought down Fubara and you cannot raise him up.
PoliticsRe: Fabura Agrees To Do Only One Term as Governor by Obiedun(m): 8:39am On Aug 05, 2025
Shawarmagirl:
Chai! Ambode treatment. Kudos to former governor of Edo State, Godwin Obaseki who refuses to be cowed.

Na Rivers State go suffer am. He will use his remaining days loot nonsense from the state.
E pain you,. Kikikikikkikikikiki! Fubara was misled to go against the person who put him in power. He was wrongly advised. I advise you to learn from his mistake.
PoliticsRe: Obilokan by Obiedun(m): 8:30am On Aug 05, 2025
He is just too desperate. Waka waka man. Jumping from one party to another. Telling lies from one place to the other. Yes daddy
CrimeRe: 10 Benin Republic Nationals Arrested Over Human Trafficking In Ondo by Obiedun(m): 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2025
agulion:
Thank God the were arrested, hope some people will not come and call us skull miners
No but they will call you ritualists. They will call you drug traffickers. They will call you sellers and producers of fake and adulterated drugs and food
PoliticsRe: Why “place Of Origin” Breaks Us More Than It Builds Us by Obiedun(m): 8:56am On Aug 04, 2025
They want to become the indigene of South West. No way. Go and claim the indigene of your state.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Can Obi,atiku, And Kwankwaso Unite To Defeat Tinubu, Or Will North-south.. by Obiedun(m): 8:53am On Aug 04, 2025
They will never unite. They will scatter. All of them are greedy and desperate. Obi is too desperate.
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 8:20am On Aug 04, 2025
IamAsiri:
I really don't think there is a problem, sincerely. In as much as they are the parents of these kids. The problems can arise if one of them is either not the biological father or mother of the kids and the biological father/mother objects to their travelling, refusing to sign the consent form enabling them to leave the country.
The children are their biological children. But he was thinking there may be questions if the children are older than the date the parents get married. The family is planning to travel abroad with the children.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi In 3 Pictures by Obiedun(m): 10:31pm On Aug 03, 2025
Yes yes. They were living in Gwagwalada. I know their house. They live very close to the tree of knowledge of good and evil.
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 10:25pm On Aug 03, 2025
IamAsiri:
No, they can't.

Happened to someone I know. It's not really a big deal. The legal wedding document is just for official matters like opening joint accounts, travelling abroad as a couple etc.
Their wedding anniversary date still remains the same date they got married before God and people.
Alright then. That means if he want to travel out with their children born about six years ago and the marriage certificate shows they got married last month there is no problem
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 8:51pm On Aug 02, 2025
IamAsiri:
Ha! That's serious o. He should go back and do the wedding proper. Go to the registry, ask for the necessary requirements and just go through with it.
Can they backdate the wedding date to meet up with the exact date of the wedding?
PoliticsRe: Oyakhilome Warns Against Electronic Voting by Obiedun(m): 3:31pm On Aug 02, 2025
helinues:
We are not mature yet for electronic voting. Only the transmission of election results from the polling unit should be mandated for now
That one can also be manipulated.
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 3:30pm On Aug 02, 2025
IamAsiri:
Most likely, the church is authorised to conduct a marriage ceremony by the government and would have given them the same document they would have likewise received from a marriage registry. Else, they would not have required or requested for a marriage license.
He just went to the local government registry to collect the license. The church did not even take the licence. They just went ahead to do the wedding. The church is a local church in the village. The pastor didn't want to hear about government approval.
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 10:09am On Aug 02, 2025
EmebonMM:
Hi Obiedun,

Happy New Month.

No, your friend cannot rely solely on a marriage license and a church certificate (issued by the church) for official purposes like international travel, visa applications, immigration processing, or legal documentation. A government-issued marriage certificate is the only officially recognized proof of marriage in Nigeria and abroad.

What Should Your Friend Do?

If he did not obtain a court-registered marriage certificate, he should:

Confirm whether the church is authorized by the Ministry of Interior to conduct legal marriages.

If not, he should:

Visit a marriage registry (either local government or federal)

Register the marriage officially (even if the ceremony has already taken place)

Obtain a valid marriage certificate
Many thanks
FamilyRe: Difference Between Marriage License And Marriage Certificate by Obiedun(m): 9:32am On Aug 02, 2025
Thanks for the information. I know friend who obtained the license and later did to church wedding with church certificate not court certificate. Can he use both the license and the church certificate for travelling and for other activities?
PoliticsRe: True Federalism: Listen To The Patriots’ Call - Punch Editorial by Obiedun(m): 9:08am On Aug 02, 2025
People have been talking about true federalism and restructuring without actually telling us what to do. Wit my engagement with some people those two statements mean different things to some people. For example someone people believe the president can come from any part of the country so far he is r she is duly elected while Some people that it should be rotational. Th is se who believe in rotational are also divided. Some believe it should be rotated between the north and the south while Some believe it should be rotated between six geopolitical zones. Some also believe it should be rotated between ethnic groups. This is just only one example
PoliticsRe: 2027: ‘without Peter Obi, Coalition Is Doomed To Fail’ – Okon Lagos by Obiedun(m): 9:01am On Aug 02, 2025
Even with obi the coalition is doomed for ever. They will never move forward because the idea is baseless and the members of the coalition itself are not better than the ok people they are planning to exit. Their greed will scatter them their desperation will destroy their alliance.
PoliticsRe: It Is No Longer A Secret” – Yunusa Speaks On Peter Obi Returning To PDP by Obiedun(m): 9:33pm On Aug 01, 2025
Waka waka man. No peace for the wicked. He will go back to his vomit and rush back again. He is going to taste all major political parties.
PoliticsRe: ADC Clears Obi, El-Rufai To Remain In LP, SDP by Obiedun(m): 9:28pm On Aug 01, 2025
commoditiesnig:
Lol.. Very confused and cowardly set of people.. Jokers!


They're cowards bro!
Yes now. Who among them has good records as a matter of fact. They have been in helm of affairs in the past and what has been their record? Disgruntled politicians
PoliticsRe: Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi's 2027 Presidential Bid Grows Bigger by Obiedun(m): 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2025
Rotimi is going mo where. All of them are wasting their times and resources but then it's good. 2027 will be interesting.
PoliticsRe: ADC Clears Obi, El-Rufai To Remain In LP, SDP by Obiedun(m): 6:40pm On Aug 01, 2025
Confused people organizing a confused party. None of them is bold enough to claim to be a member. They will soon scatter.
PoliticsRe: The Tribal War And Ethnic Divisions In Nigeria: Who Is To Blame? by Obiedun(m): 6:27pm On Aug 01, 2025
gidgiddy:
What country? The failed British colonial creation called Nigeria?
What have people done about it? You have gained independence since 1960, right? What steps have you taken to make it work? You people always criticize the British government but then you run to their country, you are proud to speak their language, you are proud to wear their dress etc. You have turned yourselves to their slaves. Please stop complaining.
PoliticsRe: The Tribal War And Ethnic Divisions In Nigeria: Who Is To Blame? by Obiedun(m): 4:41pm On Aug 01, 2025
gidgiddy:
If Nigerians actually loved themselves, Nnamdi would not be able divide anyone

There was never any unity to begin with
That's part of what we are saying. If you love your country, you will not be where you are today. Even in the east see what you guys are doing to yourselves but it's easy for you to blame others for the woes you caused yourselves
IslamRe: Is Masturbation Haram In Islam? 13 Tips To Give Up Masturbation! by Obiedun(m): 12:03pm On Aug 01, 2025
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Is Masturbation Permissible?
On this important question, the eminent Muslim scholar and renowned Da`iyah,Sheikh `AbdelKhaliqHasan Ash-Shareef, states that a person is not in a necessity to commit this act, as long as there is no fear of committing zina. A Muslim should not think about this act. Instead, he should abstain from what may arouse his sexual appetite such as watching sex movies or pornographic pictures. Such acts, indeed, sap and drain the Iman (Faith) of a believer, kill his soul and destroy his character.

It is recommended for a Muslim to fill up his time with something useful such as reading or learning the Qur’an; things that will make him nearer to Almighty Allah, enrich his knowledge and strengthen his faith and piety. Allah says in the Qur’an(And let those who do not find the means to marry keep chaste until Allah makes them free from want out of His grace.)” (An-Nur 24:23).

Elaborating on this issue of masturbation in his book, The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi stated:

“The majority of Muslim scholars consider masturbation haram (unlawful). Imam Malik bases his judgment on the verse: “Those who guard their sexual organs except with their spouses or those whom their right hands possess, for (with regard to them) they are without blame. But those who crave something beyond that are transgressors.’ (Al-Mu’minoon:5-7)
Imam Malik argued that the masturbator is one of those who ‘crave something beyond that.’
On the other hand, it is reported that Imam Ahmad IbnHanbal regarded semen as an excretion of the body like other excrete, and permitted its expulsion the same way blood letting is permitted. IbnHazm holds the same view. However, the Hanbali jurists permit masturbation only under two conditions: first, the fear of committing fornication or adultery, and second, not having the means to marry.
We are inclined to accept the opinion of Imam Ahmad in a situation in which there is sexual excitation and danger of committing the haram [adultery]. For example, a young man has gone abroad to study or work, thereby encountering many temptations which he fears he will be unable to resist, may resort to this method of relieving sexual tension provided he does not do it excessively or make it a habit. Yet, better than this is the Prophet’s advice to the Muslim youth who is unable to marry, namely, that he seeks help through frequent fasting, for fasting nurtures will-power, teaches control of desires, and strengthens the fear of Allah. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said, ‘O youth, whoever of you is able to marry, let him marry, for it spares one looking at what one should not, or lapsing in adultery. And if he cannot marry, let him observe fasting, for it is a shield against evil.’(Reported by Muslim.)
PoliticsRe: The Tribal War And Ethnic Divisions In Nigeria: Who Is To Blame? by Obiedun(m): 11:54am On Aug 01, 2025
ElSudani:
Nnamdi Kanu himself was late to it. It has been festering online for a few years before Nnamdi Kanu started his Radio hate.
Honestly, he aggravated it.
PoliticsRe: The Tribal War And Ethnic Divisions In Nigeria: Who Is To Blame? by Obiedun(m): 11:25am On Aug 01, 2025
The evil that Nnamdi Kanu did in promoting ethnicity and hatred can never be forgotten. Things were not as bad as this until he started his hate speech
PoliticsRe: Why Do Yorubas Call This Pot 'Agbari Ojukwu'? by Obiedun(m): 9:56am On Aug 01, 2025
2mch:
Ask your elders. The pot may have its native name but it’s generally known as Agbari Ojuku
This morning s not agbari Ojukwu. Agbari Ojukwu is another type of metal pot. It's lighter in weight and always black even the new ones that have not been used.

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