Okortor: A fool will always remain a fool, why not also demand full refund from all the oloshos you have slept with.......you guys see Christianity as a joke because of its peaceful and Christlike nature. Can you try such with the head slammer's religion?
quisera: Smiles...una can quick conclude on this cheating matter ehn . But truth be told bros, e get the way person go don go through a lot with you, you sef go feel obliged to step up in their time of need.
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Hmmmm, I strongly agree with you... Then she deserves it.
quisera: E no easy to be man at all... my babe's phone just got bad and she's on my neck for a replacement. I've told her she'll have to wait for a week before getting a new one. I hate any unplanned expenses
It's not your duty to replace her phone, she has parents, check well, she's cheating on you.
Gadafii: First of, that girl no be virgin like she claimed, secondly you be mumu for renting a place for her, paying for her upkeep and utilities
Also, that gangster neighbor of hers has given her hot doggie and spread her wide like eagle, she downplayed her cheating by telling you she only cuddled and no sexxx😂😂
Another point, I want to put it to you that while she was riding him, his dick slipped out and she hurriedly put it back inside and moan gleefully 😂😂😂
Also note that, she’s not all what you described her to be in your first paragraph, but as a weak man she made you believe so, 😂😂😂
Lastly she Dey use the money you sent to her take cook better soup for the guy man, wash his clothes and clean his house, I fear who no fear women
Lastly, it’s foolery for you t think the guy is below you, you think it’s by nice cars, apartment or money abi… you Dey craze
Girl you rented house for, paid her upkeep including utilities, is giving another guy who definitely hadn’t bought anything for her Mouth Action and hot Bleep and you are still here talking about you are above such guy You must be a naive simp 😂😂😂
I will drop my pen here and wait for the more experienced elders to contribute
Dont mind him, the other guy is the boss here, hitting and enjoying his gf for free while he does the spending....
I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman. She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.
I looked forward to engaging her this year.
One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.
In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband. However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.
Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC. She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound. She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her. When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.
Fast forward February. She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious. She begged me and told me it will never happen again. But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off. Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.
But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!
I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed. She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me... She has been crying and begging me.
It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.
Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.
This said guy is really below me in terms of everything. I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment. I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep. And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?
Omo Na wa for girls. Very funny people. It's disgusting to even see talk to her...
All those things you are doing to her, start doing it to your sisters, less privilege, poor and needy, spending on your gf attracts no blessings... Quit wasting your resources, imagine you dey pay for ASHAWO house rent, what a shame
I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman. She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.
I looked forward to engaging her this year.
You might be richer than the guy, but the guy has more of street OT. You think money can buy a woman's loyalty, the lady is with you because of the financial benefits she's getting, stop doing all those things, she will dump you... SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU OR RATE YOU... WE KNOW YOU WILL SURELY TAKE HER BACK, AND SHE WILL STILL CONTINUE TO GIVE OTHER GUYS BJ, LATER SHE WILL KISS YOU WITH THE SAME MOUTH. YOU HAVE REALLY SUFFFERED, DUMP HER NOW OR SUFFERING AWAITS YOU.
One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.
In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband. However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.
Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC. She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound. She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her. When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.
Fast forward February. She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious. She begged me and told me it will never happen again. But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off. Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.
But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!
I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed. She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me... She has been crying and begging me.
It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.
Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.
This said guy is really below me in terms of everything. I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment. I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep. And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?
Omo Na wa for girls. Very funny people. It's disgusting to even see talk to her...
What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.
I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.
NO NIGERIAN LADY IS LOYAL, I PITY GUYS SPENDING THEIR HARD EARNED MONEY ON THEM.
A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.
I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.
They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.
The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.
I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.
Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.
I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.
MaxInDHouse: According to God you're not to determine what happens to your tithes God said bring it to His house and not to the needy. So if you don't bring it to His house you're still owing Him the tithe!
Bahamas95: Some girls don't deserve to be dated not to talk of marriage, they belong to the streets.
A decent girlfriend will never leave his girlfriend to dance with a so-called celebrity right in his presence.
One of my ex girlfriends sometime ago cracked an expensive joke and I ended the relationship that minute.....We were taking a walk one evening and she pointed at a night club and said "baby I am broke o, can I go and hustle in that club tonight?"
I didn't say anything, most times I don't talk when I am very angry because I could do something deadly. I kept my cool till we got home and calmly asked her to get her bag and get outta my house.....She was shocked and started begging that she was only joking, I didn't listen to her. She even invited neighbours to beg me but that was the end.
I am happily married now, I got no business with useless girls.
I just learnt an act of discipline from this your comment... Na REAL man you be...
TopNotchTrends: While performing a stage, Omah Lay beckoned at a girl to join him on stage which she did and he rocked her to the displeasure of the girl's man.
This has led to a broken relationship as the guy left the event without his girlfriend.
TopNotchTrends: While performing a stage, Omah Lay beckoned at a girl to join him on stage which she did and he rocked her to the displeasure of the girl's man.
This has led to a broken relationship as the guy left the event without his girlfriend.
guobe: I initially intended gifting 10,000 naira to five people but I feel it will go round to more people if I gift 2,000 naira to 25 people. If you were earlier successful in the earlier 20,000 naira gifted recently to guys please dont participate as I will ignore you. Please if you really don't need it allow people that need it to get it. The country is currently very tough but God got our back. Thanks and may God bless us all as I will commence distribution of the 2,000 naira to 25 people soonest.
Gracelander: I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.
Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.
I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong?
What a shame, you couldn't even feed yourself, your guy has been feeding you all this while, "there are more broke girls in Nigeria than guys"
Gracelander: I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.
Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.
I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong?
He even told you not to return to his house, he's a great guy, as for me, i won't say anything, I will blacklist your number before blocking you on all platforms..... You must be a flirt.
guobe: 200,000 naira have been sent to me by a good samaritan to distribute to 20 guys with the sum of 10,000 naira each. The criteria for getting the money as instructed by the donor include the following,; 1.must be struggling 2.Has not insulted others while trying to make his points. 3.He is not an ethnic jingoist and sees every other person as a fellow citizen with whom he merely has a disagreement over how things should be done. You can show interest and I will do a background check on you and if you are found worthy, you will be picked. Thanks and may God bless us all .
PLEASE I'M STILL HERE OO, I try as little as possible to give out to the needy too in my own little way, so if I receive this 10k, I will go out and buy 2 or 3 people breakfast/lunch
Obavoh: Being a family man with 5 children and a Pregnant wife is not easy.
Here are the jobs I do to survive myself and family
1) MARKETING JOB: I do this part time and what I earn with this depends on how many products myself and partner sells. Usually between ₦ 25,000-₦ 50,000. On one good month I earned as high as ₦80,000.
The job is not easy as we have to travel and trek long distances just to reach new customers. You will talk and explain until your mouth dries up and some customers will not still buy.
Our boss is nice and gives us good food after each outing.
5kids in this present economy Please just stop shaving kids oo.... Please
HanisahZuwy: I would like to know how a lady who doesn't have sizable butt or let say a lady who has tiny butt and very tiny boobs, how can such a lady attract a man. We all know men are attracted by butts and boobs, either both or one of them. So, someone who doesn't have any of those, does she stand a chance in attracting or getting a man? How can she do this? How can she get a man? Please, I would like to know. Thanks.
If she has good character and will give me peace of mind, I don't mind
Sxyhalima: im in my late 20s my boyfriend is in his early 30s
he is a great guy, he earns a good amount, he has a good job, he is ambitious, he spoils me (buys me lavish gifts), he loves and supports his family, he cares for me when i am sick, he is intentional about me, he speaks multiple languages, he is educated, and more.. he is my perfect guy and he is so handsome too, i feel like i've hit the jackpot. he isn't perfect, but neither am i, but he has great potential.
i have 3 issues
1) his family
his mother, these are the issues that have happened
A. when he took me on our first trip abroad i sensed that his mother wasnt really in suport of it, which i understand. some mothers may not think it is wise to spend lavishly on a girl you have just started dating. Also, he started to use my picture as his display picture on imessage because he liked how I look, I also used his too. but then this happened.. his mother and his aunty held a family meeting with him and asked him why I am allowing him to control me and commented about the holiday and the display picture. B. I kind of got the vibe that his mom wasn’t happy about the fact that he spent new years eve with me at a party as opposed to at home praying as usual with her C. Valentine’s came and when the gift he delivered for me arrived, his mother (as a joke) asked “where are her gifts” and asked him why he doesn’t buy her gifts. And then she started enquiring on our valentines plans D. She wanted her son (my boyfriend) to go to her with to a church to pray that the relationship is God’s will (she is very spiritual and goes to church every day) and when her son told me I thought it was weird. I have no issues with her going alone, or even him going alone, or us two going together, but the fact that she and him wanted to go I felt it was weird. So then I invited myself to come to the church with them and then as the day that I was able to come was a week day she said she had to go to work on that day. So that my boyfriend offered to pay her what she would earn in a day so she could come. She agreed. But then she said she would meet us at the church and make her own way home, instead of us going as a three. And then when I just felt that was weird too, I expressed my concerns to my man and said that I wouldn’t go to the church and then he said he wouldn’t go to the church with his mother and that was a huge issue, she sent him paragraphs upon paragraphs of messages and was very unhappy about it. They didn’t speak for months, because of the church issue and other arguments they have had E. I noticed that they don’t talk to each other via message anymore, and im wondering whether it is because of the profile picture and he said they just prefer to talk via the phone F. Since then everything has been fine, but that is because he has stopped talking to his mother about our relationship and has kind of distanced himself from her. Also other things surrounding his family have come to light, I have found out that his mother doesn’t talk to any of her siblings she has 3 of them (for over 20 years) and has fallen out with most of her friends. She also had a bad marriage herself that ended in divorce. My boyfriend doesn’t talk to his older brother and hated his dad because of how he treated his mother. To the extent that, my boyfriend is biracial (half white) but refuses to acknowledge that he is white because of how much he hates his dad. His younger sister also has bipolar disorder and I am wondering if these things are genetic. I don’t know how comfortable I feel marrying into this family, what if his mother and I have a misunderstanding – will she stop talking to me for years? Will his little sister have an episode that puts a strain on our marriage? G. The family also really, really depend on him. And I am concerned, if we do progress in our relationship and move to the next stage – how will they cope when he is gone, because I don’t want to share my husband. I wouldn’t want to be in a situation where he is being a husband in 2 households. There is nothing wrong with having a son who is a main figure in the house, but he really does play the son/husband role in their household.
2) appearance Like I said earlier, he is a handsome He is handsome but he isn’t exactly my type in terms of appearance and how I’d like our future kids to look
3) job It was always my dream to marry a doctor, or someone really rich. Im not a gold digger, but like I said earlier, he is a provider. But he still lives at home. Im interested to know how much of a provider he could be for me and our future family when he is living alone 100% paying his own bills and mortgage, because his disposable income will go down. I feel like I’d feel more confident marrying someone who was living independently and able to fend for themselves 100%
thats another thing, his mother diddnt even want him to move out because he supports the family she wanted him to stay at home and help pay off her mortgage
i get the vibe that she feels im taking her man away
Tell us what you are bringing the table, or are you just at the receiving end? The guy is acting like someone under a spell, he couldn't spoil his mum, but he's busy spoiling his gf..
Nawa for some guys ooo.. Marriage only favors ladies. Sex is the only thing you're offering him
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Demanded Return Of Tithe From My Former Church – Abuja Man by obinnazy(m): 12:09pm On Mar 17, 2024
. But truth be told bros, e get the way person go don go through a lot with you, you sef go feel obliged to step up in their time of need.
You must be a naive simp 😂😂😂