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Jakiblend:
What's all this please?

Must you write your life history here?

NEUDUDE:
Exactly like me! I dont have time for rubbish. The girls you see with me is just to kill konji and thats all lol

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Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

talktalk4u:
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Kly003:
You guys never learn.. Na lagos girl you dey date while u dey london?


While you disturbed this morning making this post, she's probably hopping on a guys d!ck this planning on using u as a rebound maga..

Men of these generation are f00lish. Yu get money one leeches still dey use your head.

Raymondkups12:
I have been racking my brain all day about what my fiancee told me, because I am pondering if she is lying to me or if am just overthinking it. I have decided to bring it here to get y'all views on this.

My fiancee stays in lagos. I stay in London. We talked a few days ago and she said her phone fell and the screen is bad. So yesterday I was about sending her 250k to get a new phone, when I went on WhatsApp and saw that she posted some pics on her status. Earlier she told me that she connected her WhatsApp to her laptop to be using. But it would not make sense to use your laptop to take pics. So I confronted her this morning about it. How are you using your bad phone to take pics and post pics on WhatsApp? She said that the screen is not broken with ink all over it, that it's just some part of the screen that is not working. She complained earlier to me that the same camera was now bad. So in answer to that she said she used her WhatsApp camera, that that one worked very well. Also note that she was able to type sentences on the photos she posted. I wanted to send her the money this morning, but what she said is not making sense to me. So I held back and excused her. Is she trying to exploit me financially or is she being truthful?

Note that she has had some trust issues in the past but she is also not money oriented, she hardly ask for money and she works and earn full-time.


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Please I need a chocolate skinned lady (Igbo preferable & Lagos based) for dating, relationship & marriage. I'm looking at settling down by this year end.

I'm 38, chocolate, quite tall, work and live on the Island. Only seriously ladies should hit me up pls...thanks & stay blessed.

Reach out: zero 8 zero...3 four...zero zero...24...six 3 (WhatsApp only) ...no calls

Do you seek for a virgin and non virgin??

englishmart:
We met recently at the location where I got my PVC, I managed to get her number and we got talking. Fast forward to Saturday, I called her, and just while we were rounding off, she asked what I was getting for her for the weekend? I then asked her what she wanted and she said anything reasonable. So I flipped the question. "what about you, what are you getting for me"?
Her reply was in the medieval. She said "It's men that buy things for women and not the other way around". I was shocked. So people still harbor such reasoning?
I asked if there was anything wrong if she bought me any gift too. Then she said she didn't see that appropriate.
I have so much to worry about, I don't need an able-bodied adult orphan to worry about.
Relationship isn't for extortion, neither is it a job.

Thank God I'm now an alphaman. 😆

Dailyparrot:
I have to create this thread after reading through the topic on front page asking for jobs/professions that will make you not to marry someone.

So, I'm talking to this Unizik student that's studying medical radiography. Everything was going well. She even told me that she has told her mother about me and all. We met on Facebook and she's already asking to see me in person.

Until the day she found out that I use my car for Uber/Bolt business, everything changed. This girl stopped talking to me.

She has never been to Lagos and does not know how Uber works. She was asking how much I earn in a day, and that hope the Uber is not like their normal school cab that charge 100 naira per person, bla bla bla.

Well, I just don't want to let her know my net worth. I don't do Uber full time. I work on Fiverr and because sales dropped there, I decided to use Uber to make up for the income. I also do academic research for foreign students. Etc. I am into a lot of stuffs that fetch me nothing less than 400k a month so I don't think I should be regarded poor.

My house in the East is at roofing level. I am almost completing the payment of 4.5 million for a land I'm purchasing at Mowe, I own my car plus another Sienna I bought when Fiverr was booming.

I have a masters degree. So, should a girl reject me because I use my car to drive on Uber?

I am just laughing at her ignorance. The other time, we were talking and I jokingly asked her why she's putting on make up, and she was like, so she can find better suitors.

I thence assume I am not a better suitor because to her, I'm poor. This is someone earning 8k per month in the school that she was teaching during ASUU strike.

I wonder why women are impatient when it comes to taking decisions and that's why most of them regret later.

I am supposing being a medical student makes this girl think she deserves someone better than just a cab driver.

LOL.

Ndubuisipaul1:
my fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married . She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me .

let me tell you how this started. my younger told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow . But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)

I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when will get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.

She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose . I told her I would choose my brother ( she could see the seriousness in me).

And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .

This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me .

We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.

So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?

Nairalanders please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ?

funso111:
I don't know if this is the appropriate place, but I will appreciate if it can be pushed to FRONT PAGE, I needed cash urgently and borrowed 10k to pay 14k in 2weeks.my due date was 4/1/21,that was this week Monday. I was somehow indisposed, I had sore throat and fever,so I could not make the payment, on that Monday someone call threatened to call my wife,if I don't pay, on Tuesday 5/1/21 I got this message. "YOUR LOAN HAS BEEN OVERDUE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE EMBARASSED YOU ARE ADVICED TO MAKE YOUR PAYMENT SOON. GOCASH" And latter a lady call and said did I saw her message? I told her that was hard.just a day and you are saying you will embarrass me,be professional. Next thing she said was who are you,you are a debtor,you don't deserve respect. so I don't know how a debtor is treated?and I reply her to show me how. .By afternoon yesterday 6/1/21 she called me,and I told her i am to show me how to treat a debtor, Again she started her talking rudely, by this evening I was in the church we people started calling me,that which company did I ran away with their money, .So I as someone to forward the message to me.this is the massage sent to some of my contact. "IF YOU KNOW ALUKO FOLORUNSO ON 07038307221. KINDLY INFORM HIM TO PAY BACK THE MONEY HE IS OWING GOCASH BEFORE THE END OF TODAY, TO AVOID POLICE CASE. AS THE ABOVE NAME HAS BEEN REPORTED AS A CRIMINAL ON THE RUN WITH A COMPANY'S MONEY. LEGAL DEPARTMENT.",,.my loan got due for less than 2 days , and they are sending this kind of messages. Gocash is a trading name under SOKOLOAN, PLS BEWARE OF THIS ORGANIZATION. IT IS A COLLATERAL DAMAGE FOR THEM, I HAVE CONCLUDED UNTIL HE SEND ANOTHER MESSAGE TO THE PEOPLE ,TO HERSELF. I DON'T HAVE BUSINESS WITH THEM,

opanco:
I have never done this before but current situations got me jittery. I need help with a good job. I have a good Bsc. I graduated with a 2.1 Am an orphan. I struggled to go to school. Now I finished. A good job is hard to find. It seems because I don't have someone highly connected I can't get a good job. I need help. Am 34 years. I need to make headway in life. My mates are married. I have been doing small small jobs here and there, from one State to another but they don't seem to break the ice. Please if you can be my destiny helper, I will forever appreciate. Am computer literate and a graphics designer. You can reach me on 07034930579

Slime7:
Hi guys,
I need your advice on this. It is causing issues in my 2 years relationship.
I came to Lagos in 2018 after my NYSC. Prior to that, I had plans for my older sister to come stay with me, considering how difficult things were.
Note that my married eldest brother was in Lagos before then. I understand that maybe he needs his privacy, but he didn't help in any way (he didn't have to).
 
When I got the apartment, I met my girlfriend while she was serving in Lagos. My older sister has yet to move in with me, but I have mentioned to her not once but twice that she will soon come and live with me.
 
I will also like to mention that my elder sister was living with her boyfriend before I came to Lagos. This doesn't seem right to me or to her.
 
She moved in, and we were living together peacefully. Along the way, she broke up with her boyfriend. About 6 months later, she got into another relationship. The man seems interested in marrying her. And they were making plans for settling down. Unfortunately, she got pregnant out of wedlock for the man. She had to move in with the man.
 
Now this is where the issues begin. After a few months (after her childbirth), they always have issues. They go on and off. Two times they had issues; she carried her bag and came to my place. Two times it happened, and she stayed with me for not more than two months put together. This didn't go well with my girlfriend. She complained that my sister is always in the picture, and she doesn't like that.
 
The third time, the man abused my sister, and he beat her up. I went to the man's house with my "married eldest brother." We fought with the man and threatened to arrest him. He pleaded, plus the neighbors and the landlord too. That night, we took my sister away from him. My sister chose to stay at my place until she gets an apartment for herself and her kid.

This really annoyed my girlfriend. She always says things like, "My family does not respect me." That's why my sister can move in to my house knowing that I am in a relationship.
"Why does she like to stay with me and not my brother?" "Why do I have to always be the one to bear the burden?" Note that my sister works, and she can take care of herself and her kid. She just needed a place to stay until she got her own apartment.

She feared that my sister could just move in with her bags when we get married, which I have assured her is not possible.
She claims she likes her space and all. She claims she doesn't like the "on and off" as sometimes she may want to spend a "lone" time with me. Spend weekends... and this won't be possible when my sister is around.
She claims that she has never seen a scenario where an older sister with a kid is leaving with younger brother.
She always give instances where she has never seen guys in relationships allow their older sister to come stay with them.
She claimed that sometimes I should "man up" and say NO to her. 
 
Is she overreacting? What did I do wrong in all of this? Am I being manipulated? Is her anger justified?
 
N.B My sister has gotten a place for herself and has moved out.

justyhere:
Let's trash this talk once and for all

What do you think?
Is Marriage an achievement?

StrongAlphMale:
“If your business is not moving, or you are not upwardly mobile at your job or in life, try this principle:

Stop wasting your money on your girlfriend and start spending on your mother. My brother use your head, Nothing opens heaven’s window for you like honouring your parents

“Don’t be that weak man who is easily manipulated by ‘don’t be stingy’. Girls who use that lines are satanic destiny destroyers. Such girls are full of entitlement mentality and are complete liabilities. You don't need a parasite. Once a girl uses that line, mark and permanently avoid her!”

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Sweetplum:
God loves a cheerful giver. When you give, you v down a seed of blessing.
Especially those that are dating. Don't ask her for sex in return for money or gifts you give her. If you need sex, go to brothel if you are unmarried.
I actually appreciate men who give me gifts without expecting anything in return from me. I v prayed for them and they are seeing the results.
Asking a girl to open her pant cos you feel you v given her money or helpful to her is an height of wickedness. Such a man is like a loan shark! Girls are to be pampered like eggs. We are very harmless.
Guys, give females money as if you are giving your relations. The economy of Nigeria and developing countries has automatically put a lot of ladies at disadvantage in earning or working like men.
So....be nice.
Give and don't look back when you give to a female.

There's no blessing attached to giving to a lady you're dating, except she's your wife...
If you want to give, go out there and give to the needy.


Lastly,
I know some boys here that are wicked ll misquote me. No p.