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ennyj01:i need the past questions too emmanuelobiora11@gmail.com |
OMOIBUKUN:I need the past question 08092971281 |
silverkings:awsome! i just read someone saying the pay was increased , how true is it? |
silverkings:so one can take the online lessons from a mobile phone? |
silverkings:wow that's cool, so they pay you 60k a month for 3months while you learn from home and then after that you proceed to OJT what was the online training like? how many hours a day, how many days a week, what happens if you are unable to join the online on a particular day , say for instance your data ran out or no light? |
silverkings:how was the online training carried out, is it remotely like you can do it from home or do they have a designated location? |
simplesss:add me to the group 08092971281 |
My thoughts on this is, this lady probably kept the pregnancy a secret from the said boyfriend for these three months, it would have made things easier for her if she didn't. I wouldn't advise anyone to abort a 3 months pregnancy or older, i lost a very good friend last month because of that, i dont care how difficult having a baby would have made her life, death is worse. My advice, she should keep the baby, since her family is aware, am assuming they are willing to support her, she can start making plans on how to raise the baby with their support, i know it wont be easy but the risk associated with abortion at this stage is far too high, who knows, having the baby might turn the table on her current relationship with the father of the child, unless both him and his family are just irresponsible, in which case she is better off without them. And lastly, just an advice to ladies, hiding a pregnancy from a man till its too late is neva a good gamble, its better to find out early if the guy will accept it or not, you could still come back with a baby after 9 months and still be rejected. Although am strongly against any man that denies responsibility for his actions but then again its better to leave such an irresponsible man in the first place than to insist on marriage and end up as a domestic violence victim. Just my thoughts tho |
My brother, your fears are very valid, but like most people here already pointed out, if your wife is going to cheat, she will, cousin or no cousin, now these are some things i would consider 1 what if wifey isn't really into your cousin under any circumstance, and having him around will prevent her from seeing other people, like an ex for instance or some new guy checking out a lonely married woman. 2 having your cousin around might also be beneficial like others have pointed out earlier, he could help your wife around the house, a four bedroom duplex is a lot of space to leave a young woman alone in, she'll eventually seek out company, good or bad, so unless you are also thinking of a way to fix that, leaving her alone is not advicable. now what i would advise get a third party, someone who can check the relationship between them and also be honest with you if there is any issue at home that your wife or cousin might not open up to you about. I would also strongly advise discussing the matter with your wife, you dont want her feeling like you only want to keep her in check while you go and do whatever, also assure her that you'll be faithful too and make plans on how to keep in touch constantly cuz i think thats the only way maintain a long distance relationship. Lastly, and i dare say most importantly, try and understand that mistakes can happen, no body is perfect so just encourage each other and make room in your heart to forgive if an honest mistake occurs as am sure you would expect her to do so if the mistake is from your end. I wish you the best, and hopefully everything works out for both of you in the end ![]() |
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