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TV/MoviesRe: Still On The Wedding Party by Obiomon: 1:02pm On May 17, 2017
Like if u didn't read that epistle grin
Share if you did undecided

BTW Leeme cum and be going tongue
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 4:18pm On May 14, 2017
*Sigh embarassed had to fill the spaces of unread posts!!! Anyways how's my papi's doinghuh Sbeen a yll tongue
RomanceRe: by Obiomon:
Ilegend Oya na grin.
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 6:01pm On May 01, 2017
georgeben205:
Lolzz, well i don't know about your area, i use NTEL monthly unlimited and my speed is out of this world, and i also use smile for back up.
checked their website they said it's only located in Abuja logos and pH.. So I no no weti de stop this people from going nation wide.. People DE like me wey ready oh..
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 5:54pm On May 01, 2017
georgeben205:
And what do you mean by extended your play time?
what don't u understand, play time or extended?
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 5:52pm On May 01, 2017
georgeben205:
dis u use the vpn to do it? if yes how and btw my average speed is 5 mb/s and it doesn't even dream about buffering.
no, without vpn 5mb?? shocked laaaawwwwdd... So people DE wey de enjoy fast life for this buhari period! why me cry
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 5:47pm On May 01, 2017
ladykilllar:
Mehn i wish i could get this game from someone mehn, to download no be beans
..was able to play 2 ps 4 games nba 2k17 and 2k16 obviously grin and extended my play time grin
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 5:30pm On May 01, 2017
ladykilllar:
Mehn i wish i could get this game from someone mehn, to download no be beans
I had it for my android before but later deleted it.. But enjoying it on my iPhone now grin awesome experience.. BTW I actually used that gloud app and I flexed nba 2k17 and 2k16 yesterday.. georgeben205 I had it to work for me but the network was annoying despite the 300 to 400 average speed! It was just buffering anyhow angry
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 12:28am On May 01, 2017
ladykilllar:
Nba 2k 17 dey? If yes please what's the size?
2.64 g
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2017
Thuna:
Online games suck...
I swear down bro. And it just happens that every new HD games released recently is always online.. Na only 2k games I trust for all these vendors.. Make them no fail me for nba 2k18 oh.. I no go just laugh
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 3:22pm On Apr 30, 2017
thesuave10:
Dude free these men here. They're just deceiving themselves. First they say they're not pick up artists but all their methods are the same. It's just branding and re branding. Lol. Worst of all some of their are wack while a hand full are pretty good. cheesy
u angry
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 1:36pm On Apr 30, 2017
georgeben205:
haha, 200kb/s na wash.
lol seriously grin
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 1:20pm On Apr 30, 2017
georgeben205:
make sure you have a super fast internet connection (4G RECOMMENDED) and if you click on a game a note will come up "you have not constituency, can not start the game, please constituencies " then click on fast speed, another two selections about speed will come up again choose the one to your right and chill. after that you will be asked to select yoir server. choose the sever with the lowest users and boom.
yes have been through this procedures it keeps opening the VIP and svip bla bla , am using airtel with an average speed of 200kb/s, of course that speed should work fine right ?
PhonesRe: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Obiomon: 10:37am On Apr 30, 2017
[quote author=georgeben205 post=56054600][/quote]still can't play the game even when am connected to a server when I click play it goes to show me some VIP stuffs where I could buy more coins and I don't know what to do from there again .. what are the steps , please do anyalyse em on how to fix this

venahoro
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Sky Rocket Your Success With Women. by Obiomon: 4:26pm On Apr 26, 2017
Bumbae1:
IRAQ grin e dey work
u wan relocate
no, thank u very much grin

I rather go to boko Haram's headquarters grin well, if u dont, I still love the dude typing u this... undecided
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Sky Rocket Your Success With Women. by Obiomon: 3:43pm On Apr 25, 2017
Bumbae1:
Maybe it doesnt work in nigeria
Here it does grin
and where is that?? Jamaica? grin
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 7:45pm On Apr 22, 2017
ThatFairGuy:
Alright, I trust your generousity. No iota of pretence et ol... smiley
hihihi grin I want to pretend that I understood your last sentence.
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 3:35pm On Apr 22, 2017
ThatFairGuy:
You mean it. Then invite me for food in your house grin
yes, let's do this grin
RomanceRe: Lose Her by Obiomon: 5:41pm On Apr 21, 2017
slimthugchimee2:
Just in case gini undecided
sorry I don't speak French grin
RomanceRe: Lose Her by Obiomon: 5:36pm On Apr 21, 2017
Just in case undecided Someone should wake me up when it gets there grin
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 1:03am On Apr 21, 2017
ThatFairGuy:
One of the stingy Nairalander spotted grin .
grin No, am not
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 8:35pm On Apr 20, 2017
Incrizz:
Hahaha..while I was busy asking everyone, "can I come and eat Easter rice and chicken in your house?" grin
grin thank God u didn't ask me
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 5:08pm On Apr 20, 2017
Incrizz:
Hi, 'missed you too

Don't mind either...
Happy Easter..grin
Lol. hope u had a good one?? Well, I ate alot of chicken tongue
RomanceRe: (A MUST READ)3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 7:50am On Apr 19, 2017
Ncsamuel:
Nice one op. Was finding it difficult to express mesef since i was a kid,cos i stutter and ppl laugh and mock me . And it has affected my entire life, i tried to change myself but i couldnt and i was depressed,lonely,couldnt make friends and felt unacceptable to the society. But when i learnt to accept mesef the way i am and i dont care, my life changed
yeah. You very right, I had Same thing when growing up and it robbed me from a lot of things that would have made my life better. But later I learnt to accept my self and live my life forgetting about what others think, I began to improve in my self expressions and my confidence grin
PoliticsRe: Throwback Wedding Photo Of Rotimi Akeredolu & Betty In 1981 by Obiomon: 7:02pm On Apr 18, 2017
Halo Incrizz, just thought bout u! cheesy

Happy Easter grin

Don't care if it'd coming late cool
Romance(A MUST READ)3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 6:54pm On Apr 18, 2017
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” ~Bruce Lee

I have always been timid when it comes to expressing myself, speaking my mind, and standing up for something. This stems from being raised in a culture where showing emotions is frowned upon.

Nothing I ever did seemed good enough. There was constant criticism that I could do better, and be better. I was raised to never to talk back to my seniors and not to say anything when I had nothing nice to say.

So I’ve always played it safe and stood by the sideline, and I never wanted to rock the boat. And sometimes, when I’ve felt like saying something, I’ve wondered if people would even care.

Because, frankly, sometimes people talk just for the sake of talking or because they want attention, and that bothered me. However, I also envied those who could just say what they think and speak their truth, even though I may or may not have agreed with them.

Nonetheless, as years passed, the more I stayed mummed, the more horrible my body and mind felt.

I eventually became depressed. I felt like no one cared, I didn’t know who I should be, and I felt lost. Not wanting to blame the past anymore, I knew I needed to find something to take me away from this darkness.

Along the way I found Bodytalk and yoga, and these were the things that helped me get out of my depression and helped shift my mindset. As I became more engaged with these activities, my inner voice grew stronger and stronger, and it wanted to come out and express itself.

I began to accept myself for who I am, and soon, much like Katy Perry, I was ready for the world to hear me “Roar.”

The Problem

It took me forever to express myself in both writing and speaking because I felt like I had to craft the perfect message to sound smart, funny, and diplomatic. By the time I was ready to share my thoughts, the conversation topic had gone and the moment had passed.

Yes, it’s great to be thoughtful but Come on! I would tell myself. Stop bottling up your thoughts and start expressing yourself without care.

I’ve learned to nurture my voice and not spend so much time crafting my message and worrying about what others think.

These are the three philosophies that have helped me get out of my head, let go, and start expressing myself.

1. The only person you need to impress is yourself.

Yes, it’s scary to put yourself out there to potentially have people judge you. But if you know who you are and what you stand for, does it matter what others think, when you know your truth and what it means to you?

The truth is, if you are comfortable in your own skin, what others think of you probably won’t bother you that much. After all, you will always have people who will be for you or against you, so why not stand for something and just be you? What’s the worst thing that could happen?

“In the end people will judge you anyway, don’t live your life impressing others. Live your life impressing yourself.” ~from Raw for Beauty

2. Stand for something.

This is important. It allows you to let your personality shine. It’s also the foundation of your values, which help shape your identity, allowing people to connect with you and enabling you to surround yourself with like-minded people for support.

Remember, no man is an island, as John Donne wrote. We, as human beings, need to interact with another and need each other to find fulfillment in our lives. So stand for something to build your world of lovers and ‘haters,’ instead of having no supporters or challengers to help you grow.

3. Let go of the outcome.

Sometimes we say things or do things because we want to get a certain reaction or action out of people. However, keeping in mind we have no control over anything in life (except for our actions and our responses), why not speak your truth?

Your body and mind will be grateful because you are being honest with yourself. In the end, whatever happens, you’ve got nothing to lose because you have honored your truth. No regrets.

“Say what you wanna say, and let the words fall out. I wanna see you be brave.” ~Sara Bareilles, Brave

Have you ever felt like you were holding back from speaking your truth? What helped you?
EventsRe: The Wedding Invitation Card Seen In Gombe State (Pictured) by Obiomon: 5:45pm On Apr 18, 2017
Theresa1990:
hehehehehehe

no b small thing oooo

abeg when re we carrying out this very plan
sooooooon, when the time is right... wink
Career(A MUST READ)3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 5:43pm On Apr 18, 2017
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” ~Bruce Lee

I have always been timid when it comes to expressing myself, speaking my mind, and standing up for something. This stems from being raised in a culture where showing emotions is frowned upon.

Nothing I ever did seemed good enough. There was constant criticism that I could do better, and be better. I was raised to never to talk back to my seniors and not to say anything when I had nothing nice to say.

So I’ve always played it safe and stood by the sideline, and I never wanted to rock the boat. And sometimes, when I’ve felt like saying something, I’ve wondered if people would even care.

Because, frankly, sometimes people talk just for the sake of talking or because they want attention, and that bothered me. However, I also envied those who could just say what they think and speak their truth, even though I may or may not have agreed with them.

Nonetheless, as years passed, the more I stayed mummed, the more horrible my body and mind felt.

I eventually became depressed. I felt like no one cared, I didn’t know who I should be, and I felt lost. Not wanting to blame the past anymore, I knew I needed to find something to take me away from this darkness.

Along the way I found Bodytalk and yoga, and these were the things that helped me get out of my depression and helped shift my mindset. As I became more engaged with these activities, my inner voice grew stronger and stronger, and it wanted to come out and express itself.

I began to accept myself for who I am, and soon, much like Katy Perry, I was ready for the world to hear me “Roar.”

The Problem

It took me forever to express myself in both writing and speaking because I felt like I had to craft the perfect message to sound smart, funny, and diplomatic. By the time I was ready to share my thoughts, the conversation topic had gone and the moment had passed.

Yes, it’s great to be thoughtful but Come on! I would tell myself. Stop bottling up your thoughts and start expressing yourself without care.

I’ve learned to nurture my voice and not spend so much time crafting my message and worrying about what others think.

These are the three philosophies that have helped me get out of my head, let go, and start expressing myself.

1. The only person you need to impress is yourself.

Yes, it’s scary to put yourself out there to potentially have people judge you. But if you know who you are and what you stand for, does it matter what others think, when you know your truth and what it means to you?

The truth is, if you are comfortable in your own skin, what others think of you probably won’t bother you that much. After all, you will always have people who will be for you or against you, so why not stand for something and just be you? What’s the worst thing that could happen?

“In the end people will judge you anyway, don’t live your life impressing others. Live your life impressing yourself.” ~from Raw for Beauty

2. Stand for something.

This is important. It allows you to let your personality shine. It’s also the foundation of your values, which help shape your identity, allowing people to connect with you and enabling you to surround yourself with like-minded people for support.

Remember, no man is an island, as John Donne wrote. We, as human beings, need to interact with another and need each other to find fulfillment in our lives. So stand for something to build your world of lovers and ‘haters,’ instead of having no supporters or challengers to help you grow.

3. Let go of the outcome.

Sometimes we say things or do things because we want to get a certain reaction or action out of people. However, keeping in mind we have no control over anything in life (except for our actions and our responses), why not speak your truth?

Your body and mind will be grateful because you are being honest with yourself. In the end, whatever happens, you’ve got nothing to lose because you have honored your truth. No regrets.

“Say what you wanna say, and let the words fall out. I wanna see you be brave.” ~Sara Bareilles, Brave

Have you ever felt like you were holding back from speaking your truth? What helped you?
EventsRe: The Wedding Invitation Card Seen In Gombe State (Pictured) by Obiomon: 5:01pm On Apr 14, 2017
Theresa1990 Where u hiding?? cheesy come hiah o

We can do better than this, let's start making plans now grin We have Lamborghini planned out already... This is next
RomanceRe: Nigerian Bride Gets A Mercedes From Her Ghanaian Groom At Her Wedding. PICS by Obiomon: 12:11am On Apr 05, 2017
Theresa1990:
obiomon hope u re seeing this
lol am seeing it oh!! Nice ride embarassed don't worry on our wedding day I we not cry o cheesy I we tears of joy

Well, my dream car is a Lamborghini grin ...

Make sure u don't forget tongue
RomanceRe: by Obiomon: 12:04am On Apr 03, 2017
iLegend:
Hahaha! You wey be Lara boyfriend. I dey watch una. grin Make I just keep my virginity as e dey.
na me virgin pass u bros tongue
RomanceRe: by Obiomon: 6:57pm On Apr 01, 2017
larabae13:
tongue I'm taken grin
yessss ilegend don gather courage make the move!!! Thumbs up brother

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