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Tolu2024:
No

Tolu2024:
First time I am into real estate I buy and sell property but my money short so I decide instead of leaving it in my account with no interest let me invest it.
I wanted to buy TBills . Went to different banks non seem interested to listen to me or take me serious I guess they thought I am too small because of my stature . So I decided to do little research about mmf and best firm to use .

derico:
Anytime you do the test and hear negative, you'll always swear that you will never have unprotected sex again.
Your dikk now has higher value.

That's how I do see myself.
I become selective with the kind of ladies I mingle with.

Yes oo, I'm yet to do the hepatitis test, I go run am, then afterwards stay careful

captainking:
You can buy hiv/hep test kit and do yourself at home...its quite cheap...congrats on your hep b negative status, now go and get vaccinated !!

ChildOfDoom:
UNIBEN, the dream of every South South indigen, was the school I attended, after attending a big boarding school. All for what?

I should have learnt a trade with the time and resources wasted.

During the rough years in UNIBEN, I had to do side hustle to see that I passed successfully. I had a sharp 2.1 from my department. All wasted now

UNIBEN is to be partly blamed for my misfortune too. It was there I learnt about bet9ja that destroyed my life for ten years. No thanks to mischievous students always talking about it. From constant patronising of bet shops, I got to learn about womanising to clear my head or frustration. This always made me broke. Then I learnt about online loan apps to feed my addictions. This was the height of it all. A good devout Catholic like me slowly turned bad. Thank God I didn't add drugs to it. I would have run mad by now

I shuttled between Sapele, Benin, Ughelli, Asaba etc to see to it that I secured a white-collar job that paid 6 digits. Interviews, screening, medicals, documentation etc. All in vain now

My addiction to betting, womanising and borrowing has finished me. Now hiding 'in a hole' avoiding creditors, torture or jail time as I reminisce on the good old days.

My C.V is messed up and my reputation gone. My result is now in vain as I won't get recommendations from my past employer.

Hmm. Over 2 million spent in UNIBEN (on feeding, books, fees, accommodation etc) in vain. I am no different from a primary school drop out now.

My good diction also in vain. Only internet fraud seems available now

Wyrax:
I understand that I need to move on.

But how. Even before we got in the short-lived relationship I was always thinking about everyday. Without even talking to her

KingDashx:
Omo
Nothing go make me do any thing for naija babes


Na so one mumu guy for our area carry one babe wey I don fk tire, like everyday banging, the guy come dey feel pompoms because the girl fine😂😂

Sp33i:
Go ahead

Sp33i:
I sent you fortunate information at least four times and each time i did, I got banned. It negs for serious answer if you really pray. I gave up though i felt the information i was sharing would be a blessing to you

Sp33i:
The two times i messaged you, bots banned me. Do you pray at all ?

ScepterWorld:
Yes please.
I use Trove.
No complaints so far and they recently added price limits option unlike before when I used to trade only based on market price.

Zonefree:

Smh

Sp33i:
Take it easy o

Sp33i:
Take it easy o

MakindeHassan:
Women will always expect their men to be providers even when rich. Well, with my own experience dating well to do ladies, it wasn’t like billing but they place you on a certain level of expectation.

I have dated two very well to do ladies and two incidents stand out. One wanted to change her complete 4 tires brand new for her SUV and was telling me over and over, I could tell she was expecting me to step in and offer to buy them, but even me I don’t change all four tires at once unless official car.

Second one was in a tight fix and just casually ask if I had 2m in my account that she needed to make a payment and will pay back by weekend. I just laugh cos na so wahala dey start. I respect myself continue to date girls below my level oo, girls that their urgent need is 50k highest that I know I can leave for them.

phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.

Igodomigodo419:
Good evening guysssssss! Tho I’m not a regular poster or commenter here but Omo I’m in between two crossroads here and I really need una advice!!

I’m a contract staff in a bank and my salary is 70k for now tho the bank is planning on increasing the pay this month. I’m dating this girl and I really love her so much. We’ve been dating for a year now and honestly we really love ourselves. Tho she’s a single mother tho but I don’t mind spending my life with her.
She’s a worker and she even earns better salary than me, and we’re very comfortable sharing things together.

The problem now is I opened to my mum about my relationship with her and my intentions to settle down. She immediately kicked against it. Why? Because she feels since I’m the last born and my elder brothers are yet to get married so I’m not even supposed to even talk about marriage. I’m almost 30 and I think I know what’s at stake when it comes to settling down and I’m willing to take my chances as a man. But my mum is failing to see reasons..
she feels im not ready, I don’t have a good job, and because she earns better than me so I shouldn’t even talk about getting married.

Note that I’ve already discussed my introduction with with her family by January and making plans to visit my babe’s parents but now my mum is against it already and I don’t think I can go back on my plans.

Should I go ahead to do the introduction without letting my mum know and wait to see if she’ll eventually consent or I should disappoint my girl and her family and cancel all plans? I don know how she’ll take it and I really love her so much..

I need advice oh 😭😭🤲🏾🙏🏽

DonBenny77:
You are only 26.
Some are over 40 in the same position you are

Alaska5050:
Apologies for putting this here.

I have a friend, a very close friend whom we've once cohabited together a few years ago. My friend has a girlfriend. He met his girlfriend while they were in the Polytechnic together, they dated & later broke up due to the girls unfaithfulness. The girl cheated on my friend. After ND, my friend proceeded for his HND l, while the lady couldn't go further.
After three years, they reconciled. My friend is now in Lagos, we live very close to each. In fact, we live in same Building but different apartment. After reconciliation, the babe left her place(Ibadan) to Lagos to visit my friend. She would come & spend a few days, then return to Ibadan. This babe isn't even an indigene of Ibadan, she's from Nassarawa State. But traveled to live with her cousins in Ibadan so as to Hussle & save money for her HND. She has been in Ibadan for almost a year & this babe has refused to work. She comes to see her guy every now & then, spends a week or two, then leave and after two days, she returns again.
My friend works as a Supervisor in a small hotel & his salary is not even up to 50k but this guy is sheepishly still in love with this girl. The same girl cheats all the time. My friend has caught her many times through her chats with a particular guy. The babes mum would call & even ask her "How is your husband". The mum is not referring to my friend as her daughter's husband, but she's referring to the other guy whom my friends babe is cheating with. There have been many red flags, but my guy has become hypnotized by love.
My friend is on permanent night shift. Goes to work at 5pm and returns the next morning. Immediately my friend leaves, she will remove her phone from flight mode or silence and start flashing the guy to call her back. The guy would call & they would speak for so so long, sometimes, two hours. Her phone doesn't ring whenever my friend is around. Much worse is the fact that the Girl is so lazy. She has refused to work, she comes to my guy's house only to eat, sleep and chat. Her major hobby is to cook, eat all the meats in the food and demands for suya. She can't buy Sanitary pad or data for herself except my guy buys for her. She can't make her hair with her money. If my friend doesn't send her transport fare, she can't come. And when she wants to leave, my friend must also give her transport fare. In fact, if the money isn't enough, na wahala oo.. Whatever she tells my friend to do, he does. My friend would tell me he doesn't have money and will be eating in my house for weeks and atimes months. But the day the babe comes around, money will enter his pockets mysteriously. He will give the girl 10k to cook soup and buy garri for Eba but same guy cannot use 3k to cook for himself alone and eat. He tries too much to impress this cheating and lazy girlfriend even to the point of getting addicted to Sex enhancement drugs to satisfy his Babe. Without these enhancement drugs, he can't bleep the girl. He has become so weak that the girl has now capitalized on his weakness to continually become disloyal.
He intends marrying the girl, but I feel he's making the wrong decision. The girl wouldn't make a good wife, from all indications. Atimes I am tempted to open up & tell him about the many calls the girl receives whenever he is at work.
I know all these because I'm very close to him. Sometimes we sleep in each other's house.

I am really very angry cos there's nothing spectacular about this lady. No be say she fine. Also I hate taking shits from any lady particularly a cheating girlfriend who is also a parasite.
I'm scared that if I tell my friend to break up with her, my friend may tell her that I am the one advising him to breakup.

officialwdhtvv:
How I lost my house in the UK after the wife I brought from Nigeria reported me to the police for alleged physical assault — Nigerian man

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AeqKT2VaQcA

Imredeemed:
"My sister-in-law came to my house for Omugwo and was supposed to stay until the second week of December, which is when I planned for her to leave. However, I found out that my mother-in-law called my wife, and they both agreed to send her back to the village earlier than planned. I came home from work one day, and my wife told me her sister would be leaving the next day, even though she had already stayed with us for three months. I had intended for her to leave the second week of December, so I could buy some things for her before she left.

I was upset because I felt that my mother-in-law should have informed me, given that her daughter was staying in my house. Instead, they made the decision without consulting me. When I asked why the rush, they explained that my sister-in-law had secured a job and needed to leave immediately. I was happy for her, but I still felt disrespected by the lack of communication from my mother-in-law.

On the day of her departure, I refused to take them to the park because, as far as I was concerned, I had not been properly informed about her leaving. Later that evening, around 6 p.m., my mom called me, asking me to send money to my sister-in-law because their vehicle had broken down on the road. I was surprised because my mom lives in a different state. When I asked her how she knew about the breakdown, she said my wife had told her, based on what her sister had said. I was frustrated that neither my wife nor my sister-in-law called me directly. I hung up on my mom and put my phone on flight mode.

When I returned home, my wife refused to serve me dinner, and the next day, she didn’t greet me either. After a long week of work, I took Monday off to rest, but my wife started insulting me, complaining that I hadn’t sent money to her sister. The argument escalated to the point where my mother-in-law got involved, calling me and hurling insults. Every time we have an issue, they threaten to send money for my wife’s transport so she can leave, but this time, I’ve made up my mind: she has to go tomorrow, and they must provide the transport for her. They’ve been making excuses, saying they don’t have the money, but I can’t tolerate the insults anymore. What should I do? The situation is becoming unbearable.

henndukwe18:
In reference to this post https://www.nairaland.com/7222565/first-kiss my relationship has been moving so smoothly, everyday is love day, butterflies have now turned to beautiful birds singing in my belly, a single glance at her picture puts me in a deep imagination dt keeps me smiling for some minutes, i imagine how happy we wl be together as couples, such a sensational moment, i neva knew she has the same thing in mind until d last night we met before she travelled to start sch at enugu university.

In that night, as we were having our normal romantic moment, at the peak of the romance, she asked me if we were going to marry, i was surprised, then i said yes we wl, bt wen the time comes.

We re just in our first year in sch, her uncle handles her sch stuffs while i take care of mine and also get little support from family, especially my mom.

My mom has always wanted me to b in sch, she wants d best for me bt financial burdens kept delaying me. I wanted to hustle enough money before i wil think of going to sch bt my mom forced me to start ds yr, i told ha i wasnt prepared bt she insisted i start sch dt they wil support me, i agreed n started, now i feel left out, first semester was survival, i quit my job to start sch since my mom wanted me to register as a morning student, i hv exhausted all the money on my first semester bt my grades are critically bad, in all the things we do in sch, my participations in sch is 20%, why?, because of money, everything we do in sch involves money, am very brilliant bt all the dull brains in sch that are being supported by their rich dads are beta than me, after our first semester exam i knew it was over for me, i started loosing interest in sch bt my mom kept pushing me forward and motivating me, nothing will make ha happy than to see me become a graduate.

During these struggles, i was stl communicating with my girl friend, i shud have gone for ha matric at enugu bt i couldnt because of money, i hv disappointed her in many ways over the things i know i can handle if i was working, she is very understanding, bt deep down in me, i feel bad about my situation. I was stl reasoning wt she told me abt marriage and i dnt want to loose ha.

At the ending of my second semester, ha first semester was over, we were so excited to see each oda, we met at our normal spot, at the sight of me, she ran towards me with an exciting smile on ha face n hugged me so tight, she is more beautiful n curvy than wen she left for sch, she now has a little figure 8 shape (i once imagined dt), she is more attractive now, her eyes n smile were amazing, she was even more excited to see me than i was, we were cuddling, jisting, laughing, smiling n kissing like mad, such a romantic moment.

In the middle of our romance, she held my hands while staring me directly in the eyes and asked me the question again, she asked me if we re going to marry, this time, she had a pleading look on her face, she is a very emotional person and neva hides ha feelings from me, with dt look i knew she was very serious about it, she is probably going crazy abt me, i told ha yes we wl bt we have to finish our education first before starting life together, she said she was afraid of loosing me, i told ha she wont loose me and am also afraid of loosing ha, we just need to wait for d right time, she asked me till wen, i asked ha if she wanted to have a baby and b going to sch with it, she said no dt she just wants us to get engaged, as an assurance dt we will be together forever, i told ha i would b there for ha, she looked annoyed bt i hv a way of getting into ha, she is emotional and has a soft heart, i used that as an advantage to sweet talk ha out of it before we continued our romance.

My academics now are even worst than last semester due to lack of money and we are currently taking exam, with the way things re going, am not just going to have a lot of carry overs, i am going to repeat my 100 level, it will b a big shame that someone as brilliant as i am is repeating first yr, my efforts re no longer enough, After my girlfriend went home dt night, i was thinking throughout dt night, she has clouded my mind, now i want ha so bad, i dnt want to loose ha, she is a human being and has a limit, if i continue like ds, someone is probably going to take over from me, she is ready to build with me bt if i dnt do anything about it or make any effort in building our relationship, it is only a matter of time before she ends it, and dt is wen she cant take it any longer.

With all these things crumbling on me, i dnt think i can have my gf and be schooling at the same time, i need to make a very hard decision;

1. To forget about my gf and continue struggling with my studies since my mom wants me to go to sch

2. Drop out of school and start hustling to earn a living and start taking the responsibilities of a man

Both My mom and gf wouldnt want me to go for no 2, especially my mom, bt that is d one my mind is going for right now.

Please, advice me on ds issue, am in need of it.

Insults are allowed, i can take it.

CandyOps:
Sunday, 22nd September 2024...

CandyOps woke up as early as 6.15am. it was a cool windy morning and the birds can be heard chirping away from a distance.

The sky was clear and buckets of dull clouds floated lazily with a purple hue racing across the early morning skies.

CandyOps sat on his bed bare chested, mentally taking in the fresh morning breeze and lovely morning view from his bedside window as he made up his mind to attend church service that day.

Normally, people go to church with different prayer points in mind.

Some may go for God's blessings on their business, family or a particular favor. To others it's just a weekly routine.

Well... As for CandyOps, the only prayer point he had in mind as he sat on his bed staring into the empty morning skyline was to meet some new girls in church.

..and also to manifest 100 million naira before this time next year (story for another day)

CandyOps was tired of all his old female friends... and needed some new ones.

I dragged my lazy dreamy-ass out of bed and hit my in-house gym. Did some 10mins meditation & 10 mins stretching to warm up.

I loaded my barbells up with a total of 90kg weights on both ends and set my music player on my Spotify to 'workout' playlist.

I started off with a quick burst of 10 reps in 3 sets of bent over rows to max out my back muscles.

Then switched to 4 sets in 10 reps of standing military overhead barbell press. Before ending it with 10 reps of front squats and 10 of back squats 2 sets each.

Feeling so pumped and sweaty... I took a cold shower with Future's We Still Don't Trust You blazing on a low volume on the stereo.

Got prepped up and hit the roads to the church. It was a smooth 7 mins drive.

Normally, I dey always come late for Sunday service no matter how early I try to be. So I had to stay at the back as the pews were all filled up as it was the 8.30am service mass.

I had to target that specifically because its the most attended family mass service.

I was looking fly as usual. In my peach coloured free flowing 2-piece jumper. The trousers was free-flowing styled like a palazzo.

CandyOps wasn't just looking breathtaking but also smelt like I was dipped in whipped vanilla cream. Mmmm!

Normally, I had slapped on some Sugar Baby oil perf on and masked it with Blooming Florasion by Miniso.

Top notes are Mandarin, Elemi and Orange Blossom. Middle notes are Jasmine, Iris and Plum. Base notes are Patchouli, Vanilla, Praline and Musk. Plus a bit of olive and ginger top notes on the Blooming EDT... a.k.a the boy was fire and smelt edible!

I was also dorning a clear transparent eyeglasses with circular frames. That type Burna wears but not the dark shades.

... yada yada yada.

Back to church, before I got carried away by how hot I was in church (I couldn't help it)

So I was late and the 2nd reading was being read. I had to stand or sit on a makeshift chair all through the service. I wasn't all comfy so I left the building and strolled to the back of the church where there was a cool shade to stretch my legs and give my eyes the opportunity to wander at the beauties in the presence of God.

I was on my own jejely, maintaining steeze and keeping composure waiting for the mass to end to make my move on a pretty damsel standing behind me when I noticed a rather slender tall pretty fair chick casually walking towards me.

She looked 5' 10" but could easily pass as a 6 footer cos she had heels on 👠

She was dressed in all those Indian women 3 piece chiffon dresses with trousers and a matching long free-flowing boyfriend jacket. With a veil to partly cover her face.

Hmmm...
I observed her as she was approaching. She had a hand fan above her head to block out the sun rays from hitting her face.

She walked up to my direction and stood like 1 feet away from me. I just say be like God sabi my prayer point today 🙏

As she just dey walka come stop for my side, I no even waste 1 second...

"This one that Hajia came to church today. Hope all is why?" I said.

She turned towards my direction and I was wearing a sly smile on my face to let her know I was actually speaking to her. A.k.a my game face

She let out a hearty laugh blocking her dentition with the hand fan... and we started talking. And when she spoke... OMG!

Her accent was laced with the typical sing-song tone that comes with Hausa language being a mother tongue. And she spoke so gracefully I could have sworn it sounded like a siren calling to my soul from deep within.

I told her she looked amazingly cute in her choice of dressing and I teased her more about her cologne because I could catch I whimp of it.

As she engaged CandyOps in a convoy I kinda leaned back a little making her come closer in other to close in on the space (psychological move to make her come closer to me physically)

I repeated this at interval and she kept on closing in on the space between us. (Indications of high enough interest)


As we dey talk I noticed the other girl behind me that I was eyeing before was kinda disappointed lol.


Her face wasn't as animated as it was few minutes earlier when we kept on catching each others eyes.. but then what can Candy do?

Candy can't possibly spilt himself into two so he had no choice but to go with the option who make herself available.

I guess she has to learn to shoot her shot faster or try for better luck next time 🤞

I chatted with Haija who put me through hell guessing what state she is from. I later found out she's a practicing lawyer and from Anambra.

After like 10 minutes of talk. I was getting hot standing outside so I suggested we walk to my car and get some AC air since the church is almost over.

She said "oh okay" and followed my lead.

As we walked over to the car park I had a feeling it won't be the last time she'll walk with Candy side-by-side.

I literally imagined and mentally pictured her walking by my side days from now to my house, on a date and I felt instantly how it be like when she walks with me hand-in-hand into my bedroom.

I kinda visualised that shit and it kinda made all the blood in my veins to rush downwards towards my dick.

I kinda imagined for a split second how tight & deep she would be

You know what they say about tall women..


Men... Candy was lucky he was putting on a Senator styled cloth with the top falling as low as below his knees. Else, the stupid John Thomas would have disgraced itself


As we enter car, I on AC we chill for a short 5 mins before mass ended and I drove off after exchanging numbers.

One convo we had in the car really struck me.
She asked me the usual question I get most times, "hope you are not married?" She asked

"No. I'm single. But not for too long" I replied.

She laughed and said, "hmmm! Don't forget to invite me to your wedding"

And as a very sharp guy I responded by saying, "you wouldn't need an invite to your own wedding. Would you?"

It took her a second to get it then she let out another hearty laughter. I could see she turned red from smiling too much. Her grin was from ear to ear

Candy bad sha.
That reply was epic!
Sounded like a line from a romantic TV sitcom.

But na why.. Na why dem dey call am GOAT be this! 😆

I dropped her off in front of the church b4 leaving as she had CYON meeting to attend so that her fellow CYONers go see am as she drop from the car.


She was the highlight of my Sunday I must say and made me believe 'God' answers all prayers every time I sincerely ask it of him/her.

She's the 2nd babe in my radar and hopefully she makes her own money so I don't get to spend money on weekly allowances.


She no get nyash sha but she seems like an interesting babe and I'm willing to explore all of her to uncover what treasures or curses lies within.

Wish me luck.

Everything was fine and groovy until something heart breaking happened minutes before I dropped her off in front of the church entrance...

It was the moment she shook my hands.
Omo! Damn!
I was disappointed tbh...


The hands no really soft, ajeh!
I no go for lie you naa.
It felt like I was smooching a crocodile's back 😭

I like babes with soft palms like mine.
I love it when your palms feels like Mouka foam and makes me feel lightheaded and dizzy like I'm about to drift off in love...

...no be hand wey strong like solidified Dangote cement left out too long in the open

I'll post about the 100 million naira visualisation thing later on.

For now I wan chop this delicious cheat meal.
I no just get babes time as money dey my mind but this JT ain't gonna suck itself

See picture attached

ExAngel007:
A Nigerian man, Daniel Naada Oluwafemi has
revealed that a lady he asked to be his girlfriend blocked him for wanting to know if she is an orphan after she asked him if he can take care of her.