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I rep naija and we rock![quote author=searching4love post=31253567][/quote]

So the thing pain you.... Hahahahahahahahahahahahah
Abeg go and sit down, fake Nigga like you, you should be on Trisha, no wonder you r "searching4love", foreign girls my natural black booty

searching4love:
Who the Bleep are you

O seriosly, I've read your comments a thousand times and boy you really are coming of as a cracked up cd plate! Come off it man, if you're happy tapping that foreign that's your juice to swallow don't keep whining about it like you're trying to prove something to yoursefl, if we check well now, you're probably one overblown white woman's boytoy

searching4love:



OP YOUR ARTICLE REEKS OF PURE IGNORANCE AND SIMPLY SHOWS HOW LAZY AND DEMANDING NIGERIAN GIRLS OF THIS GENERATION ARE

BEEN A RUNS GIRLS IS A CHOICE EVERY GIRL HAS TO MAKE DUE TO PEER PRESSURE IN SCHOOL. WE HAVE SEEN GIRLS FROM WEALTHY HOMES WITH REASONABLE POCKET MONEY DO RUNS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PARENTS.

ALL YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE WAYWARD AND MATERIALISTIC IN NATURE. YOU ARE ALL PROMISCUOUS AND MENTALLY LAZY TO THINK OF A LITTLE BUSINESS TO START UP IN SCHOOL.

INSTEAD YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS SEE RUNS AS A EASY WAY OUT AND YOU START JUMPING FROM DICK TO DICK ALL IN THE NAME OF MAKING A LIVING.

THIS IS WHY I DECIDED TO MARRY A FOREIGN LADY.


#TEAM FOREIGN GIRLS

He also needs to confess to the elders in his church, its part of the bible's requirement for steps for atonement of sins, then he would be remmoved from being a pastor (that is if his church is really christ like) there's no way he would still poineer over the church after comitting such grave a sin. That I guess is the hardest part, the part where you will be suspended from leading a congregation, cos you have sinned against flesh and against God.
But you shaaaaaaa, a whole "pastor" I mean; duh, we all know its a taboo to communicate with an ex, not to talk of visiting her alone and giving her the "kiss of life" , but for you? "Come one, what were u thinking? I concore with the fellow who said you went there with the intention of doing exactly what you did; confess that one too, no go begin lie say "it was the devil"

jnrbayano:
The people you sinned against are the people you owe confession, they are also the people you expect forgiveness from.

Those people are your wife and God.

----Wife because she is your body. You belong to her and vice-versa.

----God because he is your God and he hates sin.

Whose name do the kids bear? Dakore's or her Bf's? What happens to their "bastards" when they decide to stop playing the ostrich game?
If you're going to stay blissfully single in fornication biko leave d kids out of it, stop stringing them along in your selfish scheme to be in vogue.

Op, be careful about who you listen to, some "advices" are just that; AD-Vice, they adds more vices than virtues to an already messed up situation, I'm not in a position to give u anything, if you have been with the guy for two years then that's time enough to KNOW him, therefore that puts u in a better situation to decide on what to do, I'm a stong believer of sorting every issue out with prayer first, and going with the flow, if it were me, I'd let the issue simmer for a while untill all of my emotions are in check, then I'd cook him an awesome dinner, buy him his favourite red win and ask him the question over a few laughs, if he had a friend over while I was away, if he says no, I'll pop in the question, if he denys been aware of such I'd show him the trash, already sealed off as exibit a , and mind you, having known him I'll know if he's lying, omo if he still deny, I'll smile and ask him to enjoy his dinner, then I'll go awol. Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.
But that's me sha.
Disclaimer notice: try it at your own risk

rman:
An emotional rant.

You are not intelligent and logical enough and also assume you must be a teenager.

Ask the elders in your environment , if they are being truthful, they should have enough stories for you.

Mind you, I am not in support of what the guy did, I just a realist and won't break off a two year old relationship bound for marriage because of condoms in the trash.

thankfully I am surrounded with elders who that fills my head with sound enough reasons to come to a very logical conclusion; "shrewd is the one that has seen calamity and proceeds to conceal him/herself" if he valued the tow year relationship he shouldn't have brought a LovePeddler into the house in the first place, he shouldn't even have allowed his friend (if that were the case) use his house as a brothel, so don't sit down there and condone cheating because of your over inflated male ego, if a patner cheats, walk away! There was a reason it was said "that the only ground for divorce and remarriage is adultry". But then again, ur "elders" probably didn't tell you that

rman:
Nairaland romance section is full of hypocrites.

I have noticed everyone just seems to be perfect. They don't cheat and seems to have partners that do not cheat.

Cheating should not be condoned but it is how you handle the situation when it pops up in your relationship that will define how successful your relationship will be.

Reality is men and women cheat, A LOT! Unless, people on nairaland are not a true representation of what is out there which makes majority of the advice posters get to be rubbish and impractical.

I also want to assume many of the dump him, he is the devil are either not in a serious relationship or they are actually dating the perfect cheat.

oga abeg go sidon, u just open ur mouth and begine to mouth rubbish, is it by force to be in a relationship? If a man or woman can't stay faithful to their patners they should steer clear of comitments now shoo, geez that's why I love me them cassanovas, they'll tell you straight up that they are not ready for a retionship, that this is strictly a no strings attached kinda deal and the patner either takes it or fashi, why plan to marry a girl and then begin to cheat on her and even b dumb and unmanly enough to bring another woman to the crib u share with ur patner, do two rounds and dump condom in trash, seriosly, who does that?!
Guy please read between the lines and call black black, no call am grey

Meringe:
Condom might be used for so many reasons. So you don't just conclude.

Moreover, he's a man. Though I don't support cheating but sincerely I think a man is polygamous in nature, but what matter is that the man in question respects you as a woman.



For your own good, stop sniffing around. If you leave him, how sure are you that your next man wouldn't be worst.

You can confront him in a matured way but have it at the back of your mind that many men cheat even though their wife might be more beautiful than their cheating partner.

Though it takes courage for a man to remain faithful.

hmm... Tsk... Tsk...tsk... I pity the woman that sees you and runs home to mama and say "mama I've found the man I want to marry" that'll be a collosal error

Well presented,I feel like I'm a tourists there myself, seeing everything in my own eyes, I can just well picture every sights and imagine every sound and even give a descriptive analysis on a trip to venice.
Very informative too, got some ideas for my book, thanks op
Do create more threads like this so us wanderlust souls can Imagine even if not indulge

Best post on NL yet!
Hats off to all the strong independent women who are victims of irresponsible husbands and still stay married to such once sotee they begin feed,clothe, and shelter am, con even born his children... There's a special place in heaven for such once.
But mehhhhhhn I no mad wey I go allow one idiot with nothing but a "Jjohn thomas" pull that kind stunt! The minute he stops providing due to his percieved financial security of his wife,omo let him just grant me a letter of divorce because he has already lost the right to be called my husband! I mean even the bible sef talk am that "a man that fails to provide for his household is worse than he without faith" so what exactly is your role as the head of the family and a husband if you shift your responsibilities to me when nothing do you? Just to cure konji? If na so omo park well o, there r a million and one ways to sort that out without you being there abeg!
If a man parries his responsibilities for no viable reason to his wife then he has just sucessfully emansculated himself because his God-Given role as aman and a head is to PROVIDE for his family spiritually, materially,emotionally and what have you while the woman is to act as his complement; the neck to his headship.
#take it or leave it

The result of Too much inhalation of evostic and movie crawling on fast and furios

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ammyluv2002:
Not really sha. .. Only thiGod can give a faithful partner

first of all madam this is a very shit arsed comment! What has god got to do with it, its a very simple question requiring a very simple answer, ur saying infidelity is not really bad provided he's providing for u undermines ur requesting for a faithful patner, afterall u don't really c it as bad, and as you mr nairaland poster ar you asking the question to know or are you asking just so u'd get entertained, this is by far the dumbest question ever!! What extraordinary thing have you done if you provide for your family? If you can't provide for them why have them in the first place, if you can only provide and not stay faithful to your family then don't bother getting married and having a family,you should just stick to runs girls, they need people like you! Just saying, no beef intended