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ObinnaObinna:
Take heart, my brother.

I know EXACTLY how you feel.

Because I am going through exactly the same thing.

Our condition is called (unofficial tho) DEATH GRIP SYNDROME.

When your only way or main way of gaining sexual pleasure is through masturbation your brain conditions itself to the sensation you get during masturbation.

The consequence of this is that when you eventually have sex the vaginal walls can't offer the same amount of pressure your hard grip has been exerting on your penis.

Plus, you probably masturbate with a particular kind of image in your mind. Your brain has also conditioned itself to gain sexual pleasure from that image.

I know you are afraid. I was too. I still am.

I felt like I've destroyed myself. That I might not have children. That I may never enjoy sex again.

But I did a bit of research and that's where I learnt the things I just stated here. It made me a bit more hopeful.

I'm sure by now (just like I also realised) you know that masturbation is a NO GO AREA.

What we have to do is to stay away from masturbation so our brain forgets what that sensation feels like.

Then maybe after like 3 months have normal sex. With time your brain is going to get used to this 'new' sensation.

I want you to expect to FAIL.

It's a normal part of getting out of any form of addiction.

Times will come when you'll lose your resolve and masturbate again.

But I want you to be a man and start all over afresh. It doesn't matter.

I'm still struggling with it.

I KNOW I WILL GET OVER THIS. Tell yourself this.

It turned out (at least in my case) that I worried too much. I had sex with my then girlfriend in 2021 but I didn't cum. All the times we had sex I never had an orgasm and neither did she. Honestly I didn't feel the sensation on my d!ck that much and several times during sex I felt my d!ck getting soft.

But in 2024 I had sex with this smallie on her father's balcony while everyone was asleep and that has been my best sex ever. I made her cum 3 times that night and I also cummed 3 times. My d!ck felt very good inside her vagina. We also had several other quickies and we both made each other cum. I dunno if it was the taboo and risky nature of the sex or simply that Bleep!ng a girl that wants to fuçk you back is hotttt... Anyways, my point is that I got my d!ck back. Yay!!

After a man "sleeps" he stays asleep until he either wakes up into Life or wakes up into Death

1. Through the scriptures
2. When speaking in tongues, the Holy Spirit can talk to you

In general, the more you're conscious of the presence of God the better you are at hearing God speaking to you.

Many people think God doesn't speak to them but that's wrong. God speaks to all of us, but we're the ones who don't hear because we aren't paying attention.

[quote author=ObinnaObinna post=93233777][/quote]Turns out I didn't need to worry much!
I've had sex multiple times since then and I cummed multiple times too. I can even go multiple rounds without problem.
In fact, I think this thing might have given me an advantage cos I can last long. So I just focus on making sure the woman enjoys herself.

The one issue I'm still having is that handjobs and blowjobs don't do anything for me. I can only cum if I have sex or masturbate.

But then again, I'm not sure if masturbation is really the cause of this because I also don't feel any unique pleasure from other things like playing with my nipples and other related stuff.

Namaster:
Girlfriend is the one wearing a watch. The other 2 are side chicks.

Bold of a PEDOPHILE to publicise his crimes.

Hugging 4 people and not one of them is a guy YET somehow he expects people to believe he has a platonic relationship with those kids.

Guy is a REAL peodophle.

You're just projecting. I know you want to have your way with that one with the wrist watch and big bouncy breasts. Bloody hypocrite.

cococandy:
A DEI hire with her political background ?

Versus Trump who’s a corrupt failed business man with no real political experience. But yall call her dei hire.

Man nothing rots the brain like misogyny and prejudice

How can you call someone who has achieved billionaire status TWICE a failed business man?
How can you call someone who became the PRESIDENT of the USA one "with no real political experience"??

Man nothing rots the brain like blind hatred and prejudice.

kunleiky:
This reminds me of "The Law is an Ass" article by Novelist Segun Mabel.
Lol

I read that article in my English reader in secondary school. It was one of the articles that shaped the way I perceive/understand the law.
The law is an ass, and you can exploit many of its loopholes if you're aware of them.

Still waiting for light here in Lekki Phase 1.

No break him prick o

Rhozabeth:
24hrs what? Unless that system is not connected to the national grid.

It doesn't need to be connected to the national grid.

That's a rhinoceros beetle. You can tell from the horn. Dung beetles aren't that big.

Ryda:
Saint Obi and Hanks Anuku graced Nollywood back in the day, carry AK 47 rifles with their big coats

You mean this?

FAKE NEWS, BRO.

Please, stop wailing!

Nairalanders, please help me keep this man far away from SNIPER!

Also avoid the Book of Lamentations.

Trump supporters are still wailing.

Claiming fraud but can't offer a single shred of real evidence.

Who am I to stop wailers from reading the Book of Lamentations over a done deal?

Probabl3:
Thanks a Lot this really changed my mind

Good luck, bro.

My only sister is 17 but people always think she's older than me because she grew very fast. Mind you I'm 21 oo, so you can imagine how she looks for people to think she's older.

I know guys see her from afar and lust thinking she's a big girl and all that, but it's only people that know her personally (family & close friends) that know she's really a small girl in thinking.

In fact, because of my sister I'm not even that interested in girls my age (not to talk of younger girls) because I've seen first hand how childish/childlike they can be through my sister. Instead I go for older ladies and it's working for me. You know those ones really know what they're doing and not these inexperienced small girls.

My guy, flex oo, but flex well.

My guy, big breast and ass doesn't mean that those girls are mature. They still don't know what they're doing and they don't have any experience in this life at all.

To you it might seem like this is a good opportunity to get some sexualities pleasure but I tell you that it's an opportunity to try and help these girls.

Imagine if you fúck them now and they continue life with the mentality that it's okay to have sex (or give in to pleasure) whenever they get the opportunity. Is that what you want?

Now is the time to let them know the right thing.

DISCIPLINE!

If you want go ahead and enjoy yourself. Have the best sex ever. Press breast and ass to your satisfaction.

The choice is yours, bro. Peace.

IntersexSherry:

How can I get in contact? Facebook, email...?

IntersexSherry:
how you know

I've been reading your stories here and on Facebook. ItdI be nice to know you.

IntersexSherry:
ya

You're brave and cool.

IntersexSherry

Can someone please tell me what the people see in skull mining?

OP update us about your Khal na.

The way you stopped is so abrupt. After whetting our appetite with this story of your amazing Rott.

I have never owned a dog in my life but I really love dogs and I spend a lot of time in Nairaland's pet section reading about dogs.

Christensen bleeped up o

And since Lampard decided to park the bus minus one defender means his plans are in disarray.

See Liverpool taking advantage of the confusion and reaping the benefits.

Good words from a TESTED & TRUSTED coach.

I'd rather team up with a coach that has won the important trophies and still believes in improving the players he has than other coaches that spend millions and yet have nothing to show for it.

Lmao.

In electronic games he's a GOAT with strong horns but in real life Bayern forces the dwarf retirement goat to eat yam peels.

We all know who the real GOAT is.